What are the prerequisites for marriage? What should I pay attention to before getting married?

This question is very common, but it seems that the more common the question, we can't give a simple answer. For example, what is the premise of marriage? What to pay attention to before getting married?

There is no one standard answer to this kind of question, because marriage has different meanings and weights in life for everyone.

In the past, when people got married, the two people never fell in love, and they only met for the first time on the day of marriage, and the two of them were able to help each other until they were old. Nowadays, people have the right to make their own choices, but they often divide and merge, and even divorce when there are problems in the marriage. What is the premise of establishing a marriage has become a matter of concern to everyone.

We often say that we can live with anyone, as long as I'm happy. In fact, when you really get along with people, you will find that there is really a difference between people.

Some people bring you warmth and can understand your difficulties, and some people only think about themselves and don't think of others, so if you choose to build a family with a person to live with, who do you choose? In addition to choosing a lover (of course, image and liking are also very important), we also need to have a certain material foundation, and the normal operation of the lives of two people will be implemented in the trivial things of life such as eating and shopping. No one is spared, and it is inevitable to talk about banknotes.

It is also very important for two people to be able to talk and eat together. To put it bluntly, it is the three views that we often talk about on weekdays, and if we can talk together, it is easy to communicate and resolve conflicts when we encounter differences, and the relationship will be strengthened more and more. If you eat together, you won't be bothered by three meals a day.

Huang Lei and Huang Xiaochu said such a sentence to the guests:There is nothing else to live for the two of them, just whether they can talk well and eat well. If these two points are done, basically there will be no major problems in the marriage.

I'm the kind of girl who is more realistic, I don't fantasize about the kind of life that wants love and no bread, I don't think that kind of relationship can withstand the little bit of cruelty of life. There are many examples of this around me, that is, girls are ignorant when they are young, and when they meet a boy they like, they follow others with all their hearts, and some even elope with boys, and then they have children at a young age, in this case, boys generally do not have a job, you can imagine their life after marriage, quarreling all day long, the reason is nothing more than that there is not enough money to spend, the child has no milk powder money, etc., and it will be too late to regret it at that time. <>

I think the first premise of establishing a marriage is the material foundation, now this society needs money to do everything, just your so-called indestructible love to the death really can't stand the test of real life, to get married and love each other is certain, but there must be a material foundation.

Some of the time to fall in love is very short, and some are long-distance love, but in the end, all that can come together are marriage, isn't there a good saying, falling in love without the purpose of marriage is playing hooligan, I think it makes sense. So what do you need to pay attention to before getting married, from the woman's point of view, first of all, you have to leave a good impression on your mother-in-law, after all, you will marry someone else's family to live in the future, if you don't leave a good impression on your mother-in-law at the beginning, then your future life will definitely be difficult. Secondly, it is better for girls to be able to cook, not to be so complicated and delicious, it is good to be able to change the tricks and make a little simple every day, after all, the kitchen is still a woman's paradise.

Finally, it is your property, and it is necessary to do a premarital property notarization before marriage, not to draw a clear line, but everyone has a number in their hearts.

If you want me to say, the most important premise is that both of you must have a stable income**, which is very important!

Legal analysis: 1. Marriage should be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and neither party is prohibited from coercing the other party, and no organization or individual is prohibited from interfering.

2. The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women.

3. Marriage is prohibited for direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

The prerequisites for marriage are as follows:

1. Both parties are single and have no spouse.

2. The parties are willing to marry.

3. Both parties have reached the legal age of marriage, i.e. the man is at least 22 years old and the woman is at least 20 years old.

4. The parties are not direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

1. What is the legal age of marriage for both men and women?

The legal age of marriage for both men and women is not earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years for women.

The legal age of marriage is not the age of compulsory marriage, nor is it the best age for marriage, but the minimum age for marriage, and it is the age limit that divides illegal marriage from legal marriage. The legal age of marriage does not prevent a man and a woman from postponing marriage on a voluntary basis and in accordance with their own circumstances.

The information required to register a marriage is:

1. Permanent residence booklet and resident ID card.

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3. I have no spouse and no direct blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations with the other party.

2. A judgment of annulment can only be made several years after the separation of marriage.

The validity of a marriage is not related to the number of years of separation, and the marriage will be null and void if:

a) bigamy; 2) There is a family relationship that prohibits marriage, that is, the two parties are direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations;

3) Under the legal age for marriage, i.e., the man is under the age of 22 and the woman is under the age of 20.

3. The marriage certificate is handled in **.

Conditions for the marriage certificate to be handled at the marriage registration authority where one of the parties has a household registration:

1. Men are at least 22 years old and women are at least 20 years old;

2. If both parties are not direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations, they may go to the marriage registration authority to go through the marriage registration formalities.

Those who meet the above requirements shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. If the marriage registration is completed, that is, the marriage relationship is established in the land, and the marriage registration is not completed, the registration shall be supplemented.

Article 1047 of the Civil Code stipulates that the age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women.

How can there be two people in the world who are naturally suitable, and all suitability is just the result of long-term getting along and running-in, tolerating and accommodating each other.

1."Falling in love is talking about a person's strengths, and getting married is living with a person's shortcomings. "Only when you can accept and tolerate each other's shortcomings, and are willing to discover and dig out the hidden strengths of each other from these shortcomings.

Even if you know that each other is not perfect, you still want to hold hands with him and her, go through this life side by side, and will not force each other to make changes for your own sake, and will not find fault with each other because of each other's shortcomings, this relationship can last for a long time.

2.If you feel that you love him very much, are ready to spend the rest of your life with him, can accept his strengths and weaknesses, and can tolerate his flaws and imperfections. No matter what happens halfway, I am willing to face it with him.

No matter what happens, you will not suddenly abandon him and leave alone. And he is also wholeheartedly devoted to you, from the beginning to the end. Then you can get married at any time.

Whether it's marriage or love, what we want to find is someone who can be ourselves in front of him. It doesn't matter if you cry with tears, or laugh heartlessly, beautiful and beautiful, or embarrassed, positive and optimistic, or depressed and decadent. He is willing to hug you, kiss you, hold your hand, and walk with you through this journey of life.

May we all meet such a person.

Both of them believe that marriage is a very sacred thing, not a child's play or a playhouse, and firmly respect each other's marriage and protect happiness.

If you have reached this level of love, you can prepare to get married, and from then on you will work together for the rest of your life.