What is it like to fall in love with a woman who is older than yourself?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's good, the big girl hugs the gold brick, the girl who is older than herself knows how to hurt people, not only has an extra wife but also has an extra sister.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    My wife is three years older than me, and now she lives a very happy life, I think as long as the hearts are together, age is not a problem.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I feel quite comfortable when I'm with him, like having a particularly understanding sister.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The most difficult thing is to convince the family to accept, they all say that it is okay to find a woman who is older than themselves now, but after the age of 30, women age very fast, at that time you are still young, you will feel that you are not a good match, and now giving up is responsible for the two of you, I am also very distressed, I am both looking forward to the future and worrying about ......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I feel like my life is getting out of control, because I'm not sure what the future holds.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My wife is eight years older than me, it's good, now we are very happy and satisfied, as long as it is true love, age is not a problem! Age is never a factor that affects love, whether happiness can last long, it depends on how the two of them operate, as long as they respect each other and tolerate each other in life, take care of each other, and discuss everything with each other, such a marriage must be happy and long-lasting, no matter how big the age gap is, it is just a number! ‍‍

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't feel that she is older than me at all, I feel that she is so good with her, in addition to her brain is better than me, smarter than me, in my heart is a cute little baby who has not grown up, and the age difference cannot stop my desire to like her. The first time I met her, I confirmed that the look was the woman I had to get. ‍‍

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've been miserable, I'm not working, I'm still studying, I can't give her happiness, I can't give her promises. But I don't want to give up, I don't want to leave regrets. I don't think this kind of relationship is reliable, but what can I do if I fall in love.

    If you love, you should be brave to love, and don't leave regrets. ‍‍

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The age difference did not bother me, but gave me the motivation to achieve goals and move forward in life, to be her dependent, to be an important part of her life. ‍‍

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The experience is that if you go to her, she will plan her itinerary well; Hanging out, dating, yes AA; The content of the date will be planned by two people together, and there will always be different plans, so they will not fall into the cycle of eating, shopping and watching movies; When you give a gift and ask the other person directly what they want, there will be no surprise or joy, and small snacks will be presented in the form of surprises. ‍‍

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Under normal circumstances, a man looking for his significant other will usually choose to be a little younger than himself. Women and people who are too old to feel insecure. In other words, feeling that many aspects will be squeezed is a common problem.

    When a boy chooses love, he will definitely pay attention to the age of the woman, no matter how beautiful the woman looks. In this way, the age gap is too big to talk more together, in fact, it is just to play, and never pay too much attention to emotions, because as we all know, age is the most important part of our lives.

    With older women, there is generally no real affection, and even if there is, it is only temporary. In this way, the woman's heart is very clear. If I am with older people, there will be serious problems in all areas, and there will continue to be some things that will be harmful to me, both physically and mentally.

    Age is always a gap that we can't surpass, and there are times in our lives when there are many things. You look very simple, but in fact it is not like that, and doing everything when there is too much age between 2 people will be blocked, because there is a gap between the ages.

    Sometimes, many things seem very simple, but when you do them, they are bound to be complicated. Because the age is sometimes too far apart, being able to draw star fruit is similar to his own father and mother, and with such a person, even if there is a feeling, there is no way to integrate into each other's lives. There are some things that we should take seriously, and it is very likely that they will not be retained after they are produced.

    In this way, the first thing that men and women need to consider in the process of being together is the problem of age, if the age gap is too large, the two people will not be happy together, so the age does not have to be too far apart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think there will definitely be true feelings, feelings are regardless of age, and it doesn't mean that the other party will not have feelings when they are older than you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think that as long as two people have feelings, it doesn't matter whether they are old or young, as long as the feelings are deep, they will have real feelings when they are older than themselves, and there are actually many feelings like this now.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, there will be real feelings, but if the age difference is too big, then I will consider whether it is because this girl is richer, or can bring the boy what he wants.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because they feel that women older than themselves are very gentle, kind, empathetic, and sensible, will hurt people, and will take care of people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is because these people feel that older women are particularly charming and mature, so they like them.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Some people like that mature beauty, but also like that feeling of being taken care of.

    Everyone has their own ideas, and this is nothing more than a person's habits.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In order to find someone who can take care of his own life, and will also make himself very comfortable in life, like an old mother to take care of herself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's normal to like older women. Generally due to the following reasons:

    Clause. 1. First of all, liking things is regardless of age, since you like it, why should you care about age, unless you don't like her, or you don't like her enough. In fact, in my opinion, there are a lot of sibling love, the age of the girl is not too big, I think it can be together, sometimes it will be even better than you think, because such a girl is more mature, more suitable for life, more suitable for being a companion, so if you like it, go to confess, just be together, don't give up because of your own problems, you have to be stupid to know, life to meet a favorite thing to accompany people How difficult it is, you have to know how to cherish, life is long and long, short and short, I hope you can take advantage of it.

    Clause. Second, there is nothing wrong with liking a person of the opposite sex, it may be that I like women who are more mature than myself, I think it's quite normal. Don't feel abnormal in your own heart.

    If you like it, you can like it, but if it's too big, don't think about it. After all, the female side may not agree to be with you, because they will not feel good in their hearts, and they will feel a little sorry for you if they don't say it.

    Clause. 3. What they like is a woman who is mature, beautiful, funny, charming, golden, empathetic, considerate, and able to guide and inspire their careers. It's just that the people who happen to meet these expectations are older than the fledgling novice Xiao Bai Lala.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    01 Mr. Chen: I feel that my heart is not mature enough, and a woman older than me can lead me well.

    Not long after I left Nianhong campus, I don't feel very mature in all aspects, and I often need to be taken care of and reminded by other diviners in my work and life, so that I won't make mistakes.

    If you are looking for a girlfriend who is younger than me or the same age, the woman may not be as mature as me in terms of mind, and I need to teach her the truth of how to behave in the world, I don't think it is appropriate.

    Therefore, now I like a sister-type woman, who has rich social experience, is very mature in all aspects, and can lead me well and tell me some knowledge that I can't learn in school, which can help me in work and life.

    These are valuable experiences that women younger than me can't give me, but in the future, when I become more mature, I may like women younger than me.

    02 Mr. Fang: I have my own business, and older women will be more independent.

    I started my own business very early, and now I have my own company, which is not too large, and I usually have a normal commute time, but if it is a holiday, the company will plan various activities, and when everyone else is resting, I usually work.

    I've also found a few girlfriends younger than me before, very clingy, I have to accompany her to go shopping, watch movies, and eat, otherwise I will get angry, and I will often call **, asking me what I am doing and why I ignore her all day.

    But I'm busy with work, and I can't find time to date a lot of the time, so the few relationships I talked about didn't end well.

    Later, after being introduced by a friend, I met my current girlfriend, she is three years older than me, she is a department manager of a company, and like me, she also came out of the house to work in Huiling very early, and is very independent.

    My girlfriend doesn't stick to me often, she is always very considerate, she knows that I'm busy with work, she won't bother me, and the two of us will occasionally go out on a date, and I care about each other, although it's bland, but I feel very happy, which is something that a young woman can't bring me.

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