Is heartache a pain? Why are we afraid of being hurt emotionally?

Updated on healthy 2024-04-26
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm sure everyone has felt heartache at one time or another. That feeling is indescribable, that is, I feel very uncomfortable and uncomfortable, my heart is sour, and I feel that a certain nerve is affecting my heart and brain. When my heart beats and hurts, my brain reacts in time, making me feel like I can't breathe.

    In fact, heartache is not pain in the real sense. It's just that after the emotional frustration or when the self feels very sad caused by other factors, I will feel indescribably sour in my heart. It's like we're touched, it's a momentary thing.

    At the same time, it can also make us feel the ripples in our hearts, and feel that there is a soft place in our hearts that has been poked. We were very happy at that time. But when we are emotionally frustrated, our brain should secrete a hormone that is the opposite of happiness, and that makes us very sad.

    Everyone is afraid of the pain of falling out of love, because it really doesn't feel good in their hearts. In the same way, I have also suffered from a broken love, and I can deeply understand the feeling of a knife in my heart. When I was in junior high school, I talked about a partner, and I didn't know why I broke up after a month.

    The reason he gave me was that he didn't think we were suitable. As a result, after a while, I got along with another girl in our class. I'll admit that I wasn't as good-looking as the girl, maybe because he thought we weren't really suitable, but I think most of the reason was because of my looks, so I fell out of love as a matter of course.

    When he first proposed to break up with me, I didn't know how it came over for a few days. There is no appetite for eating, no study, no motivation. At that time, I felt like the walking dead, living mechanically every day, as if I couldn't do without him.

    I'm scared of falling out of love because it's hard for me to get out of it. If it is the breakup mentioned by the other party, then I will have more inferiority. At that time, I cried day and night all day and night, and the crying was heartbreaking.

    I really felt a pain in my heart, and every time I saw him with another girl, my tears flowed involuntarily. Personally, I'm afraid of being hurt emotionally. I'm sure everyone should be scared.

    Who wouldn't want to have a good relationship. Who wants to be dumped?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Heartache is a more painful pain, and it can't be anesthetized by drinking, and painkillers are useless, and the pain is unforgettable.

    Separation, loss, disappointment, sadness, etc. can cause heartache, a little tingling, or a piece of muffled pain, a headache can also hit the wall, when the heartache is like an orangutan beating the chest?

    The pain is so bad that you can't breathe, it may be a momentary thing, or it may be because of a certain emotion stuck, it hurts from time to time, and it may become a physical and mental illness after a long time, and your heart hurts when you see a similar scene.

    Why is I afraid of being hurt emotionally, I am afraid of this invisible and untouchable pain, after the joy and carnival, after the excitement retreats, it always lingers in my heart and lingers, so I would rather not carnival and lively.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Painful heart is a Chinese word.

    It refers to the pain that hurts, and it hits directly into the deepest part of the heart, describing the pain that is extraordinary.

    It can express the heartache of the person you love the most leaving after a broken love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For example, a girl you love has left you for various reasons...How would you feel in your heart? That's heart-wrenching. Specifically, it describes the heartache of losing something particularly precious.

    2.What does it mean to be heartbroken.

    Pain is an injury that directly hits the deepest part of the heart, describing extraordinary pain.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's just very, very painful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    For example, because of the willingness to write silently, I am willing to lose my favorite things, like my parents, and there are some special situations.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If people are in bai

    There is no heartache in the relationship, then I want to say that this is the saddest thing. You have a relationship with another individual version of the DAO, and then for all kinds of reasons, you get hurt, you feel heartache--- you feel very uncomfortable, you may think, oh, if people are frustrated in a relationship, they don't feel sad, they don't have heartache, how good it would be! But I'm going to tell you, and tell myself, it's not good!

    Feelings are the product of biological evolution, and the same kind of organisms are closely linked together through feelings, resulting in a sense of identity and belonging to each other. This is essential for living beings, especially intelligent beings. And human feelings can even transcend the population, and the feelings between humans and animals, and between people and nature, are therefore extraordinarily noble and great.

    So, being hurt in a relationship and feeling heartache is a normal reaction--- which at least proves that you have given love. This is the most important thing, you give the greatest emotion in the world. Maybe we should say that only people who don't have heartache are the saddest--- even worse than animals, this sentence is definitely not abuse--- animals have feelings, things are like this, how can people be embarrassed?

    A word for you: in the journey of life, we may encounter several wrong relationships, and the resulting pain and tears are just God's preparation for us to meet the right person--- so that we can learn how to truly love someone before we meet him.

    May you be happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    So why didn't I get emotionally invested, but I was still heartbroken after the breakup (only talked about it for two years).

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because that person lives in your heart, his words and deeds will affect your heartbeat, your heartbeat. Then he didn't answer that he did what he had to do in the usual way, so in your heart, he went astray, so that your heart could not function properly. In this way, your heart feels a pain.

    It's not easy to stop your heart from aching unless you drive it out of your heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I want to get it but I can't get it, and I feel that the pay is not proportional to the return, and the emotional crisis dao

    Betrayal will make people.

    version of heartache. obviously likes a human right very much and cares about her very much, but she won't look at herself more, and it will hurt her heart at this time.

    In the relationship, I gave 100% sincerity, but in exchange for betrayal.

    The world of feelings requires serious dedication and more communication, even if it is in exchange for pain, it is worth a try.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The investment of true feelings is expected to be rewarded, and because I can't get it, I feel heartache.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because I am not reconciled. paid sincere and sincere feelings, in exchange for unequal returns. If the other party leaves your version, it is even more unacceptable.

    When we have the power, our hearts ache, in addition to losing his love, losing dependence, losing some confidence, and also feeling worthless for our own efforts. So there is hatred, pain, nostalgia, and entanglement. Feelings are very complex things, and some people can't sort them out in this life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is also possible to call the cow, and it is also possible to call the horse.

    I forgot the past. Learned to be inclusive, learned.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because you have given and invested your feelings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The most painful heart, which means that you have been hurt in this relationship, I think the most heart-wrenching relationship in this world is that the most sad thing about this banquet in this world is that you love her. I believe that out of this age, most of us have already been in love, some of them talk about it a few times, and we will always fantasize about the beauty of love, just like in fairy tales, the love of princes and princesses is the love that most of our girls yearn for. Remember what Yan Mo said before the summer solstice arrived, Lu Zhiang was imprisoned, I will wait for you, there are a thousand kinds of waiting in this world, the best one is called the future can be expected, I am willing to stand here, count down from this second, and wait for the meeting many years later.

    However, there is a kind of waiting that is worth waiting, just like Yan Mo Naling waited for Lu Zhiang for three years, and he was released from prison three years later, like Yan Mo who had been waiting for him to propose, he was always unsure of his feelings at first, and always thought that he was still in love with Lixia, and ignored this Yan Mo's feelings for himself. When he did something wrong for his good brother Fu Xiaosi, he began to hide, and when he saw that the people around him thought about him so much, he didn't blame himself, and chose to avoid them, and then he saw his feelings clearly, and when he was about to choose to turn himself in, he called ** to Yan Mo to see himself, Yan Mo drove over in his pajamas, this is love, see her crying so sadly. And what I experienced was the person I liked, I told him obviously, but I couldn't wait for his reply, every time I talked to him, he either chose to avoid the topic, or just ignored me, and then waited until the time was about to give me a good night, I felt very heartbroken, why is this so, why do I like such a person.

    In the past, we could stay together all the time, at least in one school, but now we are thousands of miles apart, and it's so hard for me to get an answer, every time I hide in the quilt and cry bitterly, have you ever experienced that feeling, it should be the kind that hurts my heart, it's so uncomfortable that my heart is going to die.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. We should remember the feelings that are painful and trembling.

    As far as I know, there are many girls who will experience heart-wrenching feelings in the process of falling in love, and only after these feelings can they make themselves stronger step by step, and only after hurting their feelings can they know how to keep themselves in the relationship as before the age. Therefore, I personally think that we should remember more about the heart-wrenching feelings, so that we can make our future feelings better and our lives happier in life.

    Second, don't be too sad while remembering.

    There are a lot of girls who are grieving after a breakup, and I think this kind of performance is not particularly good, but it will have a greater impact on personal emotions. Heart-wrenching feelings are like a lesson in our lives, we must remember the lesson but remember it at the same time, we can't be too sad, so that we can gain more and grow more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Feelings are a kind of sustenance and support in people's hearts, but there is sweetness and pain in the world of feelings, when feelings come, it will make you so sweet that your IQ drops to a negative number, when the feelings are broken, that pain is entangled for a long time and you refuse to leave in the face of sweet words and lies, I fell into a wrong relationship, saddled with a third party, was abused, when I first met him, he cared and approached, The humorous character and handsome appearance make people can't resist him is married but says that there is no emotion, in a state of separation, so he did not resist the bottom line of morality, and he fell, after a period of time, he didn't want to hurt me more deeply, and he couldn't give me any reason to break up, and his conscience found that the bottom line of morality woke him up, but it hurt my heartache and hurt my heart, which has caused indescribable damage to my heart, and my body and mind, and reputation have been tortured to the point that I can't force it, I can't force it, I can only blame myself for not sticking to the bottom line, no matter how painful it is, I have to bear it, and I also teach myself a lesson to learn to grow up.

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