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Among the many symptoms of Western psychology, there is a psychological disorder called "Peter Pan syndrome". This group of people is afraid to grow up, and their psychology is forever stuck in their childhood. They often struggle to build strong marital relationships, are afraid of taking responsibility, escape from reality, and stay in childish fantasies about hobbies, thoughts, and actions.
I think you need to take care of your psyche, but maybe it's not a serious problem.
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The situation you face is called growing up, everyone has to go through something, but you can't resist growing up, I think you should still think about how to adapt.
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It's not easy to change the character you were born with, and there's nothing wrong with you, let alone anything wrong. Everyone has their own preferences and their own circles, and no one can force anyone to fit in. But you don't have a sense of responsibility for your family, for yourself, and for your life.
Play is a child's patent, you are no longer a child, play can only be a way to reduce the pressure in your life, you need to work and a career to provide material security for your life, your family can help you now, what about in the future?
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This is normal, many people are like this, and I am almost the same, but you look more like a child, and you like to play with children, this is not normal, and work may allow you to mature slowly.
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Haha, don't worry about it, just take care of yourself. Don't pay attention to people and things you don't need to pay attention to, and live your own life. She may want you to be bothered by her behavior, whether you want to or not, the choice is yours!
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Very simple. She's sick. You'll have to pray that she has medicine. Otherwise, she is susceptible to disease. She's going to have to shake her hands.。。
Stay away from such. Think of her as air. Out of sight, out of mind.
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She's probably trying to let you know how attractive she is, and how many people chase her.
Pulling a piece is just trying to anger you and make you jealous.
And then if it's just for you to see it once, it may also be to see if you still care about her.
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Revenge Women have a strong revenge mentality.
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This is to give you a disgrace and let you know that you dumped her at that time and it was your loss.
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How many times has this happened? It could have been accidental.
If it happens many times, one is that she is angry with you, but that she is very sad.
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Girls. Of course I'm sorry.
You just try to tell her directly: I like you, do you like me?
It's best to be straightforward.
If it does, don't forget to give it to your brother and me! Ha ha.
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Well, there are a lot of such situations, some text messages are very happy, but in reality they are like strangers, maybe they just hope that someone who can talk well in private can talk to it, and they don't want to talk to reality.
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The web and the reality are two worlds.
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She just doesn't want anyone to see it! Maybe she wants to get along with you, maybe she just wants to talk to a friend.
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Maybe the family background is not good, and I am afraid that you will follow you, so I feel inferior.
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Hehe, there are two situations, one is insecure and feels that he has to leave evidence for himself. The other is narcissism, thinking that you will become a great man, and these will become the materials to record your experience.
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I haven't studied psychology, so I can only help you analyze it. On the surface, this kind of person is nostalgic, introverted, deep, and scheming. Hope it helps the landlord.
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Nabs. If you like it first, it's not called a blind date. Blind date is to put two people together first, and then cultivate feelings.
You also know what it was like to like someone before and chase for a long time without results. You also know what it's like to like it. So how can you easily like the person you are with?
This way of blind date is indeed not so comfortable. Because you may not even know what the other party looks like, you have to face it with the mentality of even getting married... A lot of guessing, a lot of anticipation.
Met and a lot of disappointment. There are too many blind dates, and when I am numb, I feel hopeless. Isn't that so?
You have to understand that a blind date is unlikely to meet someone who is very different from you. If you are an ordinary person, no one can introduce the daughter of the president of a multinational company to drive a Rambo to go on a blind date with you. So, what you have to do is figure out what you want!
Is it a relationship? Or marriage? Or is it a bang?
Or are they ordinary days? If you're still in the fantasy of love, then don't go on a blind date again! It doesn't matter what age the family has.
Love has no limits and no limits. Let go of yourself, go out for a walk, travel. See what your true love will meet you in **.
If you're just looking for a similar way to live, don't be picky. Everyone has a small problem. Maybe just when you think that other people's legs are a little thick, they may still think that you are a little short.
You tell me? What you want to live a life is to be down-to-earth, find someone who is alluring to the country and the city, and you don't feel at ease at home. If you still want to chase again, then go find what you like and keep chasing until you're satisfied!
Your mentality is not very good, but you certainly do not have mental illness and problems. Sexual orientation will also not be a problem. As long as you're sure of what you want!
Just go in that direction! Don't let your age or anything stop you from pursuing the road! Love it well.
When I came back, I would talk about whether I was at home or not. 、
Wishing you happiness! Wishing you a bang!
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People are not sages.
Who can do nothing. Look at others as bodhisattvas.
Treat yourself as a mortal man.
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Even if you like to be alone, after a long time, the source will find her little problems, liking someone is attracted by her special (or ability, maybe personality, personality, etc.), and at the same time there is the ability to tolerate, so this is also mutual. You must adjust your mentality, believe that the right person will appear, and also have a normal heart, good at discovering the beauty of others I wish you happiness and find your beloved as soon as possible
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You are a perfectionist (and so am I), people with this personality are always picky, but know that one 80 is better than two 0s, lower the bar and you will find that the world is beautiful.
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Don't be discouraged first of all! The second is to look at your own problems, is it too demanding? Blind date is an old habit, and I personally think it can't be described as reliable or unreliable. No one is perfect, and feelings are slowly cultivated!
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He should be a little psychologically weird! There may be something on the mind! Actually, he is a very smart person!
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He is easy to immerse himself in his own thoughts, he has a lot of things in his heart that he can't finish thinking, he is a little introverted, but he should be kind, he will have doctrine in his heart, he is not particularly cheerful, a little thoughtful, careful, he has his own talents, such as observation, understanding, appreciation, just say so much, hehe.
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Yes, he was very depressed, he wanted to release himself, but he couldn't, because no matter how big the outer circle was, it was still the smallest circle around him.
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He should be at a certain time, in a space, bored. He happened to have a pen and paper next to him, so he drew another circle (because the circle drawn by hand is irregular, and over time it has formed the kind of "irregular with smooth arc, a little bit of an ellipse, a little bit of a gourd-like figure 8 shape").
What should I do if I'm done painting and still have nothing to do? If you continue to draw, how can you make it more interesting and more challenging?
Draw another trap on the outside. Keep on and on, bigger and bigger, more and more about a millimeter apart between each lap", the results are out, it's just a matter of finding something interesting and challenging to pass the time in boredom.
However, based on some of the conditions you have cited, I can draw the following conclusions: he lacks love, is very introverted, has no hobbies, such as painting, calligraphy, ** and the like, and he is at a loss after drawing a piece of paper and does not know why he is drawing.
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The first floor said very well, but the phenomenon that the landlord said was a little different, the boy was drawing circles when he was bored, if he really had any trouble, difficult things, how could he be bored? It's too late to worry.
The second floor is also good, but it doesn't say anything, everyone will draw some images if they have a pen in their hands when they are free, these are subconscious, not a strange phenomenon. A clever word can be proved from the painting alone, which is too arbitrary.
What I said on the third floor seems to have said something, but it is all common to some people. In other words: he is a man, he has a head open, he eats every day, he goes to the toilet before going to bed, etc. These commonalities do not reflect the individuality of this one.
On the 4th floor, there is an important point, that is, the characteristics of circles, circles have no exit, and people are entangled by countless circles. But this does not prove that those in the circle are depressed, and those in the ivory tower are happy
The 5th floor is very simple, and it seems that it will not please the landlord.
The imagination is very strong on the 6th floor
The 7th floor summed it all up and was good.
Psychologists say that people who like circles are more kind I look at the landlord's question, it's an exam question. ``
According to the title, I personally think that this boy is an introverted boy, like to be quiet, the wave patterns he painted, may symbolize his life, small ups and downs, but there is no big shock, college life is like this, live in circles and circles, the reason why he thinks of these may be related to his life experience, why does he draw circles instead of squares? Maybe one day when he was a child, a round thing made a big impression on him, maybe it was a tree ring; Because of such sentimentality, such a boy is not fat, but thin, with long hair, and maybe he still has the habit of keeping a diary. His learning, it's not going to be very good, it's medium.
If he's here for a consultation, then something must be wrong with him. If it's not that he is embarrassed to open up a girl who is in love, then something has happened to his family. If "he" is just an exam question, then these things in life are nothing.
He is mentally healthy. However, he should pay attention to exchanging views with his partners.
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It should be very confusing, and some problems are difficult to solve.
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The ripples are beautiful! It should be fine, think about it. But this feeling is quite comfortable, but you don't know it!
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You belong to a stronger girl, and your self-esteem is relatively strong, you don't want others to see your weaknesses, or you don't believe that others will really have a heart to heart with you, maybe you have been hurt by something, in fact, my personality is very similar to you, but after experiencing some things, I found that I was right to protect myself, but don't be too sensitive so it will be too tiring, and there seems to be no way to escape it, in fact, try to change it, Maybe you will find that there is a ray of sunshine in a corner of your heart that has been sealed for a long time to sweep away the haze in your heart, as long as it does not hurt your self-esteem, do not take things that violate the principles so seriously, be happy friends, wish you happiness, go out to eat and go shopping with friends more, smile if you don't want to talk, and then slowly try to interject, and slowly it will get better.
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According to psychology, you're just running away from some hurt, you've had a huge injury, but you don't have the ability to face it and choose to run away.
The best thing to do is to make yourself smile again. What a smile is, is to be moved, to see the moving in life.
Allowing yourself to fully believe in a person is also a way to smile again. Mom and Dad will be the people you can rely on the most. As long as.
You can face your own problems.
Sometimes people think too much like a fool and can't let go of themselves. Why not face the problem instead of thinking about it for a long time and not facing it.
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Depression! I suggest you take a look at the movie "The Next Miracle" by Mr. Liang Kaien! I can't see it.
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Do what you like the most, what you want to do, whatever it is. Of course, you can't do anything other than illegal things here.
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Why is it that only when I am with my boyfriend I am more relaxed and let go of talking and laughing? What are his qualities? What do you usually talk about?
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In the end, it's still the troubles caused by the confusion of love.,The landlord must still be very young.。 Don't worry, this is a necessary process, it doesn't mean that you have low emotional intelligence, emotional intelligence is not innate. You say that you are easy to get into a relationship, it's just your own feelings, being moved, having a little good feeling, this is normal, but it is not necessarily like.
So there's no need to burden too much, make it clear to the other party, it's better to be friends first. Don't hold everything to yourself. I have met a lot of examples of girls who are "slow to heat", and then slowly like the person they didn't like, but the other party gradually became cold.
Therefore, many things are just my own imagination, and the only way is to communicate openly with the other party.
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It is said that life is so beautiful because of love. But the feelings of marriage are not only from the sea of love, there are many basic things, after all, this is a real society. After all, it is not so easy to come together, take your time, let time take away the love, let time precipitate love.
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This shows that you have not yet matured, or that you have not yet met your true love, human history emotional animal, so this kind of thinking of yours is normal, I used to be like this, so what you need now is time, it is experience, as you get older, I hope you can become mature!
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She was shy. Show that she has feelings for you. Chase.
As long as you've been doing well enough lately to make her happy, find an opportunity at the right time to push the boat. The opportunity is great, and now that it's so big, it's time to get in touch with this aspect.
I think there is a very important factor missing in your work - sincere and normal interpersonal communication, you should communicate more with familiar friends and confidants, and you should also take the initiative to interact with people who are not very familiar with you. If you try some methods and don't solve it, then don't hesitate to "jump ship".
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