They all say that they want to be themselves, but how do you count as yourself?

First of all, you must respect your own wishes, do what you like, and realize your dreams, so that you can be yourself.

You should love yourself, love yourself, do what you like, and don't blindly follow other people's arrangements.

To be yourself, you must first stick to your own principles, be assertive, understand what you are pursuing, and not be influenced by the outside world, but you can listen to some opinions and run towards the goal.

To learn to live independently, you can think independently, have your own life goals and plans, and make unremitting efforts to strive for it, and never give up.

Everyone wants to be themselves, and there is nothing wrong with it, but life is the short of parents, firewood, rice, oil and salt, there are things that have to be said, meals that have to be eaten, and <>

Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke pointed out that to be good at yourself, you must start by enriching your spirit.

Becoming yourself requires some personal awareness and exploration. Here are a few suggestions:

1.Dig deeper into yourself: To understand yourself, you need to take the time to think about your interests, values, strengths, weaknesses, etc. You can help you understand yourself better by reading books, keeping a journal, and reflecting on past decisions and behaviors.

2.Develop a positive attitude: A positive attitude can help you be more resilient in the face of challenges and difficulties. You can develop positive attitudes by adopting a positive thinking pattern, such as seeing negative experiences as opportunities or challenges for growth.

3.Accept yourself: Accepting yourself is the key to becoming who you really are. This means accepting and appreciating your unique traits, including aspects such as appearance, personality, and background.

In the end, it takes time and effort to become your true self, but it's also a rewarding and satisfying process.

Do your own things well, why care what others say and think, you can never manage others, but you can manage yourself and do your own things well.

What to do yourself? Follow the heart. You must have the right mentality, you feel that I did the right thing. Then you should be bold and do it, if you feel that you can't do it, you must not be able to do it, don't listen to those gossip.

First of all, to be yourself, you must have a wealth of knowledge, and then you have to use your brains more when you encounter problems, so that you can be a well, clear yourself, you should take care of the idle things, and don't take care of the idle things that shouldn't be managed.

That's because the people around you don't believe in you, so they follow whatever you do.

Why? Be yourself. What to do yourself? Be yourself. That's it. When you do something, you must think about whether it will hurt others. Don't infringe on the interests of others.

To be yourself is to stick to your own ideas. Don't let others change your mind.

There is a good saying, no one says behind anyone's back. Who doesn't talk about people in front of them? If there is something to say to others, change it, and if there is none, it will be encouraged.

Don't worry too much. Just try to do as good as you can. To do a good job of yourself, you must first establish a correct outlook on life, values, and worldview.

Get the right direction. According to your actual situation, set goals that meet your own needs. Then work hard.

People are different from each other in terms of their own conditions, family environment, etc., so it is impossible for people to be the same. Don't compare yourself to them. You know if your shoes fit or not.

What will I do in the future and in what direction will I develop. Know for yourself. Do your own thing first.

If you have the ability, you can help others. That's it!

First of all, if we want to "be ourselves", we need to have an understanding of ourselves. Know what kind of person you are and what you want to be.

Secondly, to make Suidou understand the environment in which he lives, how can he act freely if he does not understand his living environment? Then, know what you want and how you should get it.

Take your attention away from some of the more negative places, find a few good books, take a good look, and read some every day; Find and bend some more positive people, talk to them more, and get some positive energy from them.

In fact, this is a process of understanding oneself and understanding the social appealing clan. Everyone is not born knowing what they like and what they want to do in the future, so in the case of sticking to what they are currently doing, give yourself more time to truly belong to yourself, and let yourself find what you like.

Some people are very painful, saying that they have never really been themselves, not to mention the expectations of their parents, the judgment of teachers, the responsibilities of leaders, the requirements of friends, etc., as if what they do is not suitable, how they do it is not perfect, they are very tired, they are at a loss, and they feel that they are very ...... failure

In fact, we inevitably have to consider the feelings of others and take care of other people's requirements in our spring work, but this is not the only criterion for our own success. It is true that at a certain stage in life, we especially need some success learning to cheer ourselves up, but this is not the whole of life, and we will not become copies of others.

The first reality we need to face is that we are an ordinary person, we have our own preferences, our own aesthetics and cognition, which are all our own, unique, distinctive, and tasteful. It is already good to affirm your true existence, ordinary people, with different joys, sorrows, and sorrows from others, are so unique.

Then, what we need is to stop from time to time and look at what we have missed and answered, and it is not up to us to return to Hu Hui what many things in life have done, but we can have the final say on our own content. It's good to be yourself!

Being yourself is a "creation" and a keystick, not looking for "answers"!

A person ultimately becomes himself and is a dynamic and unique process. In this process, we will develop and improve a relatively stable personality, integrate our internal conflicts, and move towards self-realization step by step. —Plastic Me

People are malleable, and a person's growth process is from scratch, a dynamic process, and vitality. This dynamic also means all kinds of uncertainties and unknowns, that is to say, human growth is a complex system, then, we cannot face this complex system with simple processes.

We as human beings are living beings, not machines. This also explains why we are reluctant to be tool people.

Doubt? Since human growth is a complex system, what should we do to better grow and elevate?

Live in the moment and live up to the time.

I think it's best for a person not to be overly influenced by the external environment, and at the same time, he needs to have independent discernment.

How to be yourself is actually a very large proposition, and for each person, different people will have different understandings in life. For small children, they may think of being able to laugh and play as their own. For adults, adults may think that being themselves is able to have an independent living space.

In a sense, if a person can do what he wants in his heart, he or she is already himself.

First, the person must not be overly influenced by the external environment.

This makes each of us individual, but we ultimately live in a collective environment. In such cases, our judgment may be influenced by external circumstances, and we will make some decisions that are applicable to the group. When a problem arises, if we can stand up to our point of view and not be influenced by external circumstances, we are already ourselves.

Second, the person also needs to have independent discernment.

Independent discernment, while very simple to say, is very difficult to do. Just imagine: when you encounter a problem, if 99999 people think you are wrong, and only you insist that you are right, will you still insist on your own opinion?

Most people in life are just ordinary people, and it is very difficult to gain independent discernment, and you and I will make appropriate trade-offs when thinking about problems. <>

3. The person also needs to feel his true existence.

Being ourselves is a very conscious issue, and in our study and work, we not only need to invest a lot of time and energy in these things, but also need to have a corresponding sober mind. Because of the abundance of this form of entertainment in modern life, there is less and less time for people to calm down and think. In such a situation, it is actually very difficult to be yourself, because many people simply do not have the time and opportunity to feel their real existence.

Stick to your own ideals, stick to your inner thoughts, go to work and study according to your own ideas, and make friends, so that you can be yourself.

I think it's about doing what you want to do, and you don't have to look at other people's faces, and that's living your life.

Always remember that "you define you, you shape you, you become you", move forward bravely, and dare to be yourself.

Irigari argues that "there is only one gender – male" and that women have no identity of their own, and living for others becomes a tool for self-formation.

In ancient times, there were women who were not talented and virtuous, and now there are "female drivers, leftover women, female oak celery men..."”。Women have long been accustomed to the labeling of "being disturbed and defined" and "being perceived", and if you want to stand up, you need to dare to break the label, dare to please yourself, and be your own self that is not defined.

I don't care what others say, whether it's praising me or slandering me, I don't take it to heart because I'm doing what I love. ”

It is very incomplete, one-sided, and even maliciously distorted for women to know themselves from the perspective of others. Women put themselves first, whether they approve of themselves, and whether they are sacrificed are the first issues to consider, not what others think.

Dare to speak out and take the initiative to explain what women should be like, which is the deeper inspiration for women to be themselves.

Advertising, television, self-public platforms and other social platforms should actively provide more opportunities for women to speak out and shape the diverse roles of women. On the March 8th Goddess Festival, "True Heart Camellia Party" gives women the opportunity to express their demands from a woman's perspective, which is of great positive significance.

When women have a strong heart and self, these pedantic social standards are illusory for them, and self-liberation is the real standard.

I have had a dream of martial arts since I was a child, and I can use my body to use my fists and every battle to shatter the sound of suspicion. "May we all dare to speak up and dare to be ourselves.