When encountering things, how can you not be at a loss?

In our lives, we will always encounter big and small problems, some problems we can solve by thinking of some methods, but some problems we can't solve, then our psychology will change, we will become at a loss, do not know what to do. In fact, not panicking when encountering things is also a sign of maturity, since things have happened, we need to adjust our mentality, face up to this matter, so what can we do not be at a loss? Let me tell you about it!

1. Psychology

In today's fast-paced society, many people have certain psychological problems due to the huge pressure, which was not so serious before, but now it has become a problem worthy of our attention. I don't know if you have seen on the news that some people choose to end their precious lives because of some things, this is a manifestation of the lack of strength in their hearts, they do not understand that life is greater than everything. Therefore, when we encounter something, we must learn to calm down and think about ways to solve the problem, going to the stadium for a run or listening to a song can help relieve our stress and adjust our mentality.

2. Inquiry

We all have problems that we don't understand, and our parents have experienced them, so we can choose to ask them and see if they can give some advice. In this world, Mom and Dad love us the most, we must not hide ourselves when we encounter things, we must know how to ask others, maybe they have encountered such problems. At the very least, asking questions will make you feel less overwhelmed, and it's a smart way to ask someone for advice.

In general, there is still a long way to go in life, we encounter some things to be calmly analyzed, of course, it is a good thing to be moderately nervous, but don't be at a loss, so that you are not mature enough, everything needs to be taken slowly. Hope mine is helpful to you!

When you encounter a problem, find a quiet place and think about how you can solve the problem, so that you will not be at a loss.

That is, we must be calm, and we should not panic when we encounter things, because only by calming down, can we think clearly and quickly think of ways to solve problems.

If you want to encounter things, you will not be at a loss, then when you do not encounter things, you must accumulate energy for yourself, and you must continue to work hard every day to accumulate wealth.

You must force yourself to calm down, think carefully about the problems you are encountering, and think about how to solve them.

In normal times, we should pay attention to independent work, learn to think independently, cultivate self-reliance, and calmly deal with difficulties and setbacks, so that we will not panic.

If you don't want to be at a loss, then you have to make yourself more capable and don't panic when you encounter things.

Three suggestions:

The first point is that you must not panic when you get along with him, otherwise he will treat you even worse.

The second point is that with him, you just have to act according to your conscience, the key is to go with the flow.

Third, the root of all human problems lies in man's excessive concern for himself. Therefore, the only effective way to get rid of this problem is to forget oneself. When you devote yourself to your work with a spirit of selflessness, concentrate on things other than yourself, integrate your personal life into the life of all human beings, shift your focus to it, dedicate yourself to your ideals, beliefs, and careers, and contribute to the continuous progress of mankind, you will be able to transcend individual existence and achieve universal existence, transcend the finite and reach the infinite, go beyond the struggle for self and achieve the struggle for the freedom of all human beings, so as to live without worries, live satisfactorily, live unrestrained, and live naturally. Live with hope and achieve stable and harmonious happiness.

Selflessness is the highest state of the human spirit.

This situation is actually nothing, the main reason is that you have just entered the society, especially when you enter the mixed environment of the factory, they have different levels of education. What you have to do is to have a good relationship with grassroots employees, first of all, you have to understand the work of each position of employees, understand their difficulties, learn more about the workshop, in order to communicate with them, establish their own prestige, this is the most important thing.

Some employees are very dissatisfied with you because you are too young and are still their leaders, of course, they feel unconvinced, and language conflicts can easily occur. You can find an opportunity to go out for a drink with the master you offended, pay a loss (don't be too embarrassed), communicate with him about his work (first you have to know the details of his work), say how hard his work is, and say some small compliments. Let go of yourself before others can accept you.

Young people have no social experience, and young people should keep their heads down. The problem you mentioned is very common, some skilled workers who have been working in factories for a long time feel that they are technically very good, and they show their importance to those who don't understand. So you should be respectful, the more he squeezes you, the more respect you will have for him, you will get benefits and care, you have to let him get up, your purpose is to do light work, make more money, generally you say that this kind of person is a big man in the workshop, get him OK, usually make a glass of water, if you don't smoke, you don't buy cigarettes, you have to call the master.

It's useless to brush the sex.

In fact, I also have your experience, this problem is very common in the factory, the old qualified employees have a lot of xenophobia, this is just their self-confidence in the heart, afraid that you will threaten his position, in general, most of the people are good, you have to be patient, see people's hearts for a long time, specifically, you don't just one-sidedly be interested in some people, you have to integrate you into the whole collective, as long as everyone is not disgusted with you, carry forward your good character, don't be afraid of things, are all part-time workers, are paper tigers Strive to do your part well, use your achievements to prove your status and prestige, leaders want obedient, employees who can do things, take care of you from above, support you from below, and no one can do anything about you.

It is recommended that you put down your own shelves, get along with your subordinates to be approachable, and usually you should behave modestly and learn from others.

You, as always, treat him as you would like to him, and see the hearts of the people over time.

Let's get off the hook

This trick is amazing! * Hee-hee-hee ......

See if you feel it, if you have it, give the other person a smile, and don't accept it if you don't feel it at all.

Pretend to be stupid, and you're going to get over it anyway.

When relatives and friends have something that they can't do, or when they encounter misfortune and they can't do anything, it is the time when they are most helpless and the most vulnerable. Therefore, when people live, they must work hard, and when something happens that needs to be solved by themselves, they can have the ability to face it.

There are a lot of things that make me feel at a loss, and every time I come across something that I feel like it's hard to solve on my own, I feel overwhelmed.

Most of them are work-related, interpersonal problems, and because they have no experience, they are more likely to have problems.

Child...

All the little ones, well-behaved, naughty ...

All types of imps, although they are very good at playing with them, interacting and communicating, it is easy to play together, and it is easy to get their like, but when I see them approaching them, I am at a loss...

And then ......That is, when a person deliberately approaches Curcuma and forcibly chats... They don't have a relationship.,This person insists on pretending to be very familiar with them to show others.。。。 This situation cannot be handled.

And ......Eating in the restaurant, I turned around and went to mix the water by myself, and when I came back, I found that the seat was occupied...

Hugging or veneering with someone you don't know (except for girlfriends).

There are a lot of situations where I am at a loss, and I can't say enough...

When it comes to trucking, you're at a loss.

Invite a friend to dinner, and the phone goes out of battery when you pay.

I think when facing things, you have to be calm, what you said about being at a loss is a manifestation of your own lack of ability, you are not prepared in advance, that is to say, you are not competent, and you are not qualified in your current state, so you should leave this position as soon as possible. Many times, we say that some positions, it is okay to sit there, but the result is that once we really arrive, we find that we have no ability at all, or the strength can control the whole field, it requires a long-term accumulation process, and it requires non-stop exercise, without this, we can't deal with a lot of thorny problems.

I was supposed to win the exam, but I failed the exam.

Anything can make me not know how to deal with it, such as raising children, her lack of emotion, action and language can always surprise me.

What can make you feel overwhelmed? For you, it is the first time you have encountered, the first time you have faced, and the first time you have done it on your own, which may make you feel at a loss, or even a clue where to start. For example:

The first time you cook, you don't know how much rice to put and how much water to put in the right way; Scrambled eggs, I don't know whether to put oil or eggs first; The first time I learned to swim, I was thrown into the pool by the coach and waited.

When I'm not exposed to this kind of thing, or something that is difficult to deal with and has serious consequences.

I didn't bring my wallet with me when I went shopping at the supermarket.

Unknown environment: No phone, no money.

Something I've never been exposed to.

Things that can't be solved ......

The person you love, he or she has an outside heart.

For example, there is an emergency at home, and the child is sick.

In my eyes, everything is easy to do, it's all small things, that is, whenever I meet my mother and wife because of a little thing, the two of them are entangled endlessly, I am completely at a loss.

In life, I sometimes will be at a loss, for example, when the child grows up, he has his own ideas about going to school, he doesn't listen to you, you say one sentence and he has two sentences, you want to enlighten him, don't let him talk to others, but he thinks I'm incompetent, tell him, let him study hard, don't be like me who didn't get admitted to the school and have a low level of education, he said that you didn't get in, don't you live like that? In short, there is always something to deal with you, so I am at a loss and don't know how to educate my children?

Improper excessive dieting** leads to hypoglycemia.

The boy I like is going to have a birthday, I go to the cake shop and buy a delicate little cake on the bus to school, because the rush hour of school is crowded, standing in the carriage, gradually feeling nauseous, nauseated, dizzy, no one notices my painful white expression.

I wanted to fall down, but I had a habit of cleanliness, and I still had a cake in my hand for someone I liked, and I just insisted on getting out of the car, and I was in a cold sweat.

But when I gave him the cake, I was still so happy that I couldn't help myself.

No one understands me.