Is there any purpose for him to do this? What is his purpose?

It's the most troublesome to meet this kind of man.

Well, he's the kind of guy ... How to say it.

He is not confident in love, and he himself thinks that people like himself will not be loved and will not be hurt.

Well, so when a girl likes him, he's afraid, he's afraid, afraid of not being able to bring happiness to the other party.

So he doesn't have the confidence to fall in love at all, because he himself understands that a rotten person like him is not qualified to fall in love, and he only knows how to mix things up after a long time.

Even if he dares to love, then are the other party's parents willing to agree to their children marrying such a worthless person He himself has many poor conditions, alas.

If you really like him, then you have to tell him that you will not dislike him, and you must help him regain his self-confidence, help him find a good job, so that he can cheer up, so that he can get rid of all his bad problems.

Oops, it's complicated, you'll ... It's very tiring and hard.

Maybe he's afraid he can't give you happiness and let you think about it.

To put it bluntly, he doesn't think you two are the same world. He feels like he's going to delay you.

He said this only because he doesn't love you and doesn't want to reject you outright.

He is afraid, afraid that he will not be able to give you happiness, that you will be poor after you join him, that he has low self-esteem, that he is afraid of hurting you.

I'm also such a person and I have a crush on a woman, but I don't feel like telling her, I'm afraid I'm going to hurt her because she's so beautiful and has the temperament of a princess, I'm afraid I'm not worthy of it.

Don't make a decision so early, wait and see, just like now, normal relationship, you don't have to be with him now, do you have to be his boyfriend? He didn't ask you not to pursue it yourself, such a man would not be held responsible.

You're too good to give you what you want.

Purpose [ mù dì ].

Basic Definition. the place or situation you want to achieve; Desired Results: Ground. I want to explore the origin of the problem.

Detailed explanation. the goals pursued; The situation you want to achieve.

Liang Qichao, "The General Trend of Changes in Chinese Academic Thought", Chapter 4, Section 4: "However, its political purpose is to suppress tyranny as a great precept. Cao Yu "Thunderstorm" Act IV:

I know you're here for a purpose. Guo Moruo, Chapter 10 of "Hongbo Song": "I arrived at the destination at half past twelve and slept in a very simple primary school in Beitutang.

Ba Jin, "Cold Night" 7: "He walked aimlessly down three streets and was almost hit by a rickshaw that was hurtling downhill. ”

Sentence. 1.When we do things, we must have a spirit of never giving up until we reach our goals.

2.The motorcycle sped through and arrived at its destination in a few moments.

3.Pulling out seedlings and boosting them will not only fail to achieve the desired purpose, but will actually ruin things.

4.The purpose of developing the rural economy is to improve the livelihood of peasants.

5.Praise is a means to encourage progress, not an end in itself.

6.Only when a work of art is pleasing to the eye can it achieve the purpose of infecting and educating people.

7.The purpose of developing production is to improve the people's livelihood.

8.As soon as the troops arrived at their destination, the fighters were busy setting up camp.

synonyms: purpose, attempt, goal, policy.

Antonyms: means.

According to Chinese.

Learning is not trading, don't learn for rewards!

First of all, do you have a good relationship with your friends?

In my mind, this kind of relationship is more complicated, especially if your marriage relationship is not very harmonious and the other party is married, it is difficult for me to imagine that a friend who was once ambiguous will suddenly come to me and say, "Open a store for me to do business".

He knows that you were, of course, just that you once liked him "specially".

In other words, it's not unlikeable that he's probably visiting to see if you still like him.

Secondly, it is too easy to misunderstand such a thing as offering to give you money.

But why would he do such a thing that is particularly misleading? If it's for the good of both parties, or simply reminiscing about the past.

It's okay to have a heart-to-heart chat, sit down and have a meal or something.

But it's about money. Take people with short hands and eat people with soft mouths. This kind of thing is inexplicable, and it's hard for me to think that he is simply trying to help someone he has had an affair with before instead of finding one. Well, don't say ruthless.

If it's so simple, I can only say how could you not be such a simple person in the first place, dear!

And if you're doing business, you can ask him to help connect relationships or something, but fund something, oh my god = = don't.

Well, the latter sentence was deleted.

The girls now are quite realistic, I think you haven't known each other for a long time, he doesn't know you very well, and he can't be sure if you can succeed in the future, so I don't want you to know that he has a house, I'm afraid that you will be close to him because of his house, and I can't see whether your essence is someone who loves him.

Or he is not satisfied with his current house and wants to change it, or he is afraid that the woman will have an opinion about the location of his current house, so he will not mention his house for now, and then study this issue when it is time to discuss marriage.

Or the introducer understands something different from his actual situation.

There may also be that he is not very satisfied with you, and he doesn't want you to know more about him, this I met with my husband and he told me that he bought a good house, I didn't ask about the material issues at all, but he told me his monthly salary, I later heard the introducer say that he didn't tell people that he had a house on a blind date several times, it seems to be quite satisfied with me, I think if you date for more than a month, it shouldn't be this reason.

You can analyze the above possibilities yourself, if you can feel that he loves you, then he will not have any malice when he says that, and you can ask him directly if you have a lot of words after a little more relationship.

It's too frivolous, I don't dare to take the initiative to take responsibility, I'm afraid of being single-minded and responsible.

I feel like ah, it's not necessarily a surprise, but you have to believe him.

Let's not talk about the purpose, look at your question, you should not have known each other for a long time, maybe the introducer has the wrong message. It's best to communicate with him.

Maybe he wants to surprise you, or he is just lying to you, what is the reason, in addition to asking him, you can also ask the people around him, if you don't know his relatives and friends except him, then you have to be nervous.

Didn't the introducer lie to you?