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Anonymous users2024-02-08I've never felt that autism is a bad thing. On the contrary, autistic people are usually very delicate in their feelings, able to see things that others can't see, and feel feelings that others can't. Everyone has their place, and we don't necessarily force ourselves to be extroverted, and the sky is just as gorgeous as the autistic sky.
Just like the famous writer Franz Kafka, he once felt bitter about the loss of his job opportunity because of his autism, but after some reflection, he found that autism was a talent for his writing, so he devoted himself to writing and achieved a great career in life. Maybe you feel that autism makes you very uncomfortable, and if you want to get out of this predicament, the method of "nirvana in the fire" is also very good. But if you really can't get out, it's okay to maintain the status quo.
Autism is also very attractive!
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Anonymous users2024-02-07I also have this symptom – I don't like to be in contact with people.
Green Angel 17 is right.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Read a book. Then go outside more. There are always friends with similar personalities and interests to you, communicate with friends more, and he (she) will take you to the outside world.
Also, it's about affirming yourself and believing that you're the best. You're just a little bit autistic, and I have too, but I've always been consistent with my friends, and I'm in a much better mood now. You try it.
As long as you feel love around you, you will come out of yourself. Be brave, you're great! ：）
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Anonymous users2024-02-05The subject is good, if he hadn't been like this since he was a child, there was a high probability that he would not be autistic, but self-isolated, lacking motivation, and needing self-activation.
At present, he is reluctant to talk about his work, but he is trying to shrink into a safe area and avoid problems that he does not want to face.
Presumably, you have thought of many ways and channels to relieve him, but it may be a kind of pressure for him.
Talk about everyday things, and there is no sense of resistance to communication.
As soon as we talk about work, we slow down or simply fall silent.
So there are a few questions that need to be confirmed:
Did he take the initiative to look for a job?
What are the requirements for the job?
Does he value what others think of him?
If he has taken the initiative to find a job, then you need to help him adjust his psychological expectations and start first.
If his requirements for the job are realistic, then see if there is a way to save the country with a curve, find a similar opportunity to be a springboard, and enter first.
If he values what others think of him, he recommends that he go for a long run, and recommends reading "Poor Charlie's Book".
Because, even if you don't have a university diploma and a degree, there are still many jobs that you can do, and your future achievements may not be low.
Even people with excellent grades in graduation certificates and degree certificates will inevitably encounter cold treatment when they enter the workplace.
It can be said that if you go to school for four years but don't get a stepping stone to the workplace, it doesn't mean that you can't have a good career path.
Some of these friends woke up suddenly when they hung up on the first subject. Some of them have a good way of taking the exam, or their family conditions are very good, or they have a very strong ability to assault before the exam, so that they can get a graduation certificate.
Some friends choose to wait for other opportunities to save the country because of the jobs their families are looking for, and they are not as good as their friends' jobs, so they can suddenly reverse the decline and completely turn the tables around.
As a result, many years have passed, and people feel even worse because they are out of touch with society and facing the financial pressure of getting married and having children.
Begin to wrap yourself tighter, and go deeper into the world of ** and game to numb yourself.
So, 27 years old is still good, advice: don't preach.
1. Talk to him about the ** he likes, talk about the structure of the story, the logical cause and effect in it, and the character settings, and his understanding, incomprehension, and identification with these worldviews.
2. Run with him.
3. Take him into the workplace where he can, give him feelings, and arouse interest.
I have an older brother who is like this, and it is usually difficult to communicate with people, until he finds a work he likes, and he is very confident when communicating with people.
And when I went on a blind date, yes, before I met the girl he liked, I basically couldn't say two words to each blind date, and that girl later became my sister-in-law, and they started to meet as soon as they met, my brother was completely activated, and there were so many words that he couldn't do it.
The family was stunned.
At that time, I was struck by the need to create opportunities for them to try, everyone's channel is different, and if the channel is right, it can be activated.
If he still has a wish in his heart, he will slowly get better, and these successive blows are very difficult to recover, but they can also be broken through.
The diagnosis of autism is extremely complex, and it is recommended to find a professional to do it.
I can understand your feelings.
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