Why don t you say good things and what does it mean

Your social experience is not mature enough, so you can hone more quickly, so that you can learn to deal with others as soon as possible, and I believe that you will mature.

You can't say good things about people you don't like.

Can lead him to tell the truth.

Hello, your question has been received, and it is my pleasure to answer for you! 1. It's not easy to talk because it's hard to communicate; 2. For example, it means that it is difficult to describe a person who is really difficult to speak, and it is difficult for this person to communicate and communicate, and it makes no sense to say anything; 3. People who don't talk well are very annoying. Hope mine can help you, thanks!

Every day of our lives, we inevitably have to talk or listen to others.

We will find that when chatting with some people, we always feel very happy, and the original depressed mood will suddenly become brighter; When talking to some people, it will make people nervous, and every word they hear makes people feel like they are on pins and needles; At the same time, there are some people who have just said the first sentence, and some people want to leave, and they don't want to listen to it anymore.

Generally speaking, people are often able to effectively expand their interpersonal relationships and use different ways of speaking with different people to achieve the best of both worlds. I surround myself with people who have a great eloquence and are able to adapt to any situation without losing manners. Even when pointing out the mistakes of others, you can be embarrassed without losing grace.

It's not easy to get it right. Although we have to talk every day, not all of us can speak. When well spoken, it can make people feel joyful; If you don't speak well, you will only attract complaints. Therefore, the words should be said both well and wisely.

Good eloquence is not the most fundamental factor that determines a person's success, but good eloquence can make people feel like a tiger and increase the bargaining chips for success.

In daily life, you should strive to cultivate your oral expression skills, seize all the occasions and times that can express your home, and cultivate your ability to speak well, so that you can seize more opportunities and make yourself stand out from the crowd.

It's actually because you know that if you don't talk to your customers well, you're losing your money-making business. If you don't talk to outsiders well, you will lose your image.

But if you don't talk well to your family, the people closest to you can still tolerate you, so there are fewer scruples and more strength, and the so-called loved ones have no fear.

Shi Tiesheng mentioned in "Me and the Altar of Earth" that he hurt his closest person - his mother because of his moodiness.

At the age of 30, Stetson was paralyzed, and since then, he has become unpredictable and emotionally capricious. It wasn't until the sudden death of his mother Lu Xiang that Shi Tiesheng woke up. In the text, he wrote:

At that time, her son, who was too young to think about his mother, was so overwhelmed by fate that he thought he was the most unfortunate one in the world, not knowing that his son's misfortune would always be doubled by his mother. I have read such a sentence: "Being polite to outsiders may only be tactful, and leaving a good attitude to the person you love is the upbringing that goes deep into the bone and the core."

How to understand a person's true character is very simple, it depends on his attitude towards his family. Because in front of his family, he will take off all his disguises and masks to show his true side.

A few months ago, a new colleague Xiao Zhang came, who was humble and courteous to his colleagues, patient and polite to customers, and very diligent in his work. Gradually, I gained the trust of my colleagues, and when I was too busy with a good project, I would introduce him to him. However, later some small things made everyone have a new understanding of him, and once, the company organized a dinner party, which could be attended by family members.

Xiao Zhang was also busy, helping Zhang Luo order food for everyone, and treated everyone very warmly and carefully.

The woman's house is verbose, you can withdraw first if it's okay. Although the voice was small, I could feel that the atmosphere was a little awkward. But after he turned his face, he immediately laughed and chatted with his colleagues again.

If you can't solve such a thing, what else can you do? "It's not good to take care of children, but when you ask for money, you're very active. Hearing this, my colleagues were dumbfounded, no matter how stressful it was, it was really chilling to scare my family like this.

If a person's behavior outside represents the quality of personal image, then the words and deeds at home affect the atmosphere of a family, in fact, treating family members well is the best feng shui for a family.

Life is very long, but also very short, I hope you and I will treat our families with a pleasant face, get along gently, and have a harmonious family.

If I wasn't allowed to go out to work, I wouldn't go out to work, and it would be a very happy thing to take care of my family at home, but unfortunately I still have to work hard and don't have such an opportunity

If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he is the happiest person in the world. I would like to be such a person, I don't think anyone wants to. However, looking back at myself, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home?

I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well! The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest? Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face was wrinkled, not beautiful, and I was tired of speaking vulgarly.

There are frequent quarrels, and it is not pleasing to anyone who looks at them. So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people. Those who love love to return, and the love is deep when the love is true.

On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are upset

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of kind, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, smile at you every day, never quarrel with you. But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?

Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others? If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person; But the fact is that you always put your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be yin, one will be bad, one will be that bad, and one will be bad, saying yes and wrong in front of colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader does not trust you, can such a day be called a good day!

You must know that those who benefit others benefit themselves, and those who are blessed are blessed.

Whether you are ridiculed by your partner or hurt your self-esteem, you always look like you want to explain but you don't have a chance to explain, and the other is to suppress your partner when you have the opportunity, be aggressive, and never speak well. Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng were married in a flash, they knew each other for less than a month Zhang Wanting was pregnant, and the two got married until the child was born, and there were all kinds of contradictions between the two, Zhang Wanting still commented on this relationship in an interview - we are not familiar with each other. The audience thinks it's very strange, three or two months of marriage can be said to be unfamiliar, and children have been born for so long and still can't be acquainted, how should this kind of marriage be lived?

Of course, it's not good, Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng quarreled under the monitoring, and Zhang Wanting also said in the interview that when the two quarreled, she held the child in one hand and pinched Song Ningfeng's neck with the other hand to quarrel with him. In this marriage, quarrels are full of them, Zhang Wanting feels that Song Ningfeng doesn't love her enough, and keeps asking for love, but what is the love in Zhang Wanting's mouth? It's the partner who has to notice her emotional changes all the time, it is to save face for her in front of outsiders, it is the partner who can't fight back and scold back, and it is the divorced Song Ningfeng who meets Zhang Wanting, who is willing to give birth to him and is ten years younger than him, so he has to love her unconditionally.

And what did this woman who asked for love from her partner do? Blaming and suppressing the partner, not respecting the partner's right to speak, and removing the partner's face for the sake of his own face......All in all, the series of operations is very suffocating. There are several scenes that are most impressive:

One is three pairs of "husband and wife" sitting on the moving bus laughing and chatting, Zhang Wanting's spearhead suddenly pointed at Song Ningfeng, and said in front of everyone that Song Ningfeng had a good life and found a good wife like himself, unlike his own hard life, he found a drag oil bottle like Song Ningfeng.