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Although they are the right people, childhood sweethearts, it is not as good as the opinions and repeated difficulties of the older generation in the familySo Lu You had no choice but to take a break from Tang Wan. Later, the two remarried under the pressure of their families.
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Because Tang Wan couldn't give birth to Lu You, Lu You's mother disliked Tang Wan, so she forced the two of them to divorce.
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Mother blamed Tang Wan for Lu You's failure in the exam, thinking that Tang Wan and Lu You's relationship was too good and affected Lu You's learning.
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Because of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem. Du Fu is a traditional filial son of Guda, so when his wife can't give birth and his mother is forced to die, he can only choose to divorce. It's a pity.
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Because although Lu You and Tang Wan have a good relationship after marriage, Tang Wan has never been pregnant.
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For Lu's mother, although the niece is good, it is still important for the descendants of the Lu family, and some people's provocation forced Lu You and Tang Wan to divorce.
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Another reason is that Lu's mother dislikes Tang Wan for not being able to do things and not knowing how to be polite
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The two were indeed very harmonious, but they were forced to break up due to the relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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Because of love. When Zhao Shicheng and Tang Wan met, Tang Wan was immersed in the pain of Lu You's separation, but Zhao Shicheng didn't care about her past at all, let alone that this woman couldn't have children, and passed on to her family. So the two young men got married.
When Zhao Shicheng took Tang Wan to the garden, he met Lu You, an old man who Tang Wan couldn't let go. At this time, after Lu You divorced Tang Wan, he had already married several concubines, but he didn't bring him a different love affair like Tang Wan back then.
What makes people sigh is that this Tang Wan died depressed not long after seeing Lu You, but Zhao Shicheng never married her for the rest of her life. On the other hand, Lu You married several concubines after Tang Wan.
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It's just that there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Lu You's mother doesn't look at Tang Wan, Lu You is a dutiful son, and he can only obey his mother.
Tang Wan and Lu You are cousins, and they often play together, so they are childhood sweethearts, and their relationship is extraordinary, and they have set up family affairs since childhood. Because Tang Wan is a talented woman, she knows Lu You's articles very well and knows his needs. After the two of them are together, the relationship between the young couple is very good, and they stick together every day.
But Lu You's mother was not satisfied, her daughter-in-law didn't seem to be very sensible, and she should have persuaded her husband to focus more on studying, so that she could gain fame and glory to her ancestors. However, she took care of her own enjoyment, and now the two of them spent most of their time on fun, forgetting to study, and naturally her mother-in-law was very dissatisfied. Later, this mother-in-law must divorce her wife by Lu You.
In ancient times, most sons were very obedient to their mother's words, and if they were not filial, they would be pointed at and scolded by others. In the end, Lu You chose to give up love, gave up his favorite, and gave his cousin a divorce. After Tang Wan was retired, she was taken by another man, who was still a royal nobleman.
The man loves her very much, and even if there are no children in common, the relationship is still very good. Later, when Lu You visited Shen Garden, he met Tang Wan, remembered the story with his cousin, and wrote a poem.
Actually, I think some of our marriages are similar to the marriages of the two of them. If your wife is not compatible with your mother, some of them are more stupid and filial, or they are more mother-in-law, and they should choose to give up their wives and choose their own mothers. Therefore, when choosing an object, don't choose a mother's man, don't choose a person who has no opinions, otherwise you will ask for hardship.
Women are all vulnerable, and when choosing the other half, keep your eyes open.
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The credible claim is that Tang Wan has been infertile. In ancient times, unfilial piety was the greatest, and Lu's mother couldn't accept the reality that Tang Wan couldn't continue the descendants for the Lu family, so she strongly asked Lu You to divorce his wife.
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Because Lu You's mother doesn't like Tang Wan. In addition, Tang Wan did not give birth to children for Lu You, and Lu You's mother used this as an excuse to ask Lu You to repair Tang Wan.
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Because Lu You's mother was not satisfied, this couple would end up in divorce, I think it's really a pity, if it weren't for his mother, a series of tragic things wouldn't have happened later.
Zhao Shicheng was a royal family of the Song Dynasty.
Hairpin head phoenix, Shen Yuan (one of them, two of them).
Li Qingzhao. Lu You is from the Southern Song Dynasty.
Li Qingzhao (March 13, 1084 – 1155?) ), No. Yi'an Jushi. >>>More
Lu You and Tang Wan are cousins. Later, they became husband and wife, but they were forced to take a break by Lu You's mother, Tang Wan married Zhao Shicheng, a descendant of the Zhao Song royal family, and inscribed the poem "Hairpin Head Phoenix" in Shen Yuan, which ended up depressed.
After being divorced by Lu You, Tang Wan met Zhao Shicheng who really loved her in the second half of her life. With Zhao Shicheng's love and care, Tang Wan's second half of her life will not be miserable. If you have to say that it is miserable, a large part of the reason is the pain brought to her by Lu You's negative heart in terms of feelings, and the wind and rain brought to her by Shen Yuan's reunion, the specific analysis is as follows: >>>More