At what moment do you feel isolated and no one understands you?

I've been at an emotional low point lately and feel like I'm alone a lot of the time. <>

1. A person works in the field. During my internship at university, I had nothing to do, so I joined the job. In the beginning, the work was done well, and I stayed.

After a long time, I have been a little unable to change industries. The place where I went to school was more than 900 kilometers away from my home, and I was not a family lover, so I was more comfortable at the beginning.

Due to the epidemic this year, I have not been home, and I may not have seen my parents for more than a year. I know they miss me a lot, and we're all people who aren't good at words and don't know how to express our emotions. Recently, my mom found a good microphone.

My little nephew was just two years old, and it was the time for a little talker. He sent me more than ten or twenty WeChat messages every day, telling me to eat, not to be too tired, saying that he missed me or something. I know it's my mom and dad teaching my little nephew, and every time I hear something like that, I feel very uncomfortable.

Second, the work is not satisfactory. I'm a relatively independent person, and I made my own decisions from childhood to adulthood. I am still a person who reports good news but not bad news, and my parents have always thought that I am doing well.

One year, when I came home for the Chinese New Year, I took my partner back. In the evening my dad suddenly said to me that he had always thought I was very good, but when he looked at my subjects, he would think that I had made my own illusions, and that I was not as good as they had imagined. At that moment, I was quietly having a nervous breakdown, my dad was right, I wasn't doing well.

The work was not satisfactory, and the person they were looking for did not meet their requirements.

3. The emotions are not smooth, and the heart is very lonely. I don't know if it's my father's words or I'm dissatisfied with my boyfriend, we have been procrastinating for many years, I still don't want to get married, there are a lot of problems in the middle, and there are a lot of helplessness, but I don't bother to change. I seldom confide in him my own emotions, and I am extremely lonely inside.

What do you think?

When I failed to start my own business, I felt isolated at that moment, and I didn't want to talk to my family, because I knew it, and I wouldn't understand it.

When I was in trouble outside, I felt alone without the support of my family.

There was no one to help me when I was in trouble, and I felt isolated and no one understood me.

It's that when I need help, no one will stand up and help me. That's when I felt like I was being abandoned by the whole world.

Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe, it will be a little better and understand the happiness of self-sufficiency.

The biggest knot in people's hearts is that they only see the fault of others, and identify themselves as victims, but the unfortunate poor people can't see through them, and the victims are often self-harmful, using the existence of others to harm themselves, and thinking about living a bad relationship, I don't know what to do. Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more?

A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice. It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self.

When there is no fear of loneliness, there is no need to divide one person and two people, women and men, tenderness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate.

The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down.

Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless. When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall.

When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, we encourage negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless. You must remind yourself that this feeling is just an inertial loop of cranial nerves that tend to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, so don't identify with it.

When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't cling to loneliness. Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you. Don't care whether this reliance point is real or not, people are people, and you have to rely on emotional pillars that are stronger than yourself to live.

Don't mind relying on it, don't care about saving face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to cling to loneliness. Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, and if you can improve, you can realize the meaning of life.

Go your own way, Tianxingjian, a gentleman to self-improvement!