After we broke up, why did we pretend not to see each other as soon as we saw each other?

Updated on pet 2024-04-30
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It shows that you are really in love, because you love deeply, you can't even be a friend.

    There is also the fact that when the other party loves you, they hide their true side, reveal the side you want to see, and only let you see the good side in order to make you happy. So that sentence, don't dislike the object like a child, when the other party doesn't love you, mature like your father.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Although it is said that being friends after a breakup is the best state for getting along in a relationship, who can do without their own personal thoughts.

    Everyone is selfish and doesn't want to mention the happiness and bitterness of the past. This is understandable.

    Maybe it's better to pretend not to know each other in order to avoid awkwardness and bad conversations.

    There are some things that need to be understood by each other. Like you said, a boy is also a flowery person, and it's not worth it to be depressed for him.

    Memories of the past will not be easily forgotten, only buried. A lot of people don't want to mention it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because after all, everyone has loved each other ......But because of some reason, they can't be ...... togetherSo that's going to happen after the fact......You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other ......You can't be enemies after a breakup because you have loved each other for ......That's the reason Luo ......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After you break up, you pretend not to see each other as soon as you see each other, because you feel that you have broken up, so you should not disturb each other and do not need to have any contact again, as if you never knew each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Break up and don't even see the last side, that's you, because you made people sad, some problems are what you did wrong, otherwise people won't see you, they won't be so ruthless, since they broke up, let the good and the good disperse, don't break up noisily, the last side that makes people sad, she won't see you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, this is a normal phenomenon, in fact, most of our couples will have such a situation when they break up, because they used to be close to each other, but when they break up, they will remember all kinds of things in the past, and they are afraid to think of the time they spent together. Another reason why I don't dare to look at each other is that I haven't come out of this relationship yet. I didn't dare to look at each other's eyes, in addition to worrying that I would be embarrassed, and the other was worried that I would remember the sad past.

    1.Worried that it will be embarrassing to meet suddenly after a breakup, it is already very embarrassing, and I guess my brain keeps thinking "What should I say?" ”。

    In such a state, it will only be more embarrassing to look each other in the eye. In fact, not to mention a couple who broke up, ordinary people will feel very uncomfortable looking at each other like this, and you will definitely feel uncomfortable if you have a person who has been looking at you. What's more, couples who break up are still people who know each other's past, and when they meet a special "old person", looking at each other's eyes will only be embarrassing!

    2.I'm worried that I'll remember the sad past againSome couples break up, often one party will still be nostalgic, but because the other party is determined to leave, he can only agree to let the other party go. Under such a premise, two people must be very reluctant to meet each other again, because they are afraid that they will accidentally remember the love and sweetness they once had, and then think of the fact that they have parted ways now, they will inevitably be very sad.

    If you look at each other's eyes again at this time, I'm afraid that you will lose control of your emotions if you are not careful. When we meet again in the future, how should I match you? In silence, with tears.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It should be said that the eyes are the windows to the soul. If you know this person, naturally don't say anything. On the one hand, I don't dare to watch it because I don't want to watch it, because I broke up, and I don't know what to say or do when we meet again.

    Therefore, seeing each other is like not seeing. On the other hand, it is afraid of emotion. After all, the people who have loved are more or less emotional when they say goodbye.

    When meeting old friends, you have to learn proper manners. Now, your partner is not him, and his partner is not you. So, as a girl, it depends on what the boy is going to say and what he is going to do. This way of intoxicating me with my own limbs is still quite special.

    Now that we have broken up, it is inevitable to meet again. So, what else to look at? Let's go, let's go. But men, every man lives his own life. Seeing too much doesn't solve the problem, so it's better to treat it as nothing.

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