Why do I feel so lonely at the Origin?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    After getting along for a long time, some things are not expressed in words and actions, as long as a look is silently accompanied, everything is enough. Maybe it really made Shi Yuan feel lonely and lonely, but they knew each other's feelings for so many years. The brothers sleep less than 4 hours a day, and there is no time for them to be considerate, understand, and caring.

    But it doesn't mean that they don't love him, the team members have always been proud of Siyuan and have been helping Siyuan promote new plays. Love is in life, in their hearts. In fact, as long as we can continue to walk together, it is enough.

    super junior forever~

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The gentleman of the origin comparison, everyone's image definition is different. Moreover, the source was a devout believer, very rigorous, and not good at words. However, everyone has been saying anything bad about the origin for so long.

    Rest assured. Recently, I have participated in TV dramas, and I have participated in a lot of variety shows recently, riding the wind and waves, and I found that Shiyuan is quite suitable for variety shows, and he is very active. And the origin has been in China for a long time, and it is no longer with everyone.

    The family is relatively wealthy, and there is no need to live in the dormitory, which may be somewhat different from other members. I just don't like to make trouble. Doesn't a lot of people like his gentlemanly feeling?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe his happiness comes very simply, and when he sees others happy, he will be happy! Perhaps he is timid and can only look at their happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you take the first step, try to talk more, be humorous, you won't feel lonely often, that's why we need friends, hate crowded places just because you're used to being lonely,,, and have fewer friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That's a thought that you always have in your heart, always thinking that you don't get along well with others, in fact, you can try to communicate with others more, go to more crowded places, you can also get together with your friends more, read more books, and increase your own knowledge, so that you don't feel that you don't have anything to talk to others, and you are afraid that you don't get along well with others.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Whenever there are two sides, your bumpy childhood, you can use it as an excuse not to meet people, or it can make you calm and like to think alone.

    You don't need to blame yourself, there are some things you can't see now, you are still young, in a few years, when you understand the importance of "networking", you will feel that the idea of "isolating others for the so-called protection of yourself" must also be changed, because you don't know how to get along with people and basically can't adapt to society.

    In fact, there is nothing wrong with being alone, as long as you don't hold grudges against the people around you, don't feel that other people are isolating you, you have more character by yourself, but don't fantasize about it often because you don't chat, it's really okay to be alone, as long as you still know how to face life positively.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In the same way, I am because of domestic violence and lack of love in my heart. We don't blame our parents, we should pay attention to cultivating our white self!

    When people live, how can they not be lonely? No one dares to say that they are never alone. But once we fall into this kind of depression and suspicion, we will set up barriers in our communication.

    Try to open your heart, tolerate hurt, accept trust, and be hopeful. You might as well add a few local groups, contact multiple former classmates, and make an appointment to hang out together. Don't want to be the protagonist of the party, but want to be selfless in the group and serve their happiness!

    Happiness, strive for it on your own, be happy, you also need to give, hurt, is the sweet premise, bravery, start by opening your mouth to argue, be confident, start by speaking out loud about your own merits.

    Wishing you happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello friends: I am also a more melancholy person, and I have had a period of silence, and I think your situation is similar to mine. Do you have any obvious shortcomings that make you feel inferior?

    First of all, you should be confident, everyone is equal! If you feel that you have a psychological problem, you can read some psychology books. When it comes to making friends, I don't think you should deliberately get close and wait for an opportunity.

    When you encounter an opportunity, you must seize it, for example, you can help others, I think this is a good way to make friends! When you are lonely, talk to others, and the loneliness of two people will no longer be lonely. If you are lonely, you can listen to songs and relax.

    May mine solve your problem.

    If you don't mind, you can add me as a friend, and I can be a friend who understands you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Very understanding. It's not your problem.

    It can be said that it is a common problem in this society.

    There is a lack of trust between people.

    However, even what others say is of little use to you. Emotional problems can only be solved by themselves.

    Hint to yourself that it will be fine.

    I believe you will get better in the near future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Understand! Find more things to do, you don't have to make friends, just because you have friends, life will be more exciting.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Understand, you can try to fall in love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I hope you can find your own hobbies, and then read more books, books are the ladder of people's progress.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you have something on your mind, you can find someone to talk to, don't hold it in your heart. You can cry when you're in a bad mood, and you'll feel much more comfortable afterward. That's what I'm like.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm on my phone every day.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find something to do, be a successful man, after a successful career, it's not you chasing women, it's women chasing it, and it's too late for you to turn off your mobile phone and hide, of course, the struggle is hard, not only for yourself, for your family, for self-realization.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you feel lonely, fill yourself up and keep busy, so that you will at least feel present and not empty. You don't have friends because you don't open your heart, as long as you are sincere, there will definitely be friends! Bless you!

    If you still can't do it, then study hard! Find the meaning of life in learning! Hopefully you can be positive!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should tell yourself that you should find friends!

    You should take the initiative first, be friends with others, and be friendly!

    You'd better not be typing the computer all the time....Isn't it all a waste of time? If you go out shopping, relax, make a few good friends, and be more fulfilling, then you won't be so lonely...If you are close to a good person, you will be cautious!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you get up in the morning and run, you usually take the initiative to greet others more often, so that your curiosity is a little heavier, that is, you pay more attention to the things around you. This will improve your introverted personality

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There's nothing wrong with being at home. As long as I feel happy and bright, I don't feel the need to share my heart with others. In fact, the more people grow up, the more lonely they become, many times they have to face themselves and accept themselves, don't add some senseless feelings to yourself, as long as you have a good attitude, it doesn't matter if you stay at home or not.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To be honest, the more you are home, the more lonely you are, you might as well find someone to talk to, go out to play together, set some plans and goals for yourself, and live a more fulfilling life, the network is too virtual, or realistic and reliable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Everyone has to experience loneliness! Don't be afraid, you're not alone. Growing up in helplessness are you and me.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Read more books, soothe your impetuous heart, naturally, the heart becomes open-minded, the heart slowly opens, in our eyes, the world is beautiful, good, all the bad only exist in the past. There is no fear, no distance, and the relationship between people is gradually getting closer. And just like that, your loneliness begins to melt and your problems are solved.

    Good luck!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Confusion period....I haven't come out of it yet, but I often tell myself I won't go on like this!! I want my future self not to laugh at the memories and not regret it!! Residence?

    There's a little bit for everyone! It doesn't matter....Interpersonal relationship? I don't know much about it, but it's a must, read some books on it!

    Look at more things related to your peers, as long as you communicate, there are sure to be people who are like-minded with you! For example, almost everyone is online now, which is also a language point. Right!

    If you're depressed, go and roar!!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You are obviously out of step with reality, don't have too many friends, at least have one dead friend, it's good to have a friend who can do something often, your silence is your own cause, but it's a bit abnormal to not even make a friend, what you should do is not to complain here and think that you are pitiful, want to be comforted by others, want to relieve the pain, and you can't solve it for a while. What you have to do is to face reality, treat people sincerely, help others, at least let others have the opportunity to know you, always lock yourself, and people still think that you are a horse family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't you surf the Internet every day? Have you forgotten even the most basic purpose of the Internet? Landlord. There is a thing in this world called buckles. Know no.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's time to smash the computer and spend a bunch of money to go out and see how people in the world are enjoying life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Knowing that it's not good to stay at home now, you can go out and walk more, and the outside world is not so bad.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You should pay attention to cultivating your own joy in life and often take a little time to reach out to others and gradually change your closed lifestyle. Usually consciously participate in some group activities.

    Strengthen your sense of involvement, which will allow you to discover many interesting things and people, and make you unconsciously become one with others.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Face life with a smile and give yourself a smile every day.

    It is to open the shackles of the heart.

    You can be very happy!

    You have to remind yourself every day.

    Remember to be happy, as long as you are happy, everything will be good.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What about the house? What's so bad about being at home?

    Everyone has their own favorite way of life, life is for themselves, of course, how to make yourself more comfortable How to come There are a lot of new things on the Internet, I think what you lack is vitality, not a question of whether to stay at home...

    I'm also very homely, but the days are still fresh and interesting So, don't think about so many miscellaneous meaningless things to be home, please be happy o( o...

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's still lonely, look at how many people you attract with 100 points! Really fun!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Find someone like you to chat and play, what do you think?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Try to find a girlfriend and 、、、 spend more time with her

    It's really not good, you come out alone in the real world, let's play

    The easiest, you can walk around the park

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you are lonely, find a good person to love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, whether you are married or unmarried, whether you live in a crowd every day, or if you are a person who lives alone, as long as you lack understanding of everything around you, especially the people around you, then you will definitely appreciate the pain of loneliness.

    So what about those people who tend to experience prolonged periods of loneliness on a regular basis? One is those who have serious low self-esteem, because they often feel that they are different from others, always feel that they are inferior to others in all aspects, all people are better than themselves, and they dare not communicate with others for fear that others will look down on them. When I go home, I am afraid that my family will accuse me of being incompetent, so I always dare not communicate with other people every day, and he will try his best to do whatever others ask him to do, although he is unwilling in his heart, but he never expresses his emotions and always suppresses his emotions They are the loneliest people.

    There are also neurotic and sensitive people who live with suspicion and jealousy every day and do not trust others. Always think that everyone is speaking ill of him. Once someone is better than him, he is not convinced that he should be better than others, always complains that his life is not good and there are no good opportunities, and even always picks on the shortcomings of others, and always talks about other people's privacy behind his back, so he feels lonely when he is free, because there is no one around him who can communicate sincerely.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    First of all, inexplicable loneliness is an unavoidable feeling that people have, sometimes there is that inexplicable sense of loneliness, which is a human emotion, which is very normal, and after work, your views and your perception are different from others, and you have been feeling lonely and struggling. So you will be lonely, in addition, you don't have a real person to talk to and talk to, release your friends, so you will be lonely, change the angle, maybe you will change, good luck!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Work means entering the society, the people or relationships you come into contact with become complicated, and you need to use different communication skills or methods for different characters. What you need to do now is to try to smile at all the people around you, work hard with the attitude of "there must be a teacher in the threesome", and learn from others, I believe that you will definitely find your own way of working, and then you will not feel lonely.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    When appropriate, take care of some friends. Let's chat.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Because your life is not solid enough, find more things to do, and you don't have the heart to think about those boring things.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Don't be afraid!! Don't worry, there will be someone with you!!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I can live alone for 20 years without any feelings. But after meeting someone, I felt boundless loneliness.

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