People say that you should suffer first and then enjoy happiness, is there any truth in that?

First of all, people have to figure out what happiness is and what is suffering. As far as that child is concerned, learning to eat is suffering, and learning to eat can enjoy the delicious food in the world, which is happiness, which is to endure hardship first and then enjoy happiness. Learning to walk and leg pain is bitter, learning to walk in order to appreciate the beauty of the world, this is happiness, this is first bitter and then sweet.

It is only natural for people to pursue happiness. But we have to admit that there is some happiness that not everyone deserves.

If you forcibly take it, you may be able to get it, but you will probably have to suffer tenfold and hundredfold for that little happiness. Every time, after the wayward "I don't care, I want it", it may be followed by the unbearable "I am so miserable, I deserve it". So, people can not know what they should do, but they must know what they should not do.

We must know how to restrain our desires and always maintain the necessary rationality.

No matter how much you want to eat meat, if you know that your body is overdrawn, you can stop it. Otherwise, it will be difficult to return, and you will have to take vegetarian medicine for the rest of your life, how hard it is. No matter how much you like the ** expensive bag, if you know that the money on the bank card is not enough, you should bear with it.

Otherwise, why bother eating bran vegetables to save money and pay it back. No matter how much you want to play the game, if you know that the work must be done urgently, turn off the game. Otherwise, you will miss the right thing.

It's not easy to annoy the boss, whether it's repairing the relationship or changing to a new job.

All the mistakes that you "can't help but make" are because the cost is not clear, or you are deliberately avoiding it. So you indulge yourself to be driven by desires for temporary gratification. So, if it's too expensive for happiness, don't consume it.

Otherwise, it will be too overdrawn and too difficult to repay. Or, you first endure all the hardships that should be endured, and then you want to be happy after saving enough capital. Whether it's love, dignity, or freedom, the happiness you deserve will truly belong to you.

If you can't even endure hardship, how can you strive for the life you want. Bear hardships first and lay the foundation for the conditions you want to live, so that you can live the good life you want.

Kind of makes sense. After all, after suffering hardship, the blessings enjoyed will be particularly sweet. This is contrasting. And everything is regular. No one can be blessed all the time. Therefore, we still have to be able to endure hardships appropriately.

As the old saying goes, there is a certain truth in this, there is no reward for no effort, and there is no life of happiness without the spirit of hardship. Doing everything is the right way to be bitter first and then sweet.

Hardship in the front and pleasure in the back, only we do things as much as possible, down-to-earth, serious, so that is our future enjoyment of the capital, because this is the guarantee of our recognition by others. So it will be blessed in the future.

It must make sense, for example, starting a business now, it is more difficult at the beginning, it is very hard, you can't eat and sleep well every day, as long as you work hard, after success, you will be happy.

Yes, if you don't pay, how can you be rewarded, otherwise how can you have sweetness for you to eat, unless you are a rich second generation, a rich person, or you still have to get a return through your own hands.

At the same time, I also improved my ability, and I can do things well step by step, and after accumulating a certain amount of experience, it will naturally come to fruition and success.

Only in this way will we cherish our hard-won happiness. In addition, if you suffer first, your mind will become very firm, and what may seem unhappy to outsiders will also be happiness in your eyes, and happiness will become easier at this time.

Because in the process of enduring hardships, we are actually accumulating our own energy and experience, and only by accumulating certain abilities and experiences can we use these to exchange for the happy life we should enjoy.

It means bitter, as long as Zibi doesn't die, she can eat it, because there is no way not to eat it. But blessings are not necessarily enjoyable. Many people have endured a lifetime of amusement and suffering, and have never enjoyed happiness. Traces are raised.

The donkey has to work for his master, the farmer, every day, and the task is very heavy, but the farmer gives it very little feed, and sometimes it is so tired that it does not have enough to eat. So the donkey ran to Zeus, and he said:

Please let me leave the farmer! I can't stand this overload of stress and such a demanding employer. I want a new owner.

So, Zeus granted its request and sold it to a potter. The potters arranged for donkeys to carry heavy clay from the field and transport the made pottery to the market. The potter has been making pottery all the time, so the donkey has been carrying it non-stop, and its life is now more tiring than before.

The donkey could not bear this kind of life, so he begged Zeus to change its owner again: "This time you must change me to a place that is both valued by the master and very relaxed!" So Zeus sold the donkey to a cobbler.

When it got to the cobbler, it regretted what it was going to do. The owner values it very much, and that's because the donkey has a good skin. The donkey said bitterly

I'm so unlucky! How nice it would be to stay with those former masters! Now even my skin has to be handed over to this man.

I should have understood that ** work is a bit hard. "Any job has to bear a certain amount of pressure, it requires a hard spirit, if not, then you are destined to keep looking and trying, and the end result is that you can't do a single thing.

Suffering is never a blessing, suffering is suffering, it will not bring happiness, it will never bring improvement, suffering can only be hardship, not happiness.

If you want to be happy, you have to do the right thing, the thing that makes you happy.

Suffering is not a blessing, suffering is a loss, only your own loss, will not bring you anything.

1.Topic: Suffering is a blessing and suffering is a blessing.

Although suffering a loss means giving up and sacrificing, it is also a quality and a demeanor. If a person unscrupulously asks for money, chase.

Hardship is to cherish blessings, it is to throttle, blessings are still there, hardships are not losses, but you must know how to cultivate blessings to increase blessings, it is open source. Cherish the blessing and cultivate the blessing, open source and reduce expenditure, and the blessing can be endless!

Suffering can make people, and happiness can make people, as long as you understand and follow the law of cause and effect.

I will choose: endure hardship first, enjoy last.

As the saying goes: "If you have to endure hardship, you will become a superior person", when you have experienced a lot of hardships, you can improve yourself and become a strong person in life. In the face of setbacks, we can not change our face and deal with them calmly.

Moreover, only when you have suffered from the previous hardships will you know that the enjoyment you have gained is hard-won, and you will cherish the good life even more. When you know how to cherish life, you will find the beauty of life and let you taste the uniqueness of life.

Of course, when some people are not determined, they will be discouraged when they insist on doing something, just for the sake of temporary relaxation. As everyone knows, this moment of ease created his future hardships. When you see others suffering and you enjoy it comfortably, you certainly feel that others are stupid.

But when others achieve fame, they will regret why they didn't cherish the opportunity to create a better place.

Therefore, in order not to regret it, for the sake of a better life in the future, you must taste the hardships first in exchange for a good life!