What did the man who disliked you teach me?

Says who? It's just a fallacy. A man who truly loves you won't care about this. But you should still leave the first time to your husband. Wishing you happiness!

There are some things, once lost, you know how valuable they are.

You haven't lost it and should cherish it more.

？？Men want their girlfriends to be with him for the first time, otherwise they don't think that their girlfriends may be better with many people.

You are your husband, who will only cherish you more, not dislike you.

Not necessarily! As long as it is happy, sincere, and true, it doesn't matter!

Who wants their girlfriend to be for thousands of years! It's still good

You didn't even make the problem clear. Is it a "place" or a "no-place"?

It's disgusting... Meitu says a JB

It doesn't matter, the important thing is whether you give it to him every time you do it in the future, you don't need to pay so much attention to it the first time, and if you value it for the first time, it is not love you, at least not sincerely.

Pretty important, right? Now people's minds are not as open as they think.

According to the people you said above, who once looked down on and disliked you and ridiculed you, although you said you, would you agree? I don't think I'll say yes, I think first of all, this person doesn't respect you, he doesn't like you, why does he suddenly like you again, I don't think it's necessary to print this kind of person anymore. First of all, I will promise that the thing will trust you first, and no matter what the circumstances you have, he will not laugh at you and dislike your people.

This kind of respect that he gives you first, a sense of trust. People are mutual. Therefore, if someone who looks down on you and dislikes you says that he likes you, I will not agree.

It depends on the situation, see what he has done, what you have done, what you have done, and whether you like him, dislike you, or like you? Are you sure you're not kidding, are you sure it's the kind of love you like?

I don't think it's very likely, since he used to look down on you, dislike you, laugh at you, is he trying to deliberately attract your attention, or is he really looking down on you, if it's the former, you can try his sincerity, if it's the latter and he does something very excessive, then you don't agree to him.

That depends, if that guy just wants to get your attention. Then you can agree, because he likes you, he will do it.

There used to be a guy who liked me, and he used to tease me and pull my hair, but he didn't get angry when he saw me? He didn't do it anymore.

If a guy likes you, he wants to laugh at you, tease you, and get your attention. Let you hit him and have physical contact with him.

Maybe he's not looking down on you, he's trying to get your attention.

I don't know how he dislikes you, but what if it's just to get your attention? It depends.

I will definitely not say yes, because I will remember everyone who has laughed at me, and I will prove myself by actually proving it.

However, how can it be easy to forget the self-esteem that has been hurt. A soldier can be killed, but not humiliated.

First, money matters. When I first got with him, I didn't have any money, but I always wanted the best for him. Every festival will try to buy her the best she thinks and give it to him, but many times I found that he didn't know how to cherish his heart, and chose to separate after being disappointed again and again.

Then I felt that my smiling eyes were really beautiful, and it was not worth crying for a boy who didn't cherish him. Later, when they separated, they found that they bought him too many things, but they were so stingy with themselves, and they all bought him better than those for themselves. I found out that money is really important.

Second, it's important to be your own self. The person I was with him looks a little unrecognizable and unrecognizable in retrospect. How can I be like that, so uncomfortable, that I am pretentious, dependent on others, without an independent self and without an independent mind.

Thinking about it now, I really feel terrible, I don't like myself at that time and my bad state at that time. So I feel more and more important to be an independent self. Moreover, being an independent self can give people more self-confidence.

Third, he and people like him are not suitable for me. He's too much like me, and so is his personality. And I always felt that I was not working hard enough, not motivated enough, cowardly and timid, afraid to try new things.

Maybe I'm more suitable for a hard-working, energetic, and sunny person, rather than a person who is willing to settle for the status quo and not want to make progress.

Fourth, life is very important, love is not the whole of life, you should have your own life. No matter if you love someone, life can't revolve around him alone, everyone should develop towards a better aspect.

1. When you are together, you should cherish it.

Many people will begin to regret it after breaking up, and even go to various ways to keep and get back together. You've become like this now, why didn't you cherish it earlier? When you meet the right person, you must cherish it, and you must always regret it after you lose it.

2. Look forward and don't look back.

In fact, there are many things that don't go back, and even if you go back, you can't go back to the past, everything has changed. Going back in time may not be the best option, and moving forward is not necessarily the worst outcome.

3. Effective communication is important.

The so-called effective communication means that you are calm and can solve problems. Instead of communicating, communicating, quarrelling, and communicating more and more problems. That's not called communication, that's called creating contradictions.

When two people are together, it is more about communication than guessing. Since you want to communicate and solve, you should be calm, only about things and not about people, you have to solve things, not solve the person you like.

4. Break up if it's not suitable, and let go if you don't love it.

After running in, if you find that it is really not suitable, then break up. Breaking up is good for both people, and forcing them together will only be painful. I believe that there will be a time when we will be separated, and that it is not such a terrible thing to be separated.

All relationships, from the very beginning, entered the countdown. All we have to do is be ready to accept that day as it comes. It's good to gather, it's good to disperse.

Myolie Wu once said in a special event on the Internet, "I am very grateful to my ex and ex, one of them made me a sensible girl, the other made me a mature girl, and I want to thank my current one the most, because he made me a child again." ”

The ex is really a very magical existence, without the ex you can't find out that the current one is so good, and without the ex you can't clearly know what you really need.

My ex taught me the following:

1. Love yourself no matter what.

In a relationship, we both give more love to each other, but even so, don't forget to leave a share for yourself. If you want to get more care and care, you still need to learn self-love, and people who know how to love themselves will be more attractive and can win the respect of their partners.

2. Appropriate independence.

During the relationship, some consumption is indispensable, although there is no need to eat AA, but it is not easy for anyone to make money, boys invite you to dinner, you invite boys to watch a movie. Men and women are not absolutely equal, and they will never be absolutely equal, but even in a romantic relationship, they should respect each other, rather than just letting one of them spend money.

3. Don't let the other party guess.

often talk casually, but in my heart I really hope that the answer that the other party comes up with can satisfy me, because I am angry about one thing, and I don't say the reason, it is all up to the other party to guess. Whether it's a man or a woman, no one wants to live in speculation for a long time, and no one is obliged to know your state at all times, and getting to know each other in a timely manner is far better than a turn-based relationship.

4. Communicate well and don't always hold it in your heart.

Communication is an important thing, two adults, have their own living habits for more than ten or even twenty years, who will have some "unpleasant" places, together can not always be sweet, contradictions are inevitable. Mutual understanding and consideration are the best states in love.

5. Don't just put up with it.

If you have a grievance in your heart, say it, don't be afraid that the other party will think that you are unreasonable, and reluctantly force yourself to be "sensible", which will only make the other party feel that you should be like this, so that the other party will not have any gratitude for your forbearance. So when you are in love, you must also have your own bottom line.

6. Don't let love be the whole of life.

There are many people who are in the stage of passionate love, their eyes and psychology are full of lovers, and the whole world is gone. Everyone should be an independent individual first, we are not born in this world to be a part of others, we have our own jobs, we have our own life security, love is just a part of life, and it is important for you and love to be rational.

What did your ex teach you?

Taught me that when I meet a scumbag, I must leave as soon as possible, a scumbag can never change his nature, and he will always say one thing and do another.

Don't feel that you have to be this woman, you will have a painful life after leaving, but you will meet the next better person. When the time comes, you will look back and be glad that you left a bad person who left behind a hurt person.

The greatest progress in this life is that the ex gives, and learns integrity, light, responsibility, openness, and selfless dedication to the people he loves. At the same time, I learned to regret it.

My ex taught me, 1, money is very important, two people together, no matter how much they love each other, no matter what they do, they must first have money. 2. Be yourself, you can't rely on each other for everything, be yourself upright, live yourself, sometimes people are just better and less enough. 3. Cherish the people in front of you, cherish every day, don't think about the future, don't indulge in the past, live in the present, live every day, no one knows what will happen in the next second, no matter how good yesterday is, you can't go back, and no matter how good tomorrow is, you have to finish today.

Thank you she for teaching me that not only beautiful women can't believe it, but ugly women can't believe it either

Responsibility, a man should be responsible, but unfortunately I understand, she left, and my wife picked up the cheap.

People can't kneel and lick a person without dignity, which will only make people look down on themselves even more, if you want to be together, you must learn to care for and respect each other, but it is impossible to walk together if you pay alone.

My ex taught me that love can't be blind, that I am born lonely, out of mutual love, not to bear each other, and to stop at friends overturning. It is used to browse again and again, and to treasure again and again. In the end, the heart is like stopping water, too lazy to start, neglecting to treasure, only the little thing left is regarded as desire, spending a little money, and releasing it naturally.

Stretch and stretch