I really love him, but I can t accept his request, what should I do? 10

What a strange request he made! Hehe! First of all, he doesn't really think about you, not to mention what he likes about you, it's not a place to do this kind of thing in the office, he hasn't thought about what impact it will have on you, now everyone is an adult, some things are normal, and there is nothing to hide this armpit, but his approach is to completely ignore your feelings, with such a person, you will feel insecure, this is just one thing, there will be a lot of trouble in the future!

Have a good talk about it, and forget it if it doesn't work! Girls think more about themselves!

Does this show disrespect for you, will a man who disrespects you love you? Also, you have to respect yourself and don't give to others.

The office is a place to work, not a place to solve personal problems, illustrating distorted thoughtsIn addition, I want to ask you, do you know him? Think for yourself.

It's better to break up, if he loves you, he won't disrespect you like this.

If you don't give up, you can only say that you are too simple and stupid. A woman in love is the most stupid, sober up and analyze what kind of mentality he has!!

If I were you, I would give him up because he doesn't know how to respect people.

He looks at your body, not your heart. Don't be too stupid. Divide it early, or you'll regret it too late.

It seems that you don't love him at all.

Why bother.

It's okay to break up. It's only been two months.

The devil knows if he really loves you.

When you love someone, if they don't love you.

Well, you have to remember:

You can't cry or be sad when he ignores you, you can't complain when he ignores your pain, and you can't be ......sad when he's not as good as his girlfriend

Because, that is your own choice, the pain can only be borne by yourself!

You have to remember that because He doesn't love you, His heart is not in you. So you can't ask Him to do to you what He should do to His love for him.

You can be nice to him, and Iwate is incredibly good, but you can't ask him to give you the same in return.

If you really love him, then, forget about him. Otherwise, you will feel that if you give him too much, he will not be able to pay it back in the next life, but he does not feel that this is the case, because he has not loved you, and he is not obliged to give you love!

So, you have to learn to bless, although love is narrow, but it is not your love!

You can keep your tears, but when you're dry, you have to be yourself.

You have to remember that there is another person in this world, and his love is born because of you.

Love is a matter of two people, if the other party doesn't like you and doesn't accept you, it's not love, it's unrequited love. Such emotions are not really good for either party. Stop the loss in time, live a good life, and then you will definitely meet the person who likes each other.

Perhaps, it is easy to give up the person you like, but it is really difficult to do, and it may be easier to try to make some changes in your life and divert your attention.

Then give up, love should be pleasing to both loves, if it's just hot, slowly, you will be tired!

Love is a matter of mutual affection rather than wishful thinking, and perhaps stopping is the best option.

Not everyone's love will be reciprocated, if you love him very much and the other party doesn't love you, you'd better let him go, because you're barely happy.

It's been so long, and you haven't been in love with him for a long time, so forget it.

Such a man is really good.

Maybe 、、、 you're really wrong.

Be true to yourself in your feelings. See your feelings clearly. If you really don't love her, and just selfishly want to keep him by your side to take care of you, then you should let him go.

There is no right or wrong to love someone, just intentions and no intentions, like you said about him, he really does what he wants to do for you, but you don't care about it, you don't care about him! Where is your heart? Where is the thought?

You think he has never been the person you were looking for, the one you love ... So think about it, in the end you feel that he is not suitable for you, just let it go as soon as possible, if you also slowly get used to him, cherish it, no matter what the result, there is no right or wrong in love!

If you have feelings for him, then this is a test.

Be sure to take a stand and determine what your relationship is.

If you don't like him, it won't make him worse than dead in the future, now there are fewer good boys, time will refresh everything, give yourself a time, I hope you are happy and have a happy ending, I don't want you to be hurt because of this.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is having everything...

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless well....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

I don't think so, I think the basis of being together is love, a relationship without love, it's really tiring, even if he loves you, but you don't love him, you won't be happy together. Only when two people who like each other are together can they truly experience the taste of love. Moreover, accepting someone you don't love will become a burden to you, and it will hurt him as well.

When I was in high school, I had a roommate who was very pretty, and he was the class flower of our class, and there were quite a few boys chasing him. Later, not long after the college entrance examination, she agreed to her former tablemate, and the two of them were together. Not long after college, they separated.

It just so happens that her university is near me, and I have a good relationship with her. asked her about the details of this relationship. She said that when she first agreed to be with him, it was because he was very nice to her, but she didn't love him.

After being with him, she felt very tired and didn't want to go out with him, and even felt embarrassed to see him, and she didn't know how to get along with him, so she felt very tired. That's why she decided to break up, even though it would be awkward to meet in the future after the breakup, she was still unwilling to continue to be together. She said that it was better not to be together than to know that he was good to me, and I didn't want to accept that he was good to me.

In short, she regretted agreeing to someone she didn't love. She said she felt very sorry for him and felt that she had hurt him.

That's true, if you don't like him, don't accept him. If you accept him, it will be the two of you who will be delayed, and it will be him who will be hurt and hurt when the time comes, and it will be you who will regret it. So, don't accept him if you're not together now.

The rest of your life is so long, are you worried that you won't meet someone you like and he likes? Why bother to be with someone you don't love? However, if you don't love him right now, you can try to get along with him, after all, it's common to fall in love over time, but don't be too busy establishing a relationship just yet.

<>I was a girl with a dream of love, and I fell in love when I first entered school in my freshman year. We fell in love at first sight, but within a month, my boyfriend got tired of me, didn't listen to **, didn't reply to text messages, and was inexplicably angry ......When I saw him holding another girl's hand a week after we broke up, I hated him so much that I vowed to find a man who loved me more than I loved him.

As a result, my current boyfriend showed up. He is a well-mannered boy, a piano grade 10, a nunchucks club president, excellent character and learning, and a special scholarship ......What's more, he launched a fierce pursuit of me. Maybe it's lonely, or maybe I really want to find someone to be nice to me, and after he pursued me for three months, I stayed with him, even if I didn't like him.

I'm happy to be with him, but I can't feel the heartbeat of love all the time, and I use a lot of his good things to convince myself. He's so good in every way; He is self-motivated, and he should be very rich to live with him; His parents are both teachers and polite, so there should be no mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems in the future......

Two years have passed, and I have started my internship. I gradually found that it was routine to call him ** every morning, noon and evening, and I hung up early after saying two sentences; We have very few topics in common, and we lack the most basic communication.

Actually, I really wanted to break up. But then I thought, I may really not find a man as good as him, and if we get married, we will live a very stable life. What's more, if you break up now, men in society may ask for more, with more purpose, not as pure as campus love.

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