I loved him, but he picked on me and left me.

Maybe you really have some bad habits that you want to change. Otherwise, he fell in love with other women.

If he really loves you so much. He doesn't just leave for no reason.

Either that, or some other very important reason.

I answered a lot about love, why do many people not feel happy in love, and often hurt in love? Is there anything wrong with love? I think it's right, you don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love him well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need and find the most suitable for you. To be able to get along smoothly and steadily, that is impossible, love is to hone in the ups and downs, there is happiness, there is pain, this is the taste of love, with pain you will cherish, with happiness you will continue to love, so love is not wrong!! Some fates are destined to be lost, and some fates will never end well.

In real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not necessarily be together; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most. It's only the person who appears at the most suitable time who is lucky enough to be loved by you and will really be with you forever! No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him (her), you don't want him (her) to be unhappy or unhappy, do you have the strength to make him or her happy? If there is, please continue, if not, you should want him (her) to be with the person you really love, don't stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him (her) anymore, love is not possession! Love is the concern in the heart, and the faint sustenance.

I hope that after reading me, the painful people can be relieved, and the confused people will find a way out. I hope you can find your true love. Oh.

Your state of mind can be divided into two phases.

There is a lyric in Eason Chan's "Red Rose", called "What you can't get is always in turmoil", which happens to completely sum up your mood in the early stage. Psychology can call it the halo effect, because at that time you love him and he doesn't love you, which is equivalent to - you can't get him, so you subconsciously imagine him to be very perfect, and you can even give all your love for your recognition of his perfection! So it's normal for you to love him more than you love yourself.

And the main reason for your later psychological change is that you have received his love and you are together. Here can be broken down into two reasons:

1. You find that as you get to know him, he is not so perfect, and he also has shortcomings, which subconsciously deal a fatal blow to your pre-formed perfect cognition, and thus make your love for him diminished;

2. Your familiarity and habits with each other have led you to a certain degree of aesthetic fatigue - don't think that aesthetic fatigue is only available to men, and women also have it. You must know the saying that distance produces beauty, right?

So don't worry, it's normal, you still love him, but part of the vigorous love has been transformed into your affection for each other, you should be about to get married, right? Bless you in advance.

Knights, respectfully.

Too much pay, make yourself physically and mentally exhausted! He is indifferent to your dedication to him, it is you who feel the failure, and your willfulness pushes you to be better to him! As a result, in exchange for his love for you, but also in exchange for your exhaustion!

I'm also a single-parent family, and my thoughts are more paranoid, and I can't accept even the slightest "betrayal". But my boyfriend and you may be the opposite, I am less influenced by my parents, I don't take into account my parents' thoughts, but it's not that I'm not filial, I'm more obstinate, and what I believe may go all the way to the dark.

People in single-parent families are more paranoid, which is formed when they are young, and the living environment, father or mother has been educated since childhood, some are particularly biased towards family affection, and some are particularly indifferent to family affection. Your boyfriend belongs to the former, he can't "betray" his father, he can only make a choice in front of family and love, the contradiction between you is obvious, it lies in his father, and the small dispute between you is a fuse, you say that he is very sensitive, it may be related to his profession, he may be very concerned about the details of the problem ......

I read your description of him above, I substituted me, if I were your boyfriend and I did the above things, I felt that I didn't love you anymore, maybe it was the accumulation of long-term friction, maybe it was something else. And your repeated concessions will make me feel that it is all your fault. I will find an excuse to propose a breakup, there may be psychological struggles in the middle, and there will be internal conflicts, but I am a paranoid person, and I have always given myself psychological hints, and every friction will strengthen my determination to break up.

So I left you. (This is just my guess, or what I see from my perspective).

Finally, I would like to say that unilateral efforts may have results, but giving without hope will only add wounds to oneself.