When life is hard, how can we live brightly?

A person's real maturity is not how old he is, nor how much wealth he has and how high social status he has, many times he has a good attitude. I will no longer record myself because of the simple words of others, and I will not have too many obsessions about what I want. In my opinion, if you want to become an indifferent person, then you can start from the following aspects.

1. If you can think openly, you will naturally see it and let it go. Many times, the reason why we feel very tired in life is because we have too strong desires and don't know what is really important in our lives. If you carry too many things in your heart, you will feel heavy, and if you don't remove these burdens, you will always drag yourself down.

And letting go of the burden in your heart and letting go of strife is also letting go of yourself. <>

2. Learn to be grateful, contented and happy. We must learn to be grateful for the good life we have now, and learn to cherish all of this, because it is good enough for us, and everyone must learn to cherish the present. Contentment is a kind of wisdom, and it is more of an attitude of being at ease with what happens.

If you can look at the world with a grateful heart, then you will naturally become more tolerant and have a more peaceful mind. In many cases, what you want too much backfires, and being able to do what you want and obey the arrangement of fate is the best choice. <>

3. Cherish the parting of laughter. Everyone has their own life, and we will feel sad about the loss of family and friends in our lives, and we will cry with joy because of the reunion with old friends. These are all very normal parts of our human emotions, and all encounters in our lives are reunions after a long absence.

Some people are just passing by, but they also let us understand some truths, maybe they teach us love, maybe they give us some growth and lessons, these are very valuable experiences in our lives. A person can be indifferent to these things, which means that he can treat these things with a correct attitude.

When life is very hard, in fact, we can choose to complain with our friends, and discover the beautiful side of life.

When life is very hard, we must not be afraid of hardships, face difficulties, only continuous efforts to improve ourselves, in order to make life more exciting, in order to live a brighter life.

When life is very hard, let yourself have an optimistic attitude and the spirit of not being afraid of hardship, and believe that you can live a brighter life.

We should tell ourselves that we will definitely have a better life in the future and make ourselves happier, so that we will not feel pain.

You have to find some fun in your life and find what you like to do, so that you can live a bright life.

To have a good attitude, want to open a point, see a point, life to know how to be satisfied and grateful, cultivate some hobbies, enjoy leisure time.

When life is very hard, we must remember this moment, always remember the most difficult days now, and talk to others, so that we can have the motivation to live brightly.

We must face life optimistically every day, give ourselves a smile every day, and secondly, make our lives fulfilling.

First of all, we have to keep hope alive. No matter how hard life is, you need to entertain yourself. In this way, we can always maintain an optimistic attitude.

About a year ago, I heard Yu Xiaoguang say in the same bed and different dreams, "People are already very bitter, I want to add a little fun to people's lives", and Yu Minhong, the founder of New Oriental, also said, "People are born to suffer."

But the existence of suffering in life does not mean that you can be content with the status quo, because life is very hard, but you still need to believe in pure suffering and have fun. As far as we know, those successful people who say that their lives are meaningful and make great contributions to society, isn't this just happiness in suffering?

No one wants to be sad every day, so you need to add a little fun to your life. For example, singing, writing, photography, and all other filial piety can relax your spirit. Because everyone's spirit needs to relax.

The actor who played Su Mingyu's mother in "It's All Good" said in an interview that when encountering difficult times, there is no other way, just one word 'boil' and it will be over. You get through that sad time, and everything will be fine.

Just like the darkness before the dawn is always lonely, but you believe that the dawn is just around the corner, and if you don't give up in your heart, the sky will slowly light up after all.

When you come to this world, you always have to experience some bitterness to know how sweet and precious it is. If a person is enjoying everything, everything is a good thing, and it is definitely not a long-term solution. Everything is balanced, there are cause and effect constraints, and after many detours, I have understood this truth.

But do good deeds, don't ask about the future. Work hard, sincerely bless everyone, and have loving people and things. Live in the moment, there is no need to complain, eat well, sleep well, in the days, let every day have strength, have kindness, your life must be better!

What is life? Everyone's 'life' is different, no matter what life is, as long as we can look at it optimistically and make it meaningful, it is a perfect life.

Why is life always so hard?

That is to tell you that happiness is only short-lived, and that for short-lived happiness we have to work hard.

In daily life, to experience every feeling of ups and downs, each feeling will bring different feelings to yourself, so that life will not be monotonous.

As the saying goes, "only when you suffer hardship can you become a superior person".

Life is hard, life is difficult, but in order to support the family, for the sake of the family, you must bear these hardships. Unless you let go, you have to live.

When I feel that life is hard and difficult, I grit my teeth and come over. There are ups and downs in people's lives, and when you feel difficult, you can grit your teeth and persevere, and you can just cross this hurdle.

Where is sweetness without bitterness? It is impossible to live with birds singing and flowers every day. Life history is intertwined with ups and downs.

Tell me about my life experience, maybe it will help you. My father went early, I was alone, wandering in another country, did not ask anyone, the most difficult time only left in the bank card 165 yuan, and my monthly rent, is 450 yuan, I should be the only income ** is the night market, it is the winter off-season, an average of only 20 yuan a day, a month is a little more than 600 yuan, went to the rent, only 150 yuan left, a month is 30 days, the daily food standard is 5 yuan, absolutely can not exceed, over means that I want to starve to death. At that time, I was reluctant to even eat instant noodles, and I ate noodles for one yuan and one pack, which accounted for the miso sauce.

I am erecting a day by day thinner and thinner, at that time the heart of death has been, but after a while to think, since there is the courage to die, why can't you muster up the courage to live, just like that, I insisted until the summer, in the summer, the night market is the peak season, I can earn about 100 yuan a day, finally survived the most difficult days, after the pressure of survival is relieved, I want to work hard to realize my own ideals, I want to do something for the society, realize the value of my life, I feel that every day of life is very meaningful and fulfillingNow I have my own decisions and control, I feel that I am free, I want to travel can travel alone, unrestrained, the world is so wide. Find the way you think is the best way to realize the value of your life, remove all obstacles, and strive to achieve it, and what awaits you will be a thousand purple and red springs. Good luck.

When you've endured all the suffering....That's when you want to be happy.

Why is the life of a baby not bitter, because the human soul is innately pure; But in the process of growing up, parents, family, and society gradually cover the baby's soul with dust, so people's lives are bitter.

People struggle to survive in society in order to be alive, and the purpose of living is to wash away the dust from their souls.

Some people have an explicit purpose, so they can quickly enter the stage of self-cultivation until they are liberated. And most of them are hidden, and they will not be vaguely felt until after retirement and when they have a worry-free life.

Of course, there are also some people whose soul dust is too thick and distorts their souls. However, the legal net is magnificent, negligent but not leaky, and there is no legal or moral level.

If you feel more about life, you will gradually feel: bitterness is not necessarily bitter, the bitterness of the present may be the sweetness of the future; Sweet, not necessarily sweet, may be bitter later.

The heart is calm and naturally cool, everyone knows these five words, but how many people can really understand the profound meaning of these five words?!