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<>I think love is in order. Because when two people really love each other, they will never be able to insert into a third party, let alone fall in love with a third party. I remember watching a movie before, which said something that I thought made sense: "When there is a third party in your love, it means that he no longer loves you, at least not as much as before." , I don't know if I'm mistaken. But that's what it means.
If two people are still in love with each other, then the third party who appears will definitely cause a lot of harm to one of them, and the two people who love each other will not let each other suffer this kind of harm. Moreover, if you are in love, you will be confused by a third party, at least it can show that his love is not firm enough (maybe he just likes it at all, not love). So, no matter which aspect it is, love is in order.
Only when the previous love is over, will the second love develop, otherwise the second love will never appear. Of course, some people may say that some people love not just one, but many. But what I want to ask is, is that love?
As mentioned in the question, if the love is in order, the later ones will regret missing out, and the side meaning seems to be some so-called "unfair", uncomfortable and unwilling (because if you come first, then how happy you should be now.) )。So if there is no priority, isn't it also "unfair" to the later to the first?
So, love has a precedence, in fact, it is still a good thing, there is no need to be sad and regretful.
Because if the person you love, he has someone he loves, and the person he loves loves him. Well, you should actually be happy, because he has found his happiness. Although the person he loves is not you, there is a good saying that love is not possession, and blessings for his happiness are the last things that should be done.
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In the past, I always felt that love was in order, preconceived, and later could only regret quitting.
However, when this kind of thing happened to me, I realized that some things you think are not as you think, many things can not be empathized, only after I experience it, I will understand, not to mention the feelings, more complicated.
I've been with my ex-boyfriend for 5 years, and I've met some guys who are interesting to me and I'm a little excited, but I've always thought that the rest can only be missed, who wants not meet first. But until this year, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because of another man. But I ended up not with this man, but with a man who chased me later.
There may still be some problems with my ex-boyfriend, due to the backlog of conflicts for many years, the relationship is not as strong as we imagined, coupled with the instability of the work between the two of us and the long-distance relationship that has existed for a long time, the communication between us is getting less and less, and finally we broke up peacefully. Then A came along, and he pursued me like crazy, and I was quite interesting to him, he was very talented and very talkative, and there were so many topics to talk about between us, and I thought I had met my true destiny. It stands to reason that he is preconceived, but then B appeared, my current boyfriend, he is not as literary as A, nor does he understand everything so much, and he is not even as polite and polite as A, and there are not so many topics to talk about between us, but I still like him, and I can't extricate myself from liking him, and he is a latecomer.
If you want to ask me what I fell in love with, I'm afraid I won't be able to hold it back for a long time, probably because of that feeling......
There is no order in love, only the right time to meet the right person, there is no order, only right and wrong, you can't miss it.
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Love in no particular order? That's how to look at it. I think we should have some moral bottom line no matter what the situation is
Why is Xiao San'er always scolded by everyone, becauseHe meddled in other people's love and marriage, and this behavior was tantamount to robbery, very disgusted.
So, in what case, in no particular order?
Of course, if you're intervening in the relationship, you don't know the truth. The person you have in mind hides the truth from you, saying that he is single.
Well, it's not your fault, it's his problem. It was he who deceived first, and at this time you have to consider his characterIf he is able to deceive you today and betray his former lover, will he betray your relationship in the future because of the appearance of another person? You have to remember that the flower heart is full of liesYou will never be his last
It is said that there are only junior children who don't work hard, and there is no corner that can't be dug up. I think this statement is very irresponsible.
Maybe he does have some things that are very attractive to you, but he already has a significant other, and all you have to do at this time is to let goBe a smart and sane person.
In this world, you will always find someone who really likes you, but if you stubbornly want to dig this corner, I think this behavior is very despicable, and it feels very cheap.
You should think like this, if he is so easily poached by you, his loyalty to love and responsibility can be seenFor such a scumbag, you have given your love and energy and lost your character, which is really worth the loss。So if you dig the foot of the wall, he is loyal to love, and you can't dig it no matter how hard you try, then it shows that this is a very responsible person with a very good character.
For such a person, can you bear to let him go down the altar? Can you bear to ruin her happiness? So,Quickly shift your gaze, polish your eyes, and look for someone who doesn't need to fight, doesn't need to grab, who completely belongs to your heart, and someone who belongs to you completely, isn't it better?
The latter is not only regretful to miss it, because it is not regrettable to miss it at all, if you don't miss it, then it is your fault, and it is a stain on your life. The forest is so big, you can always find a tree that suits you more, understands you better, and loves you more. The man hanged from a tree is nothing more than an obsessive fool.
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