Should you be brave enough to fall in love in high school?

Now it is very common for high school students to fall in love, cultural students may be better, art students are crazy to fall in love, and before the third year of high school, there are many people who have changed their boyfriends and girlfriends three or four. I take a few art students with me every year, and I can tell you responsibly that I haven't seen a few art students who haven't been in love......

Moreover, even if parents, teachers, and schools have repeatedly told their children not to fall in love, but how many do they care, which class in high school does not have a few pairs?

So it's no longer a question of whether high school students should fall in love, but how parents should treat high school students when they fall in love.

I can't control it, I can only channel it.

When high school students fall in love, most parents and teachers are mainly worried about affecting their learning. Actually,The key to whether it affects learning is not the love itself, but the attitude towards love.

I have summarized four attitudes towards love, which you can compare.

The first is to fall in love wholeheartedly. Since being together, life has been full of her (him), class is at the same table, playing together after class, eating together, studying together, walking together, and ...... together

This kind of student does not have a strong sense of independence, likes to trust, and if he has an object, it is easy to see the other party as his whole world. Therefore, there is no room for any approach of the opposite sex.

In this case, I usually like to get tired of being together, which affects learning; can't tolerate the other party joking with the opposite sex, easy to be jealous, affect mood, affect learning; If you spend a little time together, it is easy to find each other's shortcomings, easy to quarrel, and affect learning; Once you break up, you feel like the world is collapsing, and you don't have the heart to study ...... at all

The second is to learn scum and learn to be a tyrant. Since they got together, the scumbags would take the students to play all kinds of fun, go to the Internet together, play the glory of kings together, and go to eat a spicy hot ...... outside the school together

The world of Xueba was originally boring, but it has become rich since then. But it is obvious that there is a distraction, so the academic performance will also drop significantly.

The third type is that the top students bring the scumbags. Since they got together, the scumbags have studied hard for the school bully, getting up early to memorize texts together, studying together, and going to the library to ...... together

The scumbags work hard, and the top students become patient teachers and make progress together. This kind of love is positive.

Fourth, love is a part of lifeIt's like chopped green onions on a delicious meal. With chopped green onions, the meal is more beautiful and tasty; You can eat it without chopped green onions. High school life is richer if you are in love, and you can live without it.

The two are both intimate and keep their distance. Both people have their own ideals, everyone strives for goals, and the two can encourage each other and cherish each other together. Both people leave space for each other, do not interfere in each other's lives, and give each other freedom.

Two people are together, like lovers and confidants. Break up, cry bitterly, be sad for a few days, and soon be back to normal.

This kind of love is healthy!

High school is a relatively important stage of life, but it is also the most problematic period, in fact, it is not recommended that everyone fall in love in high school.

First of all, if you choose to start your own love path in high school, it will definitely have an impact on your studies, because you have to separate your mind to think about another person, especially if the children in high school are not fully developed physically and mentally, if you don't control your hormones well, the consequences are very serious and can ruin your life.

Secondly, even if you think it's okay to fall in love, I don't delay studying, we learn together and supervise each other. If you can do that, are you sure you can really make it to the end, and the person who grew old with you will definitely do her? Most relationships that start in high school will separate for many reasons, which you don't expect now, and very few people make it to the end, which is a great test for themselves and each other.

And if you like someone when you were a student, you just think she looks good, you can't understand what her personality is like, what will become of her in the future, a moment of freshness will make you happy, and it can also satisfy your vanity in your classmates, but this is not love, just good feelings, just like you like a very beautiful flower on the side of the road to pick it home, but after a few days you feel bored she can't attract you, you won't take care of it anymore, and it will slowly wither.

You have to understand whether you are bored, avoiding studying, passing the time, falling in love, or whether you really like and appreciate that person (her). If you just want to find someone to spend time with, then there is no need for this. If you can't tell the difference, if you want to be in a relationship with him or her, ask yourself.

Whether you can fall in love with a good grasp of your studies.

In the end, I want to say, when you meet what you like, if you meet the right one, you will talk about it, don't leave any regrets for your youth, youth is only once, and love in high school is really beautiful. It's very beautiful for two people to work together and get into the same city.

In fact, the topic of high school students falling in love has always been relatively hot, and some people think that high school students can fall in love, because high school students are sixteen or seventeen years old, and they already know what they want, and they have the right to do what they like and love the people they like. But some people think that high school students can't fall in love, because high school is still a student, and the main task of students is to study, and falling in love will seriously affect their studies.

I advise you not to toss around, first get busy with the things in front of you, and don't be naïve to think that falling in love is easier than getting into a good university. You see, it's a lot harder to manage a relationship than it is to learn.

Moreover, this is just a simple operation of a relationship, and it takes more wisdom and experience to operate well, you must know that many people may not be able to do it if they have the heart to talk for a long time, not to mention that you are not as good as others in terms of emotional intelligence experience and time and energy.

Children should be sunny and promising in high school, and learning should be the most important thing. But children do not learn from their parents, and teachers do not keep an eye on students' every move, so the communication between students still lies with each other, which makes it impossible for some children to fall into the restlessness of puberty. Curiosity and shyness about the opposite sex.

In fact, these are very normal phenomena and very valuable phenomena, but if they are addicted to them and do not know how to deal with their feelings, they will be distracted from their studies, and even make friends, entertainment, sleep and diet will be affected. It is very likely that learning will be wasted, leading to a phenomenon that changes the path of life. They don't know when to regret it, they have the courage to move forward.

But do they know, they don't. I don't listen to the opinions of adults. Therefore, it is very important to give children an outlook on life from an early age.

The spiritual world of adolescent children is pure and amorous, and love, a beautiful flower that never withers, can find fertile soil there. Although teenage love is pure and beautiful, early love must be resolutely opposed. Because in the modern social environment, the results are often negative and unfortunate, which will inevitably seriously affect learning, easily lead to sexual sin, and the success rate is extremely low, which is actually a large waste of students' precious energy.

High school is a critical period for students to go to school, and the effort of three years of high school study can affect the quality of the university they attend, which in turn will affect their graduation income and personal career. Therefore, high school plays a key role in one's career. High school is at a critical stage of education and learning, and you should be energetic, strive for the top, master and improve the real talent and learning skills, if it is used for falling in love, it will inevitably be a big loss; Falling in love in high school often ends in nothing, young people are immature, and they fall in love in high school with a curious attitude, but they often do not stick to the end; Falling in love is a subject that needs to be studied carefully, and it is not easy for middle school students, so they should not fall in love in high school.

No. The disadvantages are:1Delay in learning and affect your studies.

Some people say that if two people motivate each other and urge each other, it will be conducive to learning. But this is a minority, after all. Most of them will delay their studies because they are in love.

Because falling in love inevitably takes time and energy, you can't devote yourself to learning. This is the principle that one mind cannot be used for two purposes. Falling in love makes them overly curious, excited, obsessed, and overly indulged in the fantasy of love, and can no longer devote themselves to learning, resulting in a decline in academic performance, and some even get tired of studying.

2.It affects the learning atmosphere and is not conducive to management.

If someone in a class falls in love, what kind of impact will it have on others? If the teacher doesn't stop it, the rest of the students will follow suit. You talk about it, I talk about it, everyone talks about it, so who is going to learn?

The classroom is no longer a place for learning, but a place for love. So there is a characteristic in the school, if there is a phenomenon of falling in love in a class, then there will be more than one couple, there will be two couples, three couples, and there will be more and more. The learning atmosphere in the class will be gone.

In addition, others are studying, but you are in love, and your intimate actions have disturbed others to study.

3.It is easy to cause psychological injury and mental illness.

The psychological development of adolescents is still unstable, and emotional fluctuations are inevitably ups and downs. Once you fall in love, you are prone to all kinds of negative emotions, anxiety, worry, and so on. At the same time, adolescents lack the ability to discriminate, and are more likely to be emotional, and often reckless.

Girls, in particular, are more likely to be the ultimate victims of early love. After a girl falls in love, it is undeniable that some people will be deceived by people with ulterior motives and have some deviant behaviors. Even if the child doesn't feel anything at the time, the frustration and inferiority complex caused to the child's psychology in the future are indelible.

Scientists' research has shown that young people who fall in love before the age of 17 are unable to cope with the emotional distress caused by their first love, which will lay the foundation for mental illness later in life.

First of all, I will take my position.

I'm not against high school students falling in love.

But it's just not against it.

To be honest, it is already something that parents will not object to when high school students fall in love abroad, but limited to the over-conservatism of traditional Chinese culture, many college students have to hide their ...... when they fall in love

I have a few things to tell you about when it comes to high school relationships.

1 Almost all of them end up with a partner who will not be the first boyfriend or girlfriend.

2 Almost all high school romances end within a short time of graduation.

3. A large proportion of people's final partner may be someone you met in middle school and high school.

These three points have been proven countless times as true, and there is no room for refutation.

The last reason is that college classmates come from different places, and the vast majority of college campus romances will eventually die in social reality, such as the other party's conditions, the other party's job, and the long-distance problem of lovers after graduation has always been the number one killer of romances.

Therefore, those former classmates are more likely to come together in the end (not former lovers).

Only if you really understand the above three points, and always protect yourself from doing stupid things, then I agree with both hands that you should fall in love.

This is my true words, instead of blindly preventing high school romance, it is better to guide it correctly, to be honest, many people will always sigh at the immature lover in the past when they are really adults, and high school romance is a very naïve hazy good feeling.

Correct guidance is the key to solving the problem, otherwise the more you object, the easier it is for rebellious children to cross the red line.

Listen to the most unromantic high school children understand what love is, college is only this early imitation of how many beautiful men go to college to talk about it too late, but in fact it is not.

In high school, love was simple, unforgettable, and perhaps never forgotten for the rest of your life.

My first love was in high school, and unfortunately it was broken, and I didn't meet even the best of objects, as I was so engaged when reading that I couldn't find the feeling of love. When I was in high school, I was very happy when a couple of lovers in my class got married. Including my cousin object, their marriage was high school classmates.

In fact, on their side, there are many such examples, Kai Jian I don't believe that high school can talk about marriage, but it is precisely because I broke up with my boyfriend, in fact, now we are all regretful, and there is no other answer to Ming Lu Sun Xian.

Therefore, the owner must treat this love with a normal heart, without too deliberately strengthening, the flow likes to swear and break up, you will leave the best memories.

What you will encounter when you grow up Faint love, or this is not love, just have a good impression of her lz or not Sun Yan has to care too much, fruitless things, thinking too much, no, the old royal value has to spend time.

A man must be strong inside. After tidying up your heart, you will find that your love for Lu Zhong is just a desire for her body. You don't love her, but you want her.

When you meet her again, and she has a boyfriend, I don't think you will give up easily, but if you find that she is not pure, your heart will be more entangled in whether you really love her.