If the male and female are separated. Who suffers the most?

I feel like if you don't love it, just let it go. Don't think about what happens after the breakup. There's no need, because it's not fun to be together, there's nothing more painful than this. It's all painful, and there is no one right or wrong in love

It depends on who brings it up first, and the person who brings it up doesn't think it's much, and the latter is more painful.

Love is like two people pulling rubber bands, and the one who is hurt is always unwilling to let go, "whoever can't let go, who will suffer."

Girls, girls are the ones who can't let go of a lot of the time, and they have to cry for days.

After the breakup, whether it is a man or a woman, as long as it is the one who pays more, it will be more painful, his hail erection sail has not been rewarded accordingly, the true love is wrong, and it is really difficult to accept the hail in the end.

It's been so long since you broke up, I don't know if you're doing well. To be honest, I really hate you, hate your betrayal, hate your irresponsibility, hate your gaffes. But, after thinking about it for a long time, I felt that none of this was useful.

Hate you for not allowing me to change back to my old self. I hate you for not allowing me to erase the memories of the mess. Hate that you can't pull our children back to the side.

I will give you the most painful thing in a woman's life. However, you are always so dashing, so unnoticed. I gave so much for you, I got nothing, got a child, but she couldn't survive and got a love, but he wasn't perfect.

You weren't there for me when I was in the most pain, and you chose to leave me when I needed you the most. I still don't understand whether we have true love in the past three years. Why did you choose to leave once and then choose to come back?

Now that it's completely over between us, I'm tired of walking. Running a relationship that didn't come of anything was really tiring and exhausting. We are in two cities, and I don't know if it was time that took away our feelings, or if the place took you away.

Or maybe it's because our relationship isn't strong at all, or that we shouldn't be together at all. fell in love, hurt myself, and hurt my heart.

I once thought about giving up myself like this, taking my children to the end of my life, seeing you in another space, thinking of you, and waiting for you. However, thought about it. Perhaps, for you and I am too unworthy, there is still my family, my friends, and people who care about me in this world.

And you, have done nothing for me, you choose to live happily in another city, leaving me alone in this cold city to wait for you stupidly, thinking about you stupidly. So what am I? Is it really a fool" I never coquettish with you, never complain to you.

I only do it because I love you. We only do this because we want to manage our relationships. But what have you done for me in the past three years?

There's no reason to even give me a reason to wait for you! I didn't ask you for anything, I didn't ask you to do anything for me. However, do you know this" I never dared to tell you what I really thought, for fear that you would be unhappy and that you would lose your temper.

I'm worried about how you're doing over there, and I'm worried about who's going to talk to you when you're not there. But have you ever worried about me? Have you ever wondered how I've spent the past three years?

Have you ever really worried about me?

Girls are the most painful, girls' minds are more delicate, more emotional, and more serious about feelings, it is difficult to get out of the pain when they fall out of love, while boys do not pay as much attention to feelings as girls, and the lovelorn quickly passes.

In fact, after the breakup of men and women, I think the pain is two people, I once heard a song before that who leaves first, the person left behind may be full of scars, so I don't love it, and it is more painful for the person who loves.

After a breakup, whoever loves more deeply and invests more in love will feel more painful. This has nothing to do with gender. Because you are more emotionally invested, it is naturally more difficult and painful to withdraw after a breakup.

After a man and woman break up, the person who should give the most affection is the most painful, the more you give, the higher your expectations, the more serious the injury, and the longer it will take to come out of the shadows.

I think women will be more painful because women are more emotional than men, women are more serious about their feelings than men, and many girls will be more haunted by their ex.

In fact, I think both people are in pain, to be honest, the person who doesn't love is not painful, and the person who is still in love is often very painful, so don't break up casually.

I think the most uncomfortable thing should be the one who was forced to break up, and the one who took the initiative to break up will definitely not feel a lot of pain, but he will feel very relaxed.

It depends on the situation who is the most painful after a breakup between men and women, generally the one who loves the deepest and most infatuated is more painful, as the saying goes, the higher you climb, the heavier you fall, and the person who loves the deepest is also the most painful after breaking up.

In the process of getting along, most boys will give all their love, and girls will passively accept or do all kinds of things, in this case, see who mentions the breakup first, if the girl mentions the breakup first, the boy's pain is higher than that of the girl, if the man proposes to break up first, the girl's pain is higher than that of the boy. You can't generalize, but in fact, in the process of the relationship, you will unconsciously pay that is, the man should take care of himself. After all, men and women are separated, and men will be accompanied by three or five confidants, and no matter how sad and sad you are, someone will make you feel better.

<>It's just that in the dead of night, that kind of sadness, who can know how sad and delicate, often because of a little thing and lingering, and most boys are nervous, do things with a big grin, for emotional things first I want to say that there can be no equal love in love, just like a bowl of water can not be even! Love is more or less! Others can't see that they are not sensitive enough, and they often inadvertently say something unintentional, which will cause a big reaction from girls, but not boys.

It's because you're used to the existence of the other party and have become dependent on each other, and after the breakup, your mind may keep coming up with different results, but there is one point, two people love each other so much, they are very sad, and they will not get used to it at first.

There are many factors, such as each person's personality, some are cheerful and will find a lot to do, and some are autistic and depressed.

The jokes made will become the key to open the memory, and a river of sadness will flow backwards inadvertently. In the second stage, the girls have already begun to get through the initial painful period, and by this time they have turned into grief and anger and started to eat! Buy, buy, buy!

One by one. In the third stage, he turned into a butterfly, walked out of the shadow of broken love, and began to gain a new life.

Most boys will give all their love, girls will passively accept or do all kinds of things, in this case, to see who mentions the breakup first, if the girl mentions the breakup first, the boy's pain is higher than that of the girl, if the man proposes to break up first, the girl's pain is higher than the boy's.

I think it's a girl. Because girls are much more emotional than boys, and pay more attention to feelings, once they break up, I think girls are more painful.

Girls are more painful, because women are more emotional, once they are truly invested in a relationship, it is difficult to extricate themselves and it is difficult to get out of this relationship.

When two people break up, you can't see whether the boy is more sad or the girl is more sad, the boy doesn't like to express, and the solution for most girls to fall out of love is extroverted catharsis.

In fact, it should be the one who loves each other more will be more painful, because he is very reluctant to the other party.

I think women will be more miserable after a breakup, because women are more emotional, and they often feel sad because of something.

In contrast, women will be more painful, because women are very emotional, so once they break up, they really let themselves be unable to extricate themselves from the pain.

Men, generally the most affectionate are men, it is impossible for them to forget in their hearts, and they will hurt the most.

After the breakup, both boys and girls will suffer, as for whose pain lasts longer, it depends on who pays more in the relationship, the party who pays more feelings suffers more durably, and who loves more. Although the relationship is mutual, but the relationship is not a transaction, it will not say that you like me a point, I also like you a point, what is the definition of a point?

In fact, this kind of thing is not easy to ponder, it is erratic, no matter who it is, it is possible to be frustrated in the relationship. I have a roommate in college who broke up with my ex after graduating from high school, and the graduation season is the breakup season, and I don't know how many couples of lovers broke up in the graduation season! But people have to be beautiful and in good shape, so after going to college, there was a new suitor immediately, although it was not from a school, it was a former high school classmate, and she had been used to her for 4 years, because she broke up with her ex, so she pursued fiercely from graduation to school.

The girl told us that in fact, she didn't have a particularly big feeling for the boy, plus the boy was chasing after her, and kept buying gifts for her, so she agreed to the boy, at that time everyone was still in military training, her current boyfriend took a 10-hour train from Baoding to see her, just to surprise her, of course, she left after less than an hour, and then ordered a bunch of snacks and small gifts, she was very moved. Outsiders are also very envious of others! I still remember my roommate's birthday, she didn't say anything, she sent her a two-meter-two bear on her birthday, and the two people in the dormitory could lift it up with great difficulty.

Even if there are so many, that girl will be moved at most, a girl with a person in her heart, even if you give her more, she will not really fall in love with you.

The ending is obvious, they have been together for two months, and the boy's mother still bought her **, but even so, they still say goodbye, because the girl said that she can't do it and doesn't like him and keeps accepting things from him, and the relationship is not something you can cultivate by buying things all the time. You said that after the breakup, who is more sad, the answer is undoubtedly that boy, chasing for four years, together for two months, in fact, there is no one right or wrong in the relationship, that girl did it right, I don't love you, so I won't delay you, no matter how sad the man is, he won't break up with him after a year, the more you pay, the longer the time, the more serious the injury!

I subconsciously felt that boys were more miserable than girls.

Because I once saw such a sentence, the first week after the breakup, the girl will be very sad, will cry, will make a fuss, but the boy will not feel very much in the first week of the breakup, but once the first week after the breakup, the boy will suddenly feel that the girl has completely disappeared from his world and will never appear again, and at this time, the girl has lost the extreme pain like when she just broke up, and slowly lived without a boy and started her new life.

Therefore, in my consciousness, breaking up will cause more damage to boys.

I haven't met boys who want to die or live after falling out of love, but I've seen a lot of boys who turn back after breaking up, these people are resolute when they break up, but once they separate, they immediately regret it, and they ask for reunion within a few days, whether the girl agrees or not, the boy will choose to stay with the girl, the reunion is a lover, and the reunion is a friend.

At my age, it is really common for boys and girls to fall in love together, and break up at two ends in three days. If I'm not mistaken, the following paragraph was shown to me by my predecessor, that is, after joining the work, girls will meet boys with better conditions in society, and there are more people than excellent boys on college campuses, but once boys enter society, it is difficult to meet girls who are better than the girls they meet on college campuses, and at most they can only be a tie. Actually, I don't really understand the meaning of this sentence, but I always feel that it is right, if not completely correct, then 80% of it will be correct.

I remember at a high school reunion last year, a girl told me that her ex-boyfriend was sick. I was stunned when I dared to hear it, what disease? Can it still be cured?

Later, I learned that this was just an exclamation from her. She said, "We both broke up, he still keeps looking for me, and even he has a stomachache to tell me, what does this have to do with me, I don't care at all", in fact, this is not terrible, what is terrible is that this boy has a girlfriend when he was in college. It seems that you are really sick, since you have all broken up, since you have a current one, why do you still take the initiative to contact your ex, you say something serious at work or whatever, I understand, you even have to tell your personal problems and private life word for word, as a person who just heard about this, how should I understand it?

Should I understand that this boy has no way to get out of the pain of losing his ex, or should I understand that this boy will never know how to focus on only one person?

Boys will lament that the ex is better than the current one, and girls will complain that the ex is better than the current scum.

After the breakup, I can be friends with you, but only friends, there is absolutely no possibility of getting back together, you can tell me what you need my help with, but please don't tell me about your private life, please live your current life, the road is your own choice, please take your man's dignity and move forward bravely.