Why is it that those who love each other are always hindered by their parents

Updated on parenting 2024-04-04
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do you know what the reasons for the parents' hindrance, if you know, it is recommended to consider the parents' advice, after all, parents are all for the sake of their children's happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you become a parent, you will understand.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because you and your parents didn't have the same intentions!

    Do you think that as long as he loves you and loves you very much, it is enough!

    And what your parents value is whether that man can give you happiness for a lifetime!

    Don't blame your parents, the hearts of parents all over the world are for the good of their children!

    As for your parents, they get in the way of wanting to love together.

    It must be that they are not happy with that boy!

    I think he can't give you security in your future life!

    Moreover, there is a disagreement between the views of children and parents.

    I think it's also a lack of communication!

    How many children have asked parents what should we look for?

    We only go to the object of our own will.

    Indeed, you may say that we are looking for a partner for ourselves.

    Not for parents!

    But we can only look at the object from one angle.

    That's from a lover's point of view!

    So we can't really see each other clearly!

    That's why so many girls are hurt.

    And then what do you say: There is no good thing for men in the world.

    Hehe! I think girls should look at objects from many aspects and perspectives.

    For example, look at what his friends, his relatives, and say about him!

    Then maybe you'll get to know him better!

    Men will always be good to women.

    Not to mention lovers! Hehe!

    Or be considerate of your parents!

    What are your parents unhappy with your partner?

    You should ask your subject to try to improve that aspect.

    Do better so that it doesn't make you, your partner and your parents angry!

    When you really grow up and become more mature, you will feel that it is not easy for your parents.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. For adults, love that is not premised on marriage is irresponsible. Therefore, although love is only about the decision of both parties who love each other, the opinions of parents also play a very important role in the longevity and sweetness of love.

    And the vast majority of parents in the world love, care, and understand their children. So they always want to be able to find the most suitable and best object for their children. I think in this regard, you should understand your parents, listen to their opinions, and look at the reasons why your parents don't like them from your parents' point of view.

    As the saying goes, "People who are in love are mostly fools". It is also very good to have parents on the side to observe and analyze objectively.

    Of course, because parents attach too much importance to their children, many parents will portray and imagine the perfect object standard for their children in their minds. Therefore, when the object of reality appears, it is inevitable that they will oppose and dislike.

    Based on the above, I believe that as children, we should respect and seriously consider the opinions of our parents on the premise of understanding them. If what your parents say is reasonable, don't blindly protect your lover, you should coordinate and correct your shortcomings. In addition, you should also let your lover and your parents touch more often, communicate more, and understand more, so as to deepen the good feelings between each other.

    I think if it was really for the sake of a good lover, the parents would agree and accept it happily.

    Sincerely bless you!

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