What to do with an unhappy family?

The cause of the family's misfortune is not you, life is always unfair, many times we can't help ourselves, we can only try to make changes, the unhappy family can not stop us from struggling, it is the misfortune of the family, we have no way back, we have to go all out and change our lives.

The word misfortune happens in many families, and there are many unfortunate people and unhappy families in the lives of TV and newspapers. Have faith in life, you won't be so unhappy for the rest of your life, and believe that you can change all that. Rest assured that life is all fair, and you will change all that.

See if you have the ability to solve the root cause of misfortune, if the family does not object, you can try to live alone, if you are not able to solve it and can only live in the family, you can make more friends, walk around, and cultivate your determination and perseverance in the process of cognition.

It is not fair to be born, but God will open a window for you when closing a door for you, we must face our misfortune with an optimistic attitude, find the goal in the unhappy family, and work hard, we will definitely succeed.

I remember that when I was born, my family had at least 100-200w, and it shouldn't be a small amount of money to have so much money in eight years, right? If it's really unfortunate, I think it's what we brought to this family Now Mom gets up early and goes to bed late and can't sleep enough for 6 hours Although Dad can't do a lot of work now, it's mainly because he is not in good health Why is his health bad It's not for us 4 brothers and sisters to fight for their lives Do you think Dad doesn't want to make more money now? You can't feel the pressure on him now, and I'm getting older, and I can feel the pressure on him, but we're so sorry for our parents, with bad grades, bad attitude, and if it's really unfortunate, that's what we bring, because if our parents don't have us, we can live well lying down.

If we already have such an unfortunate family, we should strive to learn self-management and self-growth, so that we will not repeat the mistakes of the past in the future, and complain less about God's injustice, because it is useless, and make more friends with mature people with good attitudes, so that we can absorb good energy to fight negative negative energy in a bad environment with energy.

The failure of the family has caused the defects of life, and in the face of life, we must not give up, be the master of our own life, face life bravely, don't let the family overwhelm you, your end will not stop here. Come on!

My family of origin is not very good, my parents often quarrel, my mother is often sick in bed, and I have a younger brother who is not in the climate, so I feel that the family is under a lot of pressure, and I can change the status quo if I continue to work hard.

There are many misfortunes in the original family, but it does not affect their own development in the future, having a positive attitude will be more conducive to development, seeing more misfortune, you will cherish luck and actively create happiness, I am afraid that I have been living in complaints, feeling that the world is unfair to me, if this mentality is not corrected in time, it is too dangerous.

Adjust yourself in time and don't let external factors affect your psychology.

Life in a noHappy familycan be solved by the following methods:

1. Travel and relax: If you feel unhappy in your marriage, you may be too depressed, it is recommended to travel and see the outside world.

It can relax the mood and can increase the happiness of the couple's life.

2. Sleep separately: Many times the two people are unhappy because there is no freshness, it is recommended to insist on sleeping separately for a period of time, and both people will have their own privacy, so that there will be a sense of freshness, and they will not feel unbearable.

Love needs to be managed, after marriage, you must run your own small family together, you can guarantee that divorce and remarriage or remarriage will be happier than now, since you are married, you must believe that this person who is with you now is the most right person in your life.

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3. Shared experience: Having had a good experience together, they may be sexually attracted to each other.

Experiencing hardships together, helping each other in the midst of hardships, giving each other warm feelings, and also having sexual attraction to each other.

Expansion of desires and breaking through the bottom line In today's society, especially families with better economic conditions and lack of traditional cultural concepts, they are often easy to indulge themselves. If the so-called "rich second generation" and "official second generation" lack a good education in the family.

The relationship between husband and wife is particularly bad, the husband and wife often have conflicts, often quarrel, do not care about the children, and do not trust each other.

In general, it is very likely that they do not communicate with each other, and they are relatively indifferent to each other, especially selfish, and not united.

The wife doesn't understand, the children don't understand, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good.

As the saying goes, having a good woman in the family is good for the whole family, and if you meet a bad woman, then the family may be in trouble. It can be seen that the importance of a good woman to the family can be said to be relatively high, so what are the general situations of unfortunate families?

The first is that without a good education for children, sending children to a good school, meeting a good teacher may be able to affect the child's life, but a happy family life will affect the child's life. As the saying goes, parents are the best teachers for children, and parents are also the earliest teachers for children. Since today's children are the treasures of their parents and are held in the palm of their hands by many people, it can be seen that this practice is very inappropriate, not only will they teach him badly, but also make him develop some bad habits, he will not be able to make true friends, and he will be disliked after leaving the society.

Secondly, the relationship between husband and wife is not good, and it is also one of the reasons for the unhappiness of the family, sweet couples are very sweet, and no matter what happens between husband and wife, they will discuss each other, and there are few contradictions. A happy marriage is everyone's yearning, and husband and wife must work hard to remember in order to maintain a good and happy life.

The unfortunate family is also related to the elderly, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been an eternal topic since ancient times, this kind of family is indeed a headache, the saddest thing is this man, on the one hand is his lover, on the other hand is his mother, in this situation can only be endured. It can be seen that if you want to have a happy family life, you must not have these three situations, otherwise you will bring pain to yourself or your family. After entering a family, you need to manage it with your heart, and a happy life requires everyone to work together, if you only rely on one party to maintain family life, it will not last long.

The first type: mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, there will be a lot of disputes in the family.

Second, children are not filial. Children who are not filial enough to their parents will often be angry.

The third type: calculating. Fourth:

Negative thoughts. This kind of thinking tends to bring a lot of negative emotions.

The reasons for family misfortune are generally the following. 1. Parents are divorced, 2. Single-parent family, unsupervised, 3. Parents do not do serious work, opportunistic, 4. Parents are addicted to illegal activities such as gambling.

The first is that the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious and cannot be considerate of each other. The second is the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The third is the failure of the child's education, which leads to a discordant relationship between the parent and the child. Finally, there is a discordant relationship between the husband and the woman's mother's family.

<> I think that breaking off relatives is not a panacea for family misfortune, it may bring further psychological trauma, and it needs to be decided carefully. The key is to make a comprehensive assessment of the family situation, one's own psychological situation and social support. Only in intolerable circumstances and with a good support system in place should it be wise to choose to break off the family.

At the same time, it is also necessary to take the initiative to seek professional psychological assistance after the separation of relatives, actively rebuild oneself, and try to reduce the negative impact.

Whether it is possible to break off relatives and the misfortune of the original family is a complex issue that needs to be comprehensively judged in combination with the specific situation. The key is that:

1.The nature and severity of family misfortunes. In the case of violence, abuse, or other serious harm, disconnection is often a necessary measure of self-protection, which can avoid further harm and benefit psychological trauma.

However, if it is a minor family problem, the negative effects of disconnection may outweigh the positive effects, and it is not advisable to break the relationship easily.

2.Personal psychological state and coping ability. Some people have a stronger tolerance and coping ability to family misfortunes, which can mitigate the negative effects to a certain extent, but some people are more difficult to bear and need to cut off their relatives to protect themselves. This requires a self-psychological assessment, discretion.

3.The situation of other members of the family. Family misfortune often affects all members of the family, and if you can maintain a good relationship with other relatives and support each other, this can make up for the psychological losses caused by partial family breakdown.

However, if the family relationship is very disordered and hurts each other, then breaking off the family may be a better choice.

4.Social support system. Whether the individual has other support systems, such as support from relatives, friends, organizations, etc.

If there is no other support at all and Sui is not able to take care of herself, the risk and stress of breaking off the family will be greater, and you need to consider it carefully. If there is better alternative support, it will be less difficult to decide to break off.

Therefore, severing one's relatives is not the same as forgetting and getting out, it is only one of the means of alienating from unfortunate circumstances. It takes time and effort to rebuild self-confidence and gain the understanding of others.

The misfortune of the original family is a problem that many people face when they grow up. Breaking off relatives as a way to cut off close ties with the family of origin in the hope of unhappiness. However, in order to judge whether the severance of relatives can be the misfortune of the original family, it needs to be analyzed from many aspects.

1.Psychological level: Breaking off relatives may have certain positive effects on the psychological level. Cutting off the close connection with the family of origin helps the individual to free himself from the past family femininity and reduce the psychological burden, thereby creating conditions for psychological recovery and growth.

2.Social support: The misfortune of the family of origin may lead to an individual's lack of social support. Separation may help individuals establish new social circles and support systems, thereby mitigating the negative effects of family of origin misfortune.

3.Self-exploration and growth: Breaking off a relationship may motivate an individual to self-explore and grow. After freeing themselves from the shackles of their family of origin, individuals may pay more attention to their own needs and interests, thereby achieving self-development and growth.

However, severing one's relationship does not solve all the problems caused by the misfortune of the family of origin. The following aspects need to be noted:

4.Individual differences: Everyone reacts and endures the misfortune of their family of origin differently. Disconnection may work for some people, but it may not work for others.

5.Establishment of new family relationships: After the break, the individual needs to establish new family relationships. In this process, if the new family relationship is still affected by the misfortune of the family of origin, then the misfortune of the family of origin may still exist.

6.Development of social support systems: It takes time and effort to build a new social support system. If an individual is unable to establish an effective social support system, then the disconnection may not be able to fully ** the misfortune of the family of origin.

To sum up, the severance of relatives can be the misfortune of the original family to a certain extent. However, this approach is not a panacea and needs to be evaluated in a combination of factors such as individual differences, the establishment of new family relationships, and the development of social support systems. At the same time, it is also necessary to pay attention to the psychological and emotional needs of individuals after the break, so as to ensure that they can receive adequate care and support in the process of escaping the unhappiness of their original family.

Don't be sad, every family has a buried scripture that is difficult to read, everyone's character is not perfect, no one is perfect, look at the advantages of the family, bend and often empathize, good communication is very important.

Before I was born, my mom illegally detected the baby's sex and found out that I was a girl and wanted to beat me out. Thanks to my grandmother who stopped her, I was born. In order to escape the family planning policy, I was placed in foster care at my aunt's house.

I didn't return to my parents until the fourth grade, so my relationship with them wasn't good. I'm almost 18 years old now, and I can feel the difference between them treating me and my brother in the past ten years. I was humble at home like a servant in the service of this family.

My brother is a year younger than me, so he has a lot of love. He was in his third year of junior high school, and I was in my third year of high school. His brother was particularly disrespectful and laughed at his mother, and he didn't take the love he received in his eyes.

He often yells at his mother and loses his temper when things don't go his way. I think I'm very good to my mother, but as soon as I talk to her, she doesn't like me, she doesn't see me with eyes, and my nose is not my nose. He often scolded me in front of many relatives and friends.

She looked down on me, called me a low IQ, called me a psychopath. She said don't think you're so good. She often told outsiders that I didn't understand her, and although she didn't physically act against me, she had too much verbal violence, and she had nothing to do every day.

I can't calm down, I don't want to ruin my life.