Shouldn t such a girlfriend be dumped, even though I love her very much

First, she received ** and went home immediately the next day. Going home is just an excuse, she may just want to leave you, leave this place, and can't talk to you. Second, I didn't care about my parents' feelings before, and suddenly I didn't want them to worry about it.

As soon as I heard it, I knew that it was an excuse again, and the purpose was the same. Third, she walked not only suddenly, but also decisively. Are you really in love?

Or is it always you who are self-inflicted and trapped yourself in so-called true love? Personally, I think that she either has something to hide from you, or wants to break up with you, and you don't know that she has a heart to leave, and only says that you love each other. You should sort out your thoughts, reconfirm your relationship, ask her out, spread out the matter and explain it clearly, and then let each other calm down, and then make a decision.

It's time to throw it away, and only you know it personally.

Yes, that kind of person doesn't deserve you like that.

Maybe you can go with her and look for a job over there.

Feelings, in one aspect, are value. It's going to change, it's just the degree and speed of change. In that case, let's get together and disperse, there are still good things waiting for you.

I'm glad I left this garbage early!

Very sad, but will bless her.

No one dumped anyone, and turned around in style.

I guess you need to make your girlfriend aware that her spending habits are likely to affect your future lives. Tell her that it's not that you don't want to spend money for her, but that spending money also needs to be planned, and it needs to be within a reasonable range of consumption.

The two parties make plans for the future together, make corresponding agreements and moderations on the current economic situation, stipulate the amount of her consumption each month, and work together for each other's future. And if she really loves you and expects to be able to enter a happy marriage with you, she will definitely try to cooperate with you.

I want to say, if you are a stubborn person, then please grasp it and don't let go, if you want to be together, don't care too much, you will always overcome it. Getting true love is more to be proud of than winning a million!

If you are a troubled person, then please let it go, because the pain of breaking up is only short-lived, and there are more troubles in the future that are too late for you to deal with, so why not keep everything simple.

Personal opinion: Divide it Unless you are very rich, of course, you are very rich, and you will not care If you like famous brands and luxury, it means that she is not very sensible, of course, you love her very much, and you are really reluctant, then don't divide it, you work harder and earn more, and raise her later.

Even if you get married, what about after that? Money for marriage, money for having children. You care about the dollar or two, have you thought about it?

Hello, I think everyone's lifestyle is caused by the production environment he grew up in, and long-term habits make him accustomed to it, and it is difficult to change.

If your girlfriend can pay for that, I think it's okay for her to do that, just a little bit more focused on the quality of life. I think as a boyfriend should respect the other person's habits, but if she doesn't have the financial means and asks you to bear it, that's a different matter, because I think as an adult you should know how to do what you can.

So I think you have to consider the economic situation, if you can meet it, since you love her so much, why not accept her habits, and everyone will be happy?

Two people's family backgrounds are different, and the material pursuit of convenience is completely different, everyone will have one or several relationships, and you are still in school can only be called the feelings of the school days. It's not that hard to decide.

I advise you to think again. You are still students, and many things are unpredictable in the future. How can you be sure that you will make a lot of money in the future?

Even if you make a lot of money, you may not be able to satisfy her? Even if you satisfy her, if your outlook on life and values are different, the relationship will still have problems after a long time.

If you want to insist on your relationship, I think one of the two of you must change for the other person, either you change or she changes.

A careful budget, a big spending, you can communicate about it, but it really takes effort and time to change the way you spend money, if you are financially constrained, then it means that you are poor, if you are budget-conscious, then it means that you will live, is her family's conditions better than yours? Habits from an early age cannot be changed, so modern people propose early education for children, that is, early education.

I think what you said is a small problem, maybe there are many problems you haven't said, but if you really love her, you must know how to tolerate and understand.

Since I love her, what can these things be, among the men I know, I would rather suffer myself than let the people I love suffer, try to give her the best, love the house and Wuma.

Is this called luxury? You're too stingy, aren't you? She should break up with you!

If you can afford to raise him, continue to love him, and if you live hard to support her, you should divide it early.

It is difficult to live together for a long time with different concepts of life. Think...

You're still young, aren't you? At 20 years old, your girlfriend isn't a luxury, but it's good to talk to her.