What should I do if I am very inexperienced in society?

In fact, this kind of problem is normal!~

There's an old saying that says it well"If people are not born to know, who can be free from confusion! ~~

That is to say, people are not born to understand everything, and they will be confused! ~~

If something goes wrong, think about how to solve it! ~~

Poverty is thinking of change, and only when you see your own shortcomings will you think of changing.

First of all, your starting point is higher than others! Because you see your own shortcomings! ~~

Secondly, you can ask the problem here, which shows that you are a person who will find a way to solve the problem! It also shows that you are an enterprising person! ~~

In the end, you should actively change yourself on this basis! ~~

Of course? In this process, you don't know everything, what you need to do is to put your mindset right and do it step by step!

How to cultivate social experience is not a problem that can be solved in the short term! ~

It requires you to keep making mistakes, then fixing them, and then reappearing, and then fixing them.

Until old age! ~~

Hehe, isn't it a little deep! ~~

To put it bluntly, people have to live to learn! ~~

Experience is accumulation de !!

It's good to have a little more frustration at a young age! You must have a good mentality, don't go to extremes! ~

Finally, I will tell you my motto, I hope it will inspire you! ~~

Mount Tai does not let the soil become its big, and the river and sea do not choose a trickle so it can be deep! ~~

You may not understand what this sentence means! As long as you remember! ~~

The benevolent see the benevolent, the wise see the wise!

Social experience is to be accumulated slowly, don't worry, not everyone is born with rich experience, it is slowly accumulated in the work.

Don't be afraid. After a long time, it will be good naturally.

Social experience needs to be accumulated.

I don't have to ask more, and I don't know what I can't get enough of.

What should I do? In this way, as a person who has come to this phenomenon, I would like to share my own experience, hoping to help you. We need to learn to know ourselves

So what is self-knowledge? It's about being yourself, and it's usually very easy for us to understand others, but it's hard to understand ourselves. When you are alone, be quiet and think about what you are good at.

What can I do? What are your interests?

As the saying goes, interest is the best teacher for people, so everyone should first find their own interests, so that they can be more motivated. Then re-understand yourself, see what you are good at, learn from each other's strengths, and strive to give full play to your strengths. People sometimes blindly follow the trend because of their own unawareness, and their hearts are arrogant, and they are getting farther and farther away in a direction that is not suitable for them.

Find a job you like and do it steadily.

According to the different strengths and interests of each of us, find a job that you think is suitable and do it seriously. When it comes to seriousness, in fact, sometimes everyone doesn't *** this. I often hear the sound of complaining about salaries and complaining about enterprises.

At this time, we have to figure out whether we are serious about doing our work, 360 lines, pay will be rewarded, there are leaders in all fields, and every enterprise has excellent employees. Therefore, don't complain, love a line, just do a good job of him. Do not be arrogant or impatient, persevere, and firmly believe that success will come naturally.

Hello subject, just enter the society, you can imagine joining the army as a national defense force, for example, if you just enter the army, you must be able to bear hardships and stand hard work, in the learning stage, everything and everything need to do your best to learn and train, waiting for you to gradually hone into a veteran, it will be confirmed that you can be invincible in the real society! Therefore, you have just learned to put down your books and step into society, you must have some feelings and thoughts, but you still don't know a lot about society, and society is aware of many things that are not very good. There is happiness and kindness, but there is also evil and cunning, but you may not be able to really say goodbye, but it will only appear after experiencing it for you.

Taiwan Grass".

You should accumulate more experience, work hard to improve your ability, read more books, and go out for a walk.

First of all, in ordinary life, we should strengthen our own learning of work, strengthen our understanding of work, and strive to improve ourselves in ordinary life, learn more, ask more colleagues around us for advice, exercise our abilities in all aspects, and make ourselves better.

Maybe it's because you don't pay much attention to learning from others, after all, if you learn by yourself, the effect is really not obvious, and you have to learn from others' strengths.

This isn't something you can do overnight! Social experience is formed by constant fall and constant training. The so-called sophistication cannot be pretended.

This depends on the erosion of years and the growth of experience! All you need at present is not to be sophisticated, but to learn more about the unspoken rules and experience of the workplace. Don't pretend to be old-fashioned, the current society is very fine, and it is not okay to have something real.

The details are as follows: 1. Introduction.

In fact, there is no absolute definition of the term social experience in real life, so many people misunderstand it"A person's life experience during this time period from the time they graduated from school to the present", it seems to be only"After graduation"It's time to enter society.

2. Definition in life.

This is not accurate, because this concept contains too much personal color, in fact, we have entered the society since birth, and we are not the more we suffer, the more social experience we have, because"Suffer"Just one aspect of our social experience, a lot of life philosophies and social skills are needed"Take profit"comprehended.

3. Specific analysis.

In terms of time, each of us (the subject of society) has already entered the stage of accumulating social experience from birth, not really"After graduating from school"Start calculating because that's what it should be called"Work experience"or"Industry experience", not"Social experience"。

There is no clear definition of the term social experience, but it is generally accepted that this stage is the stage of adaptation from the student to the society. There are many manifestations of social inexperience, one is that it is very timid in a new environment, which is a normal manifestation, and people will inevitably retreat in the face of unfamiliar people and environments.

Second, it is difficult to communicate smoothly with professionals, just entering the workplace, I don't know much about many workplace rules and etiquette, and I often can't find the entry point of the topic in the face of colleagues, which is also a manifestation of lack of social experience. The third is to pour out the heart and lungs of everyone, the social environment is different from the school environment, there will be many aspects of interest conflicts involved in the society, and people with little social experience are easy to trust others and put themselves in a dangerous situation.

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Talking too much in a new environment is inappropriate and offensive. After all, when you work, talking less and doing more is the golden rule pursued in the workplace. When you are ripe, you can return to yourself, and I hope to adopt personal advice.

First of all, get out of the protective circle of your parents, really get in touch with society and people on your own, and don't ask your parents for help whenever something happens.

Secondly, go out for a walk and experience some things, and you will mature soon.

Really, society is a university hall.

It's not your fault that you don't have anything to say in your new environment, and it's not a weakness.

For you are a newcomer to the new environment, you are also a newcomer to others, even if you want to communicate with others, "inexperience" may make the communication unsuccessful, so the problem of poor communication is not only you, not your fault.

In addition, being restrained in a new environment means respecting and respecting existing rules, and being cautious because you don't know the rules in your new environment (in a broad sense, such as the scale of speech, tone of voice, etc.). Everyone understands this, so they don't have any opinion about such a person who has nothing to say. On the contrary, the kind of people who talk to unfamiliar people tend to be wary.

Even successful salesmen are not necessarily "socially experienced", and it takes time and sincerity to communicate.

Be at a loss for yourself, and you'll find yourself changing.

<>1. Being very timid in a new environment is a manifestation of positive grinding, and people will inevitably retreat in the face of unfamiliar people and environments.

2. It is difficult to communicate smoothly with people in the workplace, who have just entered the workplace, and do not know much about the rules and etiquette of many workplaces, and often cannot find the entry point of the topic in the face of colleagues, which is also a manifestation of lack of social experience.

3. Dig out your heart and lungs for everyone, the social environment is different from the school environment, there will be many aspects of interest conflicts in the society, and people with insufficient social experience are easy to trust others and put themselves in a dangerous situation.