What does it mean if a girl is unwilling to marry a boy? Does it mean that you don t love that guy?

There is a person who has always been good to you, but you don't like him. Is it possible to marry such a person? This is the confusion of many nubile girls who want to find someone who loves them and loves him to marry him, but he never appears.

There is a person who has always been good to him, but he doesn't like him. When you reach the age of marriage, your family has been urging you to get married, can you marry him? My opinion is:

If you just don't like him, instead of hating and repelling him, marry him. A like-minded marriage is a beautiful thing in life, but married life is full of disasters; It doesn't matter if the two of them are married, their married life is dull and they can be seen everywhere forever. Just because you're in a good relationship before marriage doesn't mean you'll be happy after marriage.

There are many examples of this in life. This is also why many people feel that after a person gets married, it is like a different person. The combination of friend Xiaoyan and lover is a natural result, and the two sweetly talked about their love for less than two years and entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.

Everyone thought they would love each other forever, but reality disappointed everyone. After less than three years of marriage, they divorced. Xiao Yan said that this man's gentleness before marriage was an illusion, and soon after marriage, he showed his true face, lazy and stingy.

Xiaoyan wants to work hard for two years and get promoted before having a baby. But the man's parents have been insisting that Xiaoyan have a baby now and keep putting pressure on them. The male protagonist listens to his parents, smiles and faces his heart is higher than the sky, and his life is thinner than paper.

A woman who always wants to be an official is not a good woman. In the end, Xiao Yan ended this noisy and painful marriage, and the two parted ways. Before marriage, the harmony of two people is largely due to the fact that one party is between each other; After getting married, two people constantly clash because one party is unwilling to accommodate the other, and the illusion that two people live in harmony is difficult to maintain.

Before <> got married, they were indifferent to each other and didn't even like each other. However, after the negotiation of real life after marriage, they have a perfect understanding and harmonious relationship. My cousin, she has a job, she's beautiful.

For a girl like her, it is not difficult to find a partner, but finding a partner can make parents worry to death. There were a lot of boys chasing her, but she didn't like any of them. Either because they're short, or because they don't work well, or because they have a terrible parent, or because they're too stupid to talk ......In short, all kinds of nitpickiness, all kinds of nastyness.

Many boys chased her for a while, felt hopeless, and gave up. In their unit, there is only one boy who always cares for her silently, but never bothers her.

Yes, only if a girl marries a boy who is particularly good to him, then he will be very happy after marriage, and girls may fall in love with each other after marriage.

I don't think girls will marry her, because under normal circumstances, girls will only marry someone they love, because they think that if they do this, they will be happy for the rest of their lives.

I think this girl is very likely to marry each other, in a relationship, if a boy is particularly good at ability, and is also very good to the girl, then the girl will also be moved.

From the bottom of their hearts, men usually want to delay their marriage with someone they are in love with. Of course, some families are feudal, pay attention to the orders of their parents, and want to settle with people who can complement the family business, which leads to some marital tragedies. Although the twisted melon is not sweet, the strong parents also have to drive the duck to the shelf and force the cow's head to drink water.

This kind of marriage makes the husband and wife become strangers or quarrel for a long time. Even if it is a bitter fruit, you can only chew it alone.

Not mentally prepared: Don't think that you will be very excited when you suddenly say that you want to get married, you say it so suddenly, it will be like a sudden attack on a man, love is not the same as marriage, a man wants to get married, you have to give him enough mental preparation, you can't think of surprise him, not to tell men is easy to be scared away by you.

In the relationship, there are really a lot of men, he is obviously married, but he will still mess around outside, tell you that he is single, talk to you about love, and look like he likes you so much.

A man who has already been married, since he is already married, then of course he has no way to marry you again.

In real life, even if some people don't love you and don't like you at all, they can still pretend to be big and talk about love with you, and even say a lot of love words to you, pretending to like you very much.

Pretend to be affectionate, but just to make you believe in him, to make you willing to be with him, and to be especially good to him.

He can pretend to like you and get along with you for a while, but in his heart, he doesn't really have any special feelings for you, and he doesn't want to continue with you for a long time.

Since he didn't think about being serious from the beginning, didn't think about how long he wanted to be with you, and when you were planning for the future, he was just thinking about leaving, then it was normal that he didn't want to marry you.

There are many reasons in this case, the first is that I am not optimistic about you, the second is that I don't believe you, and the third is to watch the after-effects. Hand blue.

This question should be a phenomenon that speaks to the present.

The reasons why women are reluctant to marry men are as follows:1If a man can't find it well, it's equivalent to finding a young master for himself2In case you find someone who is irresponsible and incapable, you have to deal with the affairs of two families, and you also have to earn money to support more people3

Third, there are many things that women can solve by themselves, even if they can't be solved? Spending money can also be solved, because many times it is better not to marry than to marry, and the probability of losing the gambling is too high, so I would rather choose not to marry.

If you marry a man you don't love, then your life may be boring. But these can also be created on their own.

1. A man who doesn't love himself may not think about himself.

If you have reached the age of marriage before you meet love, then your family will definitely arrange a family affair for you, so that you can marry a man who does not love you, and the possible man is also very good, but she will not bring much change to your life, because he has not yet gotten used to a person who does not love him, so he will not think about you, he will also get used to his own behavior before, do his own, and do not care about your existence.

Second, it may be a respectful relationship. There are no surprises in life.

If two people are not together because of love, then, their lives may be orderly, respectful of each other, as long as they do their own things well, can maintain a good life of a family, then the life of this family has no surprises, I also did what I should do for this family, and I will not pay for the other half. Although it is said that two people who do not love each other are married together, but getting along for a long time also requires the maintenance of a certain amount of affection from the old waiter, so sometimes you may feel lonely and lonely without a trace of the excitement of life.

3. You may want to fall in love with this man and live a loving life.

Sometimes the woman will feel that she is married to the other party, so she will live a good life and go on, because a life is very long, since I haven't found love, I am with you, then I have to be responsible for you, because she is also a part of this family now, so sometimes she will have illusions about each other, want the other party to fall in love with herself, and she will also fall in love with each other, and maintain the family together, so that the family has feelings and temperature, Therefore, I hope that two people who are together without feelings can cultivate their feelings in the future, live a good life, and make their lives more meaningful.

There are constant quarrels in the marriage, and it is very annoying.

When a woman marries a person she doesn't like, the two people will not be happy together, and they often argue over trivial things, such days give people a feeling of restlessness, and even a cold war for a little thing, and in serious cases, they will fight, so when a woman chooses her own marriage, she must polish her eyes and choose a person she really likes.

Life is very dull, and I feel that life is meaningless.

With people I don't like, I'm not happy every day, I always feel that life is not fun, no matter what I do, I'm bored, when I'm unhappy, I don't want to talk to him, sometimes I feel very lonely, and even feel that I have no meaning in life.

The family is unhappy, which is not conducive to the growth of the child.

Because the husband and wife are not in harmony, resulting in unhappy marriage, children will not feel happy when they grow up in this kind of family, which will make the child's personality become more and more introverted, and even dare not communicate with others, so that it will especially affect the child's physical and mental health, and the child will not feel the love of his parents.

No matter what, when a woman chooses her own marriage, she must think carefully about whether the man in front of her really likes her, whether she can really make her happy, whether she can grow old with him, and whether she can go on happily all the time, instead of getting married for the sake of getting married, in the end, it is not only herself who is hurt but also the person closest to her.

The touched marriage is not long, Cha Hui's real love will make his heart spark of love, don't joke about your marriage, life is just a few decades and you haven't sold it, women must be good to themselves, otherwise they will be hurt in the end, and the saddest thing is themselves, after all, no one can really feel sorry for you at that time, and your marriage is your decision.