About selfishness, relatives come to live in my house to live in my patience limit

Hello. I don't think you can say that you are selfish, if it were me, I might also feel very annoyed, it was she who broke the original peace and harmony in the family, I might want to kick her out, but you know, no matter what she says, she is your relative, maybe it is really the parents of this generation of relatives have a stronger sense of kinship, they have grown up in the fight of siblings since childhood, and most of the current generation are only children, maybe they don't know how to deal with the relationship between relatives, they will feel a little embarrassed, I don't know what to do, But no matter how you say it, you still have to do enough work on the surface, even if you don't like your relatives anymore, but you still have to be polite to others, they are also your elders, as for the senior relative, or do your best to help her, you try your best to help her, no one will say anything about you, at least your duty has been done, then it is her business whether she listens or not, even if she fails the exam or something else happens in the future, you can also say that I can try my best to help you at the beginning, but you don't listen, she is responsible for her future!

Pure hand-hitting, for the sake of saying so much, it's o( o

No, because it is normal for your relatives to come to live with you and always bring you some inconvenient trouble. But if they are really in trouble, then you should also be more considerate of your relatives, so that everyone can relax their hearts.

Not selfish at all.

The current DU people, who owe money and don't pay it back, will be ashamed, and the debt collectors will be dao

First of all, people are selfish, and it's normal to have this kind of thought.

Secondly, there is a saying that "brothers settle accounts" If there is no certain interest relationship, this is also said in the past, and in the end, after all, it is an outsider, and everyone has their own things and their own way of life, and it will definitely be annoying if you live for a long time.

In fact, China's traditional concept of Bai kinship is very harmful, I have seen an article about dao before, poor relatives always have to go to live in the city, with the family, she has to go to work, there is no time to take care of them, they say that she looks down on them, and when she goes back to her hometown, she says bad things about her. In short, it's a thankless effort. Later, when relatives came, she paid them to stay in a hotel outside and did not let them go to her house, although her family was very large and there were many houses.

It's not that you're selfish, it's that this kind of thing is really troublesome, and no one always wants to entertain relatives like this every day. The problem is not with you, but with them. In the future, if you have a special relative, you will be entertained.

If you are not more than three generations, or if you don't want to receive it, you will directly refuse, and they will not say hello in the end anyway.

It's definitely annoying to keep talking all the time, but once or twice a year it's fine.

Why do you want to live with someone else in your own home... The logic is weird.