How do you get out of the sad state of graduation?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-07
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People always have to look forward and always have to face the society, so they must learn to grow up, and they must be brave enough to go through the experience, so that they will slowly come out of the sad state of graduation.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Where there is gathering, there must be dispersion. Graduation is something that everyone has to face. It's impossible to stay in school for the rest of your life. There will be more new things to discover when you come out of school. The horizon should be broadened and the mood should be cheerful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let yourself work hard, adapt to this complex society quickly, and let yourself have no time to think, so that you will slowly come out of the sad state of graduation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I have to cheer up, tell myself not to think all day long, and work hard to find a new job, so that I can slowly come out of the sad state of graduation.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no feast in the world, everyone needs to look forward, just keep those good memories in your heart, and you will meet better people, so you have to move forward.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Cultivate new hobbies, find a job as soon as possible, and quickly devote the sad state of graduation to work and divert attention.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After graduation, you can re-plan your future goals, work hard for these new goals, and forget about the previous sad state.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Put yourself into the work, until you graduate, you will face employment, and then when you are busy with your career, you will not have the heart to grieve anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Graduation is just a stage, you have to step over it, don't keep nostalgic for the time when you don't go to college, it won't be beneficial to your future life at all.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As I approach graduation, I will recall the moments before parting, the memories that remain deep in my heart. The moments that touched you the most back then may be the following:

    1.The scene of your family seeing you off: When you are about to leave home to go to college, you look back and see the reluctant faces of your family, and hear the warm words spoken by Wu Lu's suppressed voice, and a deep warmth wells up in your heart.

    2.Congratulatory Messages for High School Commencement Ceremony: The congratulatory messages from school leaders and teachers during the ceremony are perhaps one of your most touching moments, as they express their blessings for your future with touching and heartfelt words, and you also feel a sense of support and encouragement from their words.

    3.Special graduation party: The graduation party organized by your class may leave you with unforgettable memories, giving small gifts, actor performances, class songs, ......These are all to increase your affection for the class and the nostalgia for parting.

    4.Teacher's encouragement: When you say goodbye to your teacher before you graduate, your teacher's words are often so warm, they will encourage you, tell you what you need to prepare for the future, help you cheer you up, and make you feel inspired.

    5.Moments on campus: When you recall your past campus life, there may be many touches that you will never forget, or the classmate who is very soft in your heart gently solves problems for you, or the time of laughter and tears experienced with good friends, these are all memories that you cherish.

    In short, in this year, you have experienced growth and beauty, as well as touched and warm. Let these touches and warmth accompany you to the future and achieve a better tomorrow.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    One. The most obvious thing about the graduation season is separation, and most people's sadness may come from separation. Once the closest classmates, play together in class and after class every day, play games together after school, go shopping together, and face separation in the graduation season, regardless of age, this kind of parting will bring back the deepest memories in the heart, followed by sadness, sadness, and even regret.

    Friendship classmates may also come to each other with a sentence of "there will be opportunities in the future" to comfort each other, but in fact, they all know in their hearts that this is just a beautiful sustenance, and no one knows what the future will be. It's not just people who are separated, it's also familiar environments. You have walked through every corner of the campus, and even some places have left sad or good memories, leaving this place is like really turning everything here into memories, and you can only look for it in your memories in the future.

    In fact, everyone understands that this must come to the posture nucleus, but what if you know, sadness doesn't care whether you know it or not, it will only follow your heart to find the most appropriate time and give you a slam blow. The last admonitions of the campus teachers, the encouragement between classmates, and even the intimacy between lovers have become more and more cautious in the graduation season, as if holding a fragile sculpture, jointly protecting it from future damage. This is separation, the pain of separation.

    Two. The pain of the unknown graduation season, apart from the separation, is unknown. There is a good saying, people are most afraid of the unknown, and people in the graduation season are in the great terror of the unknown all the time.

    Graduation means that no one will be with you to face the unknown in the future, and going it alone will become the main color until it merges with the future stage of life. We know from a young age that the process is painful, just like moving, you can't decide where Mom and Dad will move their home, okay? Is it bad?

    There is no way to know, only to face the unknown. Whether the future is good or bad, that fear will always be there until the veil is lifted. The future is Schrödinger's cat.

    Of course, the unknown future is not only us, but also the classmates around us, their unknown realm is no better than ours, and their best friends are also going to step into the unknown. There should be both. The arrival of the unknown realm and the arrival of the graduation season and separation together, in no order, mixed with a brain smashed on the graduate's brain, making people have no time to react.

    Three. Growth, perhaps growth, is the least noticeable thing in graduation season. People say that growth is sudden, and at a certain moment it grows and matures, so I believe that there must be a moment when graduation season comes.

    The pain of separation, the confusion of the unknown, forcibly pushes the graduates into the growth sequence. Grow because if you don't grow, separation will be unbearable, the unknown will defeat us, life is a battle, and when you fall, you may never be able to stand up mentally. The inevitability of growth, at the same time, brings difficulties and responsibilities, the depth of difficulties, and the assumption of responsibility.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. In fact, it is not that we will be sad after graduation, but we will be sad when we leave the environment in which we live for a long time, people are afraid of change, and they will have an instinctive fear of the unknown in the future, they will be sad when they graduate from junior high school, they will be sad when they graduate from high school, and they will be sad when they graduate from college, because we are initially mature in college, and we have made some very good friends freely and casually, it is estimated that no one can get along with you for four years or even longer except for your parents and your future partner. Suddenly I have to leave the environment I am used to and familiar friends, so I will be sad. In fact, it is normal to be sad, and the boys in the university value love and righteousness, especially when they are angry.

    Bravely face the future, face the future people and things, future colleagues will get along with you for a longer time, they will also be your good friends, college classmates are more of a wealth of memory.

    Hello. In fact, it is not that we will be sad after graduation, but we will be sad when we leave the environment in which we live for a long time, people are afraid of change, and they will have an instinctive fear of the unknown in the future, they will be sad when they graduate from junior high school, they will be sad when they graduate from high school, and they will be sad when they graduate from college, because we are initially mature in college, and we have made some very good friends freely and casually, it is estimated that no one can get along with you for four years or even longer except for your parents and your future partner. Suddenly I have to leave the environment I am used to and familiar friends, so I will be sad. In fact, it is normal to be sad, and the boys in the university value love and righteousness, especially when they are angry.

    Bravely face the future, face the future people and things, future colleagues will get along with you for a longer time, they will also be your good friends, college classmates are more of a wealth of memory.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After submitting **, I felt more relaxed than ever, knowing that I must have no problem and was very down-to-earth.

    Today, I replied, but I didn't dare to say much about my testimonials, for fear that I would really leave tears I thought I would be as happy as the masses of people in the liberated areas, but it turned out that it was not, and it was an unprecedented sentimentality. I'm graduating, I'm leaving.

    Two years ago, I graduated from college, because I would stay, and the sadness of parting was naturally less.

    Two years later, I graduated again, and this time I really had to leave gorgeously, leaving my friends and my beloved Nankai.

    This week, on Tuesday, I took the first-year kids to visit the archives, young and energetic, just like me six years ago. I've really grown up, and they're just as confused as I was back then, and now I can give them answers.

    On Thursday, I went to the May Fourth seminar in the department, six years, and participated in it twice, the last time to give a report, and this time to say goodbye. At the seminar, the class song of the 10-level picture file made me feel a lot of emotion, and I have feelings for the picture file.

    I have lived in Nankai for six years, and there are too many memories of me and too much of my reluctance. I'm really leaving. When my tutor talked about our freshman year, my tears fell uncontrollably.

    In my memory, the first time we met in the business house, we introduced ourselves, I still remember your classic sentences, and I remember despising that lunch box together.

    As far back as I can remember, we moved from Yingshui Road to 15 accommodations, and we were quite satisfied with this dormitory, which is not far from the cafeteria, close to the bathhouse, and we don't have to get up too early to go to class.

    In my memory, we were in the main building, the second main building, the business school, maybe we didn't take it seriously at the time, but now we have a deep memory of some of the situations in the class, we went with the small cake quail eggs next to the fence of 15 nights, or we also took a certain ** book from the library.

    We like the new and hate the old, Xiaohu is spicy and hot, and we have never been to the opposite side of Nanyuan again; Juxiang Pavilion opened, and I no longer went to Jiangnan Ancient Town.

    We've been brave enough to try, those short-lived snack bars, we follow the map, pick the signs, but we don't remember the taste and name.

    Walking in the southwest village, also all the way sayhi, those bosses, do not know the name, but remember each other, familiar with the stranger cause.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After graduating, I realized the warmth of being in school; When I left, I realized that I was also fragile and sad. At that fateful moment, we will finally graduate. Everywhere there are touching stories and unfinished romances; The breeze was bleak, blowing off the sorrow all over the ground.

    The moment I received my graduation certificate, who remembered the tiredness of a busy day, who didn't cry, who didn't wave their hands, and who could say how they felt in their hearts; Who hasn't said a nice trip, who doesn't want to be the last person to walk out of the dorm, who doesn't want to have another class with everyone. The day of parting is not sad and emotional. The graduation certificate is a glass of wine for every student.

    After four years of walking, it seems that I have returned to the starting point. I suddenly felt that my classmates and friends around me for four years were much kinder and cuter than I imagined! At night under the stars, each one is as gentle as the wind.

    Is the door of the study room still open, the scenes are like gorgeous clip art, strung together into a movie that is about to close, ** our happiness and sorrow, recording our burning youth and past, but also witnessing our friendship and love! The life of the senior year is like having a thin layer of gray. Wandering through various choices, everyone is busy, everything is like an unfinished poem, and it is necessary to say goodbye in a hurry when it begins.

    The dormitory building becomes empty again, and becomes a symbol of infinite sadness. At the same time, memories also leave the campus and are collected in the inner box, which is our golden years and our treasure. The future is like an erratic cloud in the sky, and we, from the day we graduated, began a long journey to chase the cloud.

    Tomorrow may be wonderful, but the road may be bumpy, but no matter what, we all have a precious memory, a friendship that cannot be parted, and an experience that will last a lifetime. The parting is sad and drunk, the skin is dry, the heart is cold, and the blurred tears are difficult to break the love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, there are many things to face after graduation, employment, family, social fraud, and so on. I'm really tired.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When you come out of the campus, you know the beauty of the campus Think about the great career of the red clay after graduation when you were in school It's realistic to cheer for this It's too early to be sad Brother You can only envy the lead when you are old, and you have a sad time for a lifetime.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I graduated from university in June this year. Sadness is inevitable! Working pressure, .Life stress. Too much stress.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Graduation season is a time of emotion and memories, and the parting moment for me is the most memorable.

    I always knew that everyone would be separated in the future, but I didn't have a concept until the moment of the big parting, and then I felt that the parting was very sudden. At that moment, I felt like I had grown up and understood the meaning of the word clutch. I kept thinking about the past, a little bit of sourness.

    I suddenly realized that my classmates would pursue different paths and start a new stage of life, and my heart was full of reluctance and emotion, and I didn't know when I would meet my friends again.

    In fact, no matter which moment is personally touched by you, graduation season is a moment full of emotions and memories, marking new beginnings and growth. It will be one of the precious memories of your life and motivate you to keep going on the road ahead.

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