Why would anyone choose not to get married?

Because I want love.

In fact, the right person is easy to find. You make a list of your own conditions, make an assessment, and you will probably know what kind of person you are suitable for. For example, if you have a graduate degree, then you want your partner to have a better education, for example, if you are a relatively high-paying job, the other party's income must be similar to yours.

Then after listing these conditions, we will see if there is a suitable one around. If the circle is relatively small, you can ask more enthusiastic colleagues or friends to help see if there is a suitable one around them. The other party must also know your conditions and help find a similar one.

The two understood each other's backgrounds thoroughly before they met, and then met to see if they could talk. Basically, you can see it in one meal.

However, I've always hated the way it is. Since I was a child, I liked to go with the flow of many things. I don't like to force it very much.

That is, I don't like things that have a strong purpose. The kind mentioned above will make me feel very purposeful. The bad guess is that I just wanted to find a girlfriend or boyfriend, and you just showed up, and that's it.

It's not that I like you very much, I just want to be with you, and I firmly choose you.

felt that marriage should be, thousands of mountains and rivers, that person walked a long way, walked alone, and was not looking for it. You are also walking alone, you have all walked through your own mountains and rivers. Then, all of a sudden, one day we met, and you saw him and thought, it's him, and he's the same.

Then you change your course, choose a path that suits each other, and walk together.

Instead, we walked and walked, and felt like this person was all the way with me, so let's take a walk. I'm not very fond of this.

Marriage requires a firm choice. I just want to be with you, I just want to go with you, no one else. It's you.

Before I met you, I felt that I was very comfortable and comfortable alone. It's also more repulsive for people to intrude into my life and disturb my purity. I find it super annoying.

I'm so happy myself, why do people always bother me. So, if a person is so good, why should I get married? I am not short of money or fun, I am a very interesting person myself, I can live my life very colorful, I don't need another person to make my life complete, because I can make myself complete.

However, it is different when you appear. I want to live with you. I want to eat instant noodles with you, and I don't want to eat instant noodles by myself, no matter how delicious they are.

No, I don't want to eat instant noodles anymore, if I have you, I'm willing to make as many delicious dishes as you want, give them to you, and eat them with you. I want to stay at home with you, I like to hang out so much, I can stop playing, and I'm at home with you, stained with fireworks. Walking around the vegetable market with you, I feel beautiful when I think about it.

So, it's not that I don't want to get married, it's that I haven't met that person.

Throughout my life, I've tried to make my life interesting. Then he appeared, and I told him that we would have an interesting life together. You don't need to be just as interesting, as long as you're you, that's fine.

You don't need to be good, I just like it.

Some people like the freedom of being single, they have been single for a long time and are used to being alone, and suddenly a person intrudes into your life and will feel uneasy, especially when they have to sacrifice their time and preferences to please another person, they feel irritable and impatient, and they feel that they are no longer as chic as before, so they choose not to get married because they don't want to be bound by marriage. And some people, he longs for the warmth of home and the company of his confidant, so it can only be said that the pursuit between people is different.

I still believe that there is love, and I also believe that after the water is completed, they will get married and stay together for a lifetime. Some people don't get married because they haven't met the person who made him want to get married. Marriage is a big deal, everyone has to think about whether to marry that person, whether that person is suitable for you and can be with you for a lifetime.

Although this sentence sounds cliché and seems to be a little false, "it is better to lack than to be excessive", and love is indeed something that everyone should consider. Once you meet the right person, it is only a matter of time before you get married, and this kind of person pursues the self-principle of not compromised, preferring a high-quality single rather than a low-quality marriage.

Moreover, there are still some people who don't get married, because their own conditions are limited, they have been picked by others, and they don't have the right to take the initiative to choose. I don't know very well why the current society will form a kind of abnormal atmosphere if you don't get married, in the face of you reaching the age of marriage and childbirth, your family will urge you, friends will urge you, and even strangers will ask you when they talk to you, whether you have a family or not, so when you reach the age of marriage, men and women who are still not married are still under great pressure.

Here I want to talk about a real case around me, my uncle's second daughter, that is, my second cousin, seven or eight years ago when she was twenty-four or five years old, she has been urged to marry by her uncle and aunt, because it is a rural family, so the idea of "the eldest woman should marry" is even more stubborn, the second cousin in order not to worry her parents, married a man who has known him for less than half a year, and gave birth to a son for him. According to the calculation of the second cousin, there should be no problem with this man's salary to pay these money, but this man can't take out the money at all.

Later, my cousin found out that this man had always been a gambler, and she had already owed more than 200,000 gambling debts outside, and she didn't notice it before, and he was also married, and his ex-wife left him because of his gambling, but because he had a child, his cousin was soft-hearted, and he didn't want to have a mother not long after the child was born, so she still stayed with this man and persuaded him not to gamble anymore, work hard and start again, the sad thing is that the result intensified, and the man even went to his aunt's house to ask for money to gamble, and threatened his uncle and aunt that he would commit domestic violence against his cousin if he didn't give money, but as you guessed, he could only divorce in the end.

It may be that people have been living in a mode of life since ancient times, and marriage and childbirth have become a hard indicator, and once someone violates this principle, it will be regarded as deviant and abnormal.

There are various reasons why someone would choose not to get married, and here are some possible reasons:

1.Personal values and lifestyle: Some people may think that getting married is not something they have to go through in life, and they prefer to pursue freedom, independence, and personal development.

They may be more focused on their careers, hobbies, and personal growth, rather than being too tied down by marriage and family.

2.Don't want to take on the responsibilities and pressures that come with marriage: Marriage is a responsibility and commitment that requires both parties to share the burden of family life and finance, as well as the challenges and pressures of married life.

Some people may not want to take on these responsibilities and pressures and choose not to get married.

3.Fear of marital failure: There are various uncertainties and risks in married life, and some people may be afraid to face problems such as marital failure, divorce, breakup, etc., and choose not to get married to avoid these risks.

4.Personal preferences and sexual orientation: Some people may have no interest in the opposite or same sex, or are uncertain about their sexual orientation, and these factors may also influence their marriage choices.

In short, everyone's outlook on marriage and values are different, and the choice of whether to marry or not should be decided by the individual. For those who choose not to get married, they can also live well and have their own lifestyle and happiness.

Sooner or later, you will start a family, get married, and have children. Not married? Is that what I chose? Isn't that not the case? Why not eat minced meat.

Because everyone has different views and expectations about marriage. Some people think that marriage is about fulfilling their feelings, not binding themselves, so they will choose to marry the person they love. Some people think that marriage is a duty and a contract, so they will choose to marry someone they feel fit.

There are also those who believe that marriage is a balance and sacrifice, so they will choose to marry someone who loves them.

From a rational point of view, I believe that the decision to get married should be a process that takes into account multiple factors, including personal values, life goals, family background, personality interests, etc. If someone meets your criteria, is good to you, and has a good relationship with you, it may be a suitable choice. In any case, marriage should be voluntary and require you to make the final decision yourself.

When you are choosing a marriage partner, you should consider whether the person shares your goals and values. This is very important for the stability and happiness of the marriage. Also, consider whether the person is genuine to you, if they have love and respect for you, and if they are able to support you when you are in trouble.

If you find someone who meets these criteria, it is possible to have a happy marital relationship even if you don't like him or her completely.

However, getting married is a very important decision that requires careful consideration. If you're not sure if you like this person or you have any doubts or concerns, then it's best not to make a rash decision. You can spend a while with this person to get to know their personality, interests, and habits, while also considering your own feelings and thoughts.

Only after you fully understand the other person and confirm your feelings can you make an informed decision.

The doctrine of non-marriage has only become popular in recent years. In fact, many young people now think that marriage does not mean that two people can get along, so why should they be tied up? It's not that they don't want to get married, it's that they think marriage is just a form that limits their lives.

They can live together without marriage, with children and a warm home. Why use a notebook to prove how much they love each other? Life wants comfort, freedom and simplicity.

There is no need to tie two lovers together in any form.

With the change of the times, many people now choose not to get married, mainly for two reasons: physiological reasons, their bodies are not easy to get married; For psychological reasons, this person does not want to get married from the bottom of his heart. In China, traditional culture is broad and profound.

Marriage and childbirth are not only for the sake of losing oneself, but also for the sake of the family. However, with the development of young people's society, they are paying more attention to their careers. They are not pure anti-marriage activists, but they also fall in love and have families and children.

They just don't like to associate their careers and friends with marriage.

Those who are not married are not that they do not want to get married, but that they have not found the person they truly love. People who love each other are not separated by a piece of paper. If a man marries you for a piece of paper, he doesn't love you.

Love goes beyond this piece of paper. There are two consequences of not marrying in life: one is that the most miserable person dies alone, without relatives and family.

The second is to be with people who love each other and never marry in their lives. The whole life is too long, and there are very few people who are not married. I hope that in the future fewer and fewer people will not get married.

Some women may choose not to marry for the following reasons:

1. Choice of personal values: Some women may think that marriage is not a necessary life choice, but simply a social expectation. They may be more concerned about their careers, hobbies, or other aspects of their lives than about marriage and family.

2. The influence of personal experience: Some women may choose not to try marriage again because of their past love or marriage experience.

3. The choice of economic independence: With the improvement of the economic and social status of women who have children, some women choose to live independently and do not depend on marriage and family. They may prefer to choose their own way of life rather than live according to the traditional model of marriage and family.

4. Alleviation of social pressure: Some women may choose not to marry because they do not want to face pressure from family, friends or society. There may be some negative effects with this choice, but for some women, it may be a more relaxed way of life.

In short, everyone's choices are personal, and everyone's attitude towards marriage and family may be different. The fact that some women choose not to marry does not mean that they are not interested in marriage and family, but because they know that Bu Wang has a better choice for them.

<> first reason is that "independence does not depend on anyone", some people are very independent, they like to make their own decisions, they like to control their own time, and they are not willing to be bound by the ideas and schedules of their other half, so that they can enjoy the freedom of a person.

The second reason is that "loneliness is also happy", some people like to stay alone quietly, enjoy solitude, or find something to do by themselves, such as watching movies, reading, writing, practicing yoga, swimming, etc., these are all things that make a person feel happy.

The third reason is "there is no suitable person for the cavity oak", some people have not found a suitable partner, it may be that their personalities are incompatible, or they have a different lifestyle, or they are not in the same city, or for other reasons, in short, they think that no one is suitable for them, so they choose to remain single.

The fourth reason is "fear of failure and disappointment", some people may have been emotionally hurt, or they have seen their friends fail in love, they feel that falling in love and getting married is a very risky thing, because they don't know whether the outcome is good or bad, so they choose to give up this opportunity.

The fifth reason is "personal growth and career development", some people feel that marriage will have a negative impact on personal growth and career development, because after marriage, they have to take care of the family, and it is difficult to devote themselves to work and study as fully as when they were single, so they choose to be single to pursue career and growth. As drafted.

The above are some of the reasons why people stay single, everyone's situation is different, so there is no right or wrong to choose to be single, the most important thing is to make yourself happy and comfortable. Of course, if you meet that special person at some point, don't turn down the opportunity to love, after all, sometimes love is an important part of making people's lives more complete and happy.