Should I avoid or face my crush I m a timid introvert and my tolerance is too weak! Scared!

How did you hint at him, and how did he avoid it?

After reading your description, I think he is deliberately avoiding you, has his attitude of avoiding you changed, or has he always avoided you like this, and has not seen any improvement?

I think that when confronted with a girl's suggestion, the boy's avoidance attitude is nothing more than two possibilities.

One is that he doesn't expect you to have a crush on him at first, and feels a little sudden and unprepared for your hints, which doesn't mean that he doesn't like you.

The other is that as the number of hints you give increases, his attitude becomes more and more cold, even colder than before you hint, I think it means that he just wants to be friends with you and has not thought about further interactions. So it's futile to keep trying.

Secret love is to avoid, if it's open love, it's to face it.

If you are too shy to confess to her, it implies that he confesses to you.

I think the crush should be faced, liking a person is not a shameful thing, make sure he is worthy of liking, then work hard to give yourself and the other party a chance, and don't look at the result too important, because in the end you will find that the feeling that makes your heart is the most precious, and don't wronged yourself, first learn to be good to yourself in order to be better to others, fate is very strange, inadvertently generated, if you don't cherish it, you may not be able to meet such a good person, face it bravely, fight for it may become, but cowardice is doomed!

First of all, you have to distinguish the object, if the object of your crush can be with you, confess to her, why avoid it, she doesn't know if you have a crush, you can't be with her, even if the confession is not successful, just keep it as it is, it won't be worse, maybe she accepts it!

If the person you have a crush on can't be with you, such as a teacher or someone who has a significant other, then forget it for a long time, she is happy and you are happy, right? If one day you feel that she is unhappy, you can save him.

If you are a boy, you should be brave to face it, although you are timid and introverted, as a man, you should be brave enough to regain your self-confidence and be strong to pursue. If you're a girl, a crush is a treat for you, and if you're willing to keep it that aesthetic, you can avoid it for the time being. But sometimes say it, and maybe he'll be your real man!

But at the same time, it is also facing a severe blow. There are two sides to everything, so measure it yourself.

Question: Timid and afraid, afraid to look at each other, eyes are scattered, like to escape, what is the condition?

Answer: Autism is a mental illness that causes "social phobia", and medication can't help you. You need counselling to be able to successfully get out of loneliness. Take the initiative to make friends with others and don't close yourself off.

I don't know what you're afraid of because you're afraid of each other, are you afraid of everyone? If you are afraid of other people's negative comments about you, so you don't dare to look at each other, and mainly avoid the other person's eyes, which affects your normal life, you may have a tendency to social phobia. I don't know if you'll do anything else to ease your anxiety but avoidance.

You may be a person who is not very confident, it is recommended that you usually participate in more group activities, accumulate experience in contact with people to build self-confidence, try not to escape, but to directly face the things that make you anxious, such as looking at each other, you can start with people who are not so afraid of you try to practice looking at each other, if you have thoughts that make you anxious when looking at each other, try to only treat them as an idea rather than identifying with the facts, and see if you can improve.

Can you give an example of this cowardice? If you don't have an opinion, you can have your own opinion, and it doesn't matter if you don't like to talk, it has to do with his personality. If you feel safe with him and he is really dedicated to you, how can you not be reliable?

Reliable fart? How can a man have that kind of character, not even as good as a woman.

If you are not reliable, a boy should stand up to the sky and be brave in front of the person he likes.

As long as you can afford it, you can say that it is reliable.

It's important to be good to you, but we're going to marry a gentleman, and we'll be able to do it ourselves.

Such a person is not suitable to be a lifelong companion.

If you are the opposite with him, you can be together.

You have to talk more, it's okay to say wrong, men have to be thick-skinned, if they don't speak, they won't have a topic, read more books on knowledge, or read more news newspapers and the like. Hope can help you.

You are too weak in diplomacy, and you are not confident in yourself. This is the most terrifying, so, can let go of yourself, or let go of some. I finally went all the way in this world, and I couldn't finally lose to myself.

Life is like a song, and friendship is the most beautiful movement in music; Life is picturesque, and friendship is the most wonderful color in the picture; Life is like poetry, and friendship is the finishing touch in the poem. You should be open-minded, communicate openly with others, be sincere in helping others, and friends will surely come to us. First of all, you have to slowly change your personality, you have to have a sincere attitude in your dealings with others, and let the people around you know you.

There is no such thing as a perfect person, and there is no one who is good for nothing. Build up your self-confidence and develop your strengths, and you will find that you are not as bad as you imagined... Come on...

Being proactive in communicating with others will make you cheerful. Don't just think about it yourself, talk to your friends about what you think. After a long time, you will feel that you will open your heart and gain more Your introversion may have given colleagues a misunderstanding, and they mistakenly thought that you were unwilling to communicate with them My advice is only two words "proactive".

Your initiative will definitely be exchanged for the enthusiasm of your colleagues

Good luck!

Invite them to smoke more, drink and drink more sets, and it will be solved, it's very simple.

This has to do with the environment in which you grew up. If you want to change, you have to be confident first. Remember:

Don't be afraid, it's a big deal to lose face, but after losing face, you will find that things can be like this, and you won't feel scared or nervous next time. At the same time, if you are timid, you can try to watch some horror movies, or try to communicate with people more.

Be brave and face your lack of self-confidence and participate in a successful training to break through yourself.

This is your own problem, you have to open the door of your heart.

The first thing you have to do is to stand up straight wherever you go, don't look down, and don't look away when you don't want to make eye contact. I'll talk about it when I do it.

I really should tie you up in the street for a few days, so that you can either get better or worse 55 points.

You can hang out with some friends who love to talk.

No, because respect for others is a good quality! People who are not used to him will bully him! I hate others bullying the weak!

When I was in school, I probably would, because I was ignorant at that time, and I couldn't go to work, and I walked into society with many friends and many paths.

Yes, because she doesn't have to bother to play with her, even if she makes her angry, she won't be angry.

When I was in school, I would find it interesting, but I wouldn't be at work, after all, there are many friends and many paths.

Yes, it's fun, it's just to set the mood.

Of course not, who wants to be a bad guy.

No! Give a reason to bully him first.

The student era will be, the work era should not be, there is no time.

Respect for others, respect for yourself.

In fact, you already know the answer before you write the question, and the key is up to you. At this time, the only thing you have to do is to calm yourself down and overcome your demons.

Now that you know what you want to do about your shortcomings, you can correct them one by one until you are satisfied.

I want to tell you that Whimsy is like this.

Try to correct some shortcomings. No one is perfect.

I'm a bit like you, how can I change myself!?

So say it yourself! So what are you doing alive?

Then find a warm man to comfort you.

Only you are human. Nothing else is a problem.

Are you a man or a woman in it or a side, then people just want to be good to her, so what do you say.

It's too weak, often this kind of boy loses her in the end, the opportunity is for those who are prepared, if a boy is not ready to confess to her, pursue her meaning, how can he have the opportunity to be with her? And it's been three years. Boys shouldn't be so timid.

This is not weakness, the crush for 3 years shows that the boy really loves the girl, the boy can muster up the courage to confess to the girl, don't be afraid of rejection, and insist on pursuing it if you are rejected, love is to die shamelessly to succeed.

Please be bold and like someone to let that person know, otherwise it will never work out.

It's not weak, everyone has everyone's personality, but it's better to confess early, and after confession, it's relief, or enjoy the feeling of crushing,

Is it very soft, puberty, to boldly confess to her for further development.

It's a little, then confess, you should be crazy when you're young or you're too inferior.

I guess it's the first time, and I don't know how to start. It's a little bold!

But it's better to confess.

You can go and confess to him. So at least you tried.

Not too weak, maybe not confident, afraid, afraid of rejection.

Improving oneself is also part of the pursuit.

I go, so many years of youth, don't you ask for results.

A little, look at the situation, if you know that the other party has someone you like and the other party is not you, then there is no need.

Well, it's not weak.

I've been for three years.

It's not too weak, it's too stupid.

Scared, it's all the same, introverted.

Look at what the specific situation is analyzed specifically.

This is the rule of the game, if you want to not be angry, calm down, climb up, and go to the top to be the one who makes the rules of the game.

In fact, it is people who live cautiously and value the opinions of others.

I don't know what the master is? It is estimated that the craftsmanship is just like that, the kind that is not up or down, and the master relies on his seniority. What about you, change the master, a famous teacher makes a high apprentice.

Famous teachers are generally very dragged and difficult to serve. Be cautious, look at the eyes of others, and act without responsibility, and generally cannot become a famous teacher.