Emotional questions, ask experts to answer, say whatever you want, it s better to stand in the posit

If you want to marry a wife, you have to measure it by your wife's standards, see what you like, make a list, she wants to meet all of them, and chase them.

Man, it is recommended that you think clearly about whether she is suitable to be a wife How much do you know about her Your personality is similar What you need to live in the future is not only feelings Feelings are important More importantly, there is tacit cooperation and forbearance in the heart It is recommended that you stay for a while and take a look Don't rush to conclusions.

If you want to chase her, you can chase it, and since you like it, you shouldn't be afraid of getting hurt, right, but when you're together, you have to think about whether you'll be separated, and the relationship that you have this idea at the beginning won't last.

I don't believe in astrology, I'm a girl too, but I believe in feelings, if you're sure she really likes you and you like her, let's try it together, and we're going to be old if we're not crazy.

In general, both are too sane! The sanity is good, too much sanity will be cold or violent, this thing has never been a middle way, you can only choose one or the other. Rational people are generally modest, and those who are too rational are mostly cold, because they are always comparing, thinking, calculating, calculating, planning, and making calculations that do not belong to the present for a long time.

The above belongs to the review part, and I don't know whether it's right or wrong:

Woman: There are a lot of truths and background information hidden. It can be seen between the lines that people who have a strong sense of self-behavior, and have always thought that they can understand others, and in fact I hope not to understand themselves better!

To be honest, if you give advice to the man in this article, the woman is definitely not the first choice, or even an alternative. The main factor in the conclusion is that the woman is unable to look at the problem from a more neutral point of view, and after paying too much attention to the feelings of others, it makes people feel that she is deliberately doing something, which is good: serving the people, and not good

Ask for something. Man: If it is really written in the article, it can basically be concluded that it is a small **. Therefore, I don't know if the woman has figured out the man's background, if she really hasn't figured it out, don't rush to invest, first make the background information clear, not only to see clearly, but also to have any doubts one by one, the company to see in person, the tax account to check online, the employee to verify.

Love life should be understood from the side! According to what the woman said, the man was ready to retreat from the beginning, including liking enthusiasm and not liking too sticky, haha, isn't this teasing Xiaobai? The person who was about to retreat at the beginning, you still dare to communicate with him in depth, and the end result is only a few pages left in his diary. , it's too white, I'm really embarrassed!

Of course, people who are too rational and do not confirm the direction properly will burst out with an incomparably huge amount of energy, making you more than you wish. Everything has to be based on authenticity. There is not much key information, just say it, don't pay too much attention to it!

Of course, in the end, if there is a choice, I hope to be able to sue it to see if our analysis makes some sense!

You've been fooled, sister, this is the trick used by this old man to deceive sex. And listening to your description, he is definitely a veteran, and he has been so deceived more than once. If my guess is correct, he will become more and more estranged from you in the future, and finally say that the two people are not suitable and break up.

As a marriage emotional counseling expert at Yuandun Emotion, I feel that I am a "happiness reversatriator". Nowadays, there is a misunderstanding about marital emotional counseling in society, thinking that marital emotional counseling cannot solve practical problems at all, or can only provide a platform to pour out emotions.

1.Dig into the problem together.

The problems of every marriage and love are different, there is no "panacea" in the world, and the marital emotional expert needs to accurately find the problem through long-term communication and consultation with the help-seeker.

2.Boost your emotional intelligence.

Marriage and love problems are never a person's problem, many people in different growth experiences and environments, inhibited part of the psychology, once the marriage and love problems appear, immediately fall into the collapse, closed, depressed, pain and other complex emotions, marriage and emotion experts must first use the knowledge of psychology to relieve the emotions for the help-seeker, provide positive psychological energy, so that the help-seeker with a positive attitude to face the problem of marriage and love.

3.Face the ego.

Chinese believe that "family ugliness should not be publicized", but marriage and emotional experts just want to face the hidden problems hidden in your heart with you, which may be darkness, failure, weakness, betrayal, pain, ......If the marital emotion specialist does not handle it properly, it will only make the helper turn away, and then say that the marital emotion specialist is useless at all.

4.Coordination for a long time.

Freezing three feet is not a day's cold. Many marital and love problems can be traced back to the early childhood of the help-seeker, and many of the psychological problems we develop in the growth environment eventually become the big problems that plague our marriage and love happiness.

In short, marital counseling is a highly professional work, which requires professional knowledge in psychology, anthropology, ethics, linguistics, etc., which is not comparable to chatting with girlfriends, which also requires the full trust and support of the help-seeker.

Generally not, because I actually know everything, and I usually analyze emotional problems for my girlfriends, but sometimes feelings are better than reason. Knowing that this is wrong but doing it for the sake of psychological comfort is also a kind of venting. I feel that it is not necessary to find an expert, just find a friend to analyze, and it is best to find a friend of the opposite sex to analyze, because you can look at the problem from the other party's point of view.

The question is that the emotion expert is in **? In fact, it is still needed, after all, men and women will actually encounter many problems in the process of getting along, with different personalities and different ways of thinking. Some people really have a hard time understanding each other.

No, the emotional expert is too ruthless, because you know your feelings, there must be a lot of friction in the life of two people, and after being amplified by the emotional expert, it is separation, can you accept it? Instead, it added fuel to the fire.

That's not a smart question. Emotional problems are common and are generally solved by themselves, but when you can't solve them, you can ask friends, relatives, etc., and of course, you can also ask emotional experts, but I think there are very few people who ask emotional experts, because there are too many emotional problems, and we can deal with them according to the normal way out.

No, I think only I know what each other's problems are. It's better for two people to solve the problem of two people on their own, and the emotional expert just concludes through a large-scale probability analysis that it doesn't work for everyone?

Basically not, after all, your own feelings have the final say, if there is really a problem, you can find someone close to you, the most trusted person to talk about the relationship problem, often what we need is not enlightenment, but an object to confide in, want to say your thoughts, rather than looking for someone to propose a solution, because what to do when you calm down and you will know what to do.

Taking 10,000 steps back, if you really want to find someone to come up with ideas, I think it's better to find people close to you, after all, they are the ones who know themselves best, they will put forward more objective suggestions, and sometimes they will directly find out the root cause, so if there is a problem with the relationship, I will not go to an emotional expert.

To see what the problem is, you can think about it for yourself first, don't go to experts easily, most of them are meaningless.

If there is a relationship problem and the two parties can't communicate to solve it, you may first ask your family and friends for help, so they know more about the situation. If that doesn't work, go to an emotional expert. After all, outsiders are more objective in pointing out problems.

I think that if there is a problem in the relationship, you can find a specialist appropriately, but the problem lies with you and him/her, and you should go to him (her) in person

Ask questions to solve the problem, but you can also listen to friends, family or classmates.

Depending on the situation, for ordinary people, if there is a problem in their feelings, they will be silently stuffy in their hearts in general, and they will not be told to others, but as a teenager, the phenomenon of general products is like this, as a minor, from the perspective of mental health, they will find a psychologist to consult and adjust their mentality.

This is not a clever question. Emotional questions are common situations, and they are generally solved by themselves.

DAO decides, but when you can't solve the situation, you can ask friends, relatives, etc., of course, you can also ask emotional experts, but I think there are very few people who ask emotional experts, because there are too many emotional problems, and we can deal with them according to the normal way out.

No, everyone's problems are their own, and everything you express to the experts may not be objective, so their advice is more likely to be ineffective. Or is it really effective to solve it yourself.

Objectively speaking, you should look for it, just like if you are sick and seek medical treatment and call the police. But I will first find my own reasons, if it is really my own fault, I will not say that it is their fault, but according to my statistics, seventy or eighty percent of people will not find their own fault, but look for the fault of others

Emotional experts are mostly equivalent to psychological counselors, who just say some nonsense and send you away.

If you have a problem with your own feelings, you should solve it yourself, can those so-called experts help you? It's just a scam of money.

If there is a problem with the relationship, first find out the problem and find a way to solve it; If it can't be solved, it can be solved with the help of external forces; The main thing is that two people face it together, as long as two people are willing to face it together, the problem is actually not big.

The starting point is different.

The natural result is different. The starting point of the psychologist is to get you out of the whirlpool of feelings; The starting point of the emotional expert:

It is to analyze how to deal with feelings from their point of view. Moreover, there is definitely a difference between the answers you get online and the answers you get in reality, because in reality, face to face with each other, it is more intuitive, and you get more information and more accurate.

The first thing to do is to reflect on the root of the problem, because of family conflicts or disagreements, calmly examine each other, if you can't solve the problem fundamentally, it will only become more and more discordant, if you can't find the problem, you can consult an emotional expert, but the shoes you wear others give advice, it is only a combination of appearance and past experience, a truth.

Relationship experts only know more about feelings and specialize in overcoming relationship problems, but sometimes your pain is only known to you, so relationship experts just help you channel all kinds of unpleasantness, and the real solution to the problem is only yourself.

But I've been to Mr. Pretend. There was payment, and in the end, he successfully got his girlfriend back. In fact, the main thing is to examine your own life and the process of getting along with your girlfriend, too many of us are not high in emotional intelligence, which leads to a lot of problems due to some internal factors and external factors when getting along, and a good relationship is lost.

Calm down and see, if she doesn't like you, it's useless to do more.

I think it's still possible, you try to contact her again, after all, women often say that they are ruthless. If she thinks you can't bring her better love, you just let it go. Remember, twisted melons are not sweet.

A woman who can casually say that she broke up, does she really love you?

Actually, he fights with girls just to get your attention.

If you ignore it, maybe he'll get even worse because he thinks it's probably because he's not obvious enough.

Usually boys are like that. Because they don't know how to explain themselves.

Love is not sure, but it must be liked.

Don't be casual with suspicion. Boys need more than just love, more than girls, they also need trust.

I can only say that you are still young, don't always think about love...

About the love behavior during the study period is immature love.

I believe that whether you are a man or a girl, you like smart people.

Then let's make yourself smart first.

As for how you can show that you are smart?

During your studies, then look down on him in terms of academic performance.

I believe he will make a wise choice.

Time is telling.

Good luck in the end.

Harvest your love and studies.

He has the psychology of needing attention, maybe you don't really care about him very often, he fights with others in order to attract attention, to see if you really care about him, and again, when there is a conflict between the two, you don't have to take the initiative every time, set aside a period of time for each other, which will make your relationship stronger after thinking.