Do you think a marriage without respect can still be happy and why?

Updated on society 2024-05-29
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There are several reasons for disrespect, the first is that your ability is not respected by the other party, if it is a man who can't support the family, the other party will not respect you, the second character, the character is very bad, selfish, will not be respected, third, there is no morality, there is no bottom line in life, this is not worthy of respect, fourth, there is no shame, women are the least respected, respect is a quality, and there are also people who are positioned as the material basis, it depends on each person's heart is different, to sum up, there is no respect, There is no happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Without respect, husbands and wives cannot treat each other as equals. In real marriages, there are always many families where either the man has "machismo", or the woman is a "tigress", one party is always self-respecting, putting everything above the other party, making the other party obey, and the slightest neglect will add violence, will such a marriage be happy? Without respect, couples are not good at appreciating each other.

    Respect between husband and wife is reflected in mutual appreciation. If one party is not sure of the other party's strengths, and always holds a magnifying glass to look at the other's shortcomings, and compares the strengths of others to the weaknesses of the other, then the husband and wife will have "visual fatigue", and they will repel each other and depreciate each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    People who don't know how to respect people also have a common characteristic, that is, they want everything to be done according to their own ideas, and once they violate their will, they will inevitably have a big conflict with the other party. But we are born as human beings, we must have our own thoughts, and what we don't want to do is definitely something we want to refuse, if the weaker party is forced to do something just to maintain the apparent peace between the two people, the sense of happiness will definitely decrease, and in the long run, we will inevitably become more and more disappointed in people, and even disappointed in marriage.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think happiness can be achieved, and only when husband and wife respect each other can happiness continue.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's be realistic, because people nowadays are very realistic, respect is indispensable in marriage, if you don't have it for a while, I think the definition of happiness is respect, understanding, and love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I have a friend F, who has just been married for two years and gave birth to a lovely child, so she became a full-time wife at home, while her husband worked hard outside, and his career was thriving. The husband's income alone can support the financial burden of the whole family, and the wife can also raise the children at home wholeheartedly. This matter was originally discussed by the husband and wife, the wife personally took care of the children, more assured than the parents, can give the children a better education, have the wife to take care of the family wholeheartedly, the husband can work hard, and when they come home at night, they can also feel a different kind of warmth, they believe that they can live a very happy life.

    In fact, if one party's income can support the whole family, then it is not an option for the other party to be a full-time wife. But as the days went by, F's husband became more and more inflated, and he didn't know how to respect this woman who worked hard at home. Because of the economic support of the whole family, the husband is more and more holding himself up to the sky, looking at his wife with a bird's-eye eye, and often as soon as he comes home, he is not a wife who greets the same hard day as soon as he gets home like before, but arrogantly asks F to do this and that.

    Sometimes F doesn't do well, and he and she will immediately accuse F harshly, saying that she is at home 24 hours a day, but she still can't keep the house in order. The man who said that he wanted to give F a happy family, at this moment, lost the least respect for his wife.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A marriage that is not even respected, and one of the obvious manifestations is that there will not be much understanding. Everything you do is the right thing you should do, what you do is something that dissatisfies the other person, and maybe even snoring in sleep is your fault. Without respect, the status of both parties is also unequal, the weak side is easily ignored by the strong party, and the other party can easily take all your efforts as air.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Surely there will be no happiness. Marriage should be mutually respectful and tolerant. I don't think we can be happy if we don't respect each other in a marriage.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People have a fate with people and things, and whether a marriage is worthy or not has little to do with respect or disrespect. Some people value fame and fortune, and respect or disrespect is the same. As for happiness or not, it depends on what both parties value, and if they both value each other, they will be happy, and if they don't, they will be unhappy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, in marriage, husband and wife should respect each other and understand each other, and a marriage without respect is very painful and painful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Mutual respect is a prerequisite for a happy marriage, and without respect, the marriage will not be happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People get along with people, animals get along with animals, people get along with animals, in fact, they are all equal, equality is respect, the other expression of respect means to look down on you, how can the other half look down on you how can you be happy, looking down is equal to being angry, you are angry with a person who gives you anger every day, can you be happy?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not only will it not be happy, but such a marriage will not go long, and there is no minimum respect for being a person, so how can they be together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think a marriage without respect will be happy because it's an unequal marriage.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, the home in life is not very ideal, anyway, one is fierce and the other is weak! The main goal is to do a good job at home, equal treatment is normal, but it is often different, only one person is in charge, and it is discussed and passed! We also have a lot of fights!

    The days passed plainly and tastelessly! If only you had imagined that life would have understood! Why are there sweet, sour, bitter, spicy and salty!

    Aftertaste in tasting! Husbands and wives know each other's shortcomings! Let's all work together to correct our mistakes!

    Run for a better life! A strong bridge is a strong marriage!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To have a happy marriage, you must first learn to respect your partner. No matter how husband and wife make trouble at home, they still have to save face for both parties in front of friends and outsiders, only in this way can marriage have the premise of happiness, and two people can have the possibility of continuing to live together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, I think it is really difficult to be happy in a marriage without respect, so I still have to learn to respect.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think respect is the basic premise for a marriage, so I think it's hard to be happy without respect.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's because you don't have your own business, and you've been relying on others to live, so you don't get the respect of others, and you feel very sad.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because the other person doesn't love him at all, he never gives himself the corresponding respect, and he doesn't listen to what he wants to say.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because he is too cowardly, and the other party is too strong, everything must follow his will and not listen to his own point of view.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe it's because the other party doesn't love you, so they won't give you the respect they deserve, at this time you should talk to the other party, what do you have to do to get such respect?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because it's too humble. Because your posture is too low in married life, people look down on you and don't give you respect.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It may be that you have paid too much, and you are relatively humble in the relationship, so let the other half look down on you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is because there are some problems in the process of getting along with the two of you, so this phenomenon occurs.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In marriage, the most important thing is mutual trust and mutual respect. But over time, couples may lose trust in each other because of some behaviors. What do you do when your marriage loses trust and respect?

    1.It's cold, it's quiet.

    When two people have a conflict, what to do is to stay calm. Avoid impulsiveness, sometimes it may be because of a misunderstanding, but because of your impulsiveness, the other party is not explaining. In addition, you should also reflect on yourself and think about whether you have done something wrong.

    2.Communicate.

    The most important thing for couples is to be able to communicate with each other, especially when they encounter problems, only effective communication can solve problems. If you never know how to communicate in your daily life, then the conflict between you will become bigger and bigger.

    3.Don't talk angry.

    When there is a quarrel and emotional excitement, it is easy to say some angry words, and the angry words you say unintentionally may be the last straw that breaks your marriage. Of course, there still needs to be one party who can take the initiative to succumb.

    4.Empathy.

    Many conflicts are caused by feeling that the other party does not understand themselves enough, and it is not easy for husband and wife to understand my bitterness and I understand you. If you can empathize with the other person's point of view, you can effectively reduce many conflicts.

    5.Find a middleman.

    If you are both willing to listen to each other's explanations, it is better to find someone you can trust, tell him what you really think, and then communicate it through this intermediary.

    Husband and wife are people who accompany each other and carefully cover the second half of their lives, and when they encounter a crisis of trust, they must deal with it correctly, only in this way will you live a happier life. I hope you can all spend the rest of your life happily with people who trust and respect each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This kind of marriage is slowly destroying both parties and their families, and parents are worried about watching their children have a bad time, and the husband and wife are also going to different extremes, and if they have children, they are also affecting the mental development of children.

    How to live and how to live, others can't make decisions.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, you need to talk about it honestly. Both parties should respect each other's ideas and use communication as a basis for building trust. Respect each other and deal with it equally.

    It is necessary to communicate more often, let each other listen to each other's opinions, resolve disputes in a timely manner, propose solutions, and work together to improve the marital relationship.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    A marriage without respect and trust is difficult to run and maintain. If both parties want to keep the marriage chain in the marriage, it is advisable to actively communicate and exchange to find a solution to the problem. Both parties can find a suitable time and place to talk about their feelings and thoughts.

    Both sides should learn to respect each other's opinions, respect each other's personality, and build trust based on trust. If this method does not improve the marital relationship, you can seek marriage counseling or even consider divorce to find a better life path.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Mutual respect in marriage is the most important thing, if you don't respect each other, then there will definitely be conflicts, as long as you don't respect each other, then it is also an insult to his personality, so this is the most likely to cause conflicts and lead to family breakdown.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Mutual respect is the most important thing in marriage, what happens if you don't respect each other? Mutual respect in marriage is definitely the most important thing, if you don't respect two people, you will definitely be unhappy and miserable.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Marriage must be mutually respectful on both sides, and if one party does not respect the other, their marriage will not be happy.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you don't respect each other, it's likely that the marriage will break down, because it's very important to respect each other in a marriage.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you don't respect each other, the other party won't respect you, and the relationship between the two of you will be over.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If the other party is not respected, they will feel cold, and they will feel that they have no status in the family, which will affect each other's feelings.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It will disappoint the other person, and finally despair, lose faith in this marriage, and the blow to the family is devastating

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    <> marriage, mutual respect is the most important thing, do you think so? Husband and wife get along, unlike in love, they can lose their temper willfully, and they can say break up when they are unhappy. Husband and wife are the foundation of a family, and only husband and wife can have a home.

    When it comes to getting along as a husband and wife, I think respecting each other is the most important thing. Because they know how to respect each other, they will accommodate him, understand him, and tolerate and tolerate him. Changing the other party, this is not very likely.

    The other person's personality and temper are not formed in a day or two, so they are not so easy to change by you. However, if he knows how to respect you, he will naturally start by changing himself. For example, when he sees your hard work for this family, he will control his temper and stop calling you around; Or, he respects all your decisions and is no longer a man of will.

    If the other party does not respect you, there must be one party in this relationship who is humble and wronged. Such a family cannot be called harmonious and perfect. Therefore, respect each other, love is equal, and in an equal relationship, you can love for a longer time.

    It takes a long time for two people to run in with each other from knowing each other to falling in love, and it takes a long time to run in with each other, not that one party will obey him for what he says, there are things that the two of them discuss each other, understand each other, and there is nothing that cannot be passed, of course, there is one party who wants to impose their thoughts on each other, it is conceivable, no one wants to listen to him who is at the mercy of him, if it is imposed on others and is not convinced, then the war cannot be avoided, and the family is not peaceful, so the two respect each other, have something to discuss, and the family and everything is prosperous, which is the right way. Instead of changing the other person, it is better to change yourself. If you are not willing to change for the sake of marriage, what reason is there to ask the other party to change?

    If you really can't accept some aspects of the other party, don't hesitate to separate early. It's more important to respect each other. Respecting the other person is respecting one's choice of spouse, but in fact respecting oneself.

    Don't lose the bottom line and trample on each other's dignity just because the relationship between husband and wife is close. The trampling on dignity is irreversible in the damage of the conjugal relationship.

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