When there is no goal to strive for, people s subconscious is not aiming for childhood

Yes.. I think you've heard something like that, haven't you? A person's childhood can affect a person's entire life.

His character. His temperament. A lot of his stuff was decided at that time.

The average family is not good or too good. The child's personality is not good. And the environment is not conducive to growth.

And there is about the subconscious. It's not about childhood. It's just something that everyone has all the time.

Well. Man has an ego. The self.

and the superego. The ego is a child who wants to eat an apple right away. This is the primitive temperament.

I think of my mother saying that you can't eat without washing your hands. So I went to wash my hands and apples. The superego.

Seeing that my mother came back from work and worked hard, I took the freshly washed apples for my mother to eat. This is the superego. It's the same way people do things.

First there was a willingness. Desires and impulses. With that comes sanity.

Go to constant quantity. Do it if you can. If you don't wait, you're going to go against your original wishes.

Do the right thing too.

Simply say something I don't know if you mean to ask. Because what you say is also more chaotic... Let's talk about it. You can add me to indicate that it's you, Yuqing.

One thing you have to know is that you have already opened your mind, don't make the previous ideas your big framework, now is not that if you want to go to college, only college has the best way out, you have to accept new ideas, grow, let your mind fly, accept new ideals.

It depends on the individual's intellectual experience, since it is the subconscious Freud interprets it as a repressed event. This event should still come from the individual's own knowledge and experience, personal opinion.

First you have to know yourself.

What kind of person do you want to be, and what kind of merit do you want to have? For you to work hard for the person you want, make a plan for yourself in time, never give up when you encounter difficulties, and give yourself a goal that is, now you have only one way to go, that is, to do it is to die, if you don't do it, you will die, maybe you are still alive if you do it? Only in this way will you grow, You said that your memory is not good, there are also ways, such as saving the other things you promised to the phone, setting the time, and the phone will remind you when the time comes, so you won't solve it?

I heard that turmeric can erase your painful feeling, but you won't forget it, you can only get rid of your painful feeling, buy a bottle and try it, you can eat ginger, but it is only five percent of the content.

You think you don't have a goal, but in fact you do, on the surface you may be confused, but you must also be unwilling, or want to get something, these have become your subconscious goals!

Isn't it that you have to do nothing in this world, because the development of our human society has a bright future, and the development of modern society is fast.

Answer, it may be that adaptability can't be combined, friend, I don't know how old you are, I think you are still so young, you can set a goal for yourself, for example, looking for a beautiful and beautiful girl, love each other for a lifetime, although such a goal is short-term, but it is difficult for ordinary people to do!

You're living to have something to eat, go home and wash and sleep, and our goal is to have something to eat.

This is normal, and it may generally be because your life is too unexciting and the amount of information you receive is not large enough, causing you to be temporarily at a loss. When you grow up a little more, if you have any people or things that you envy, you can live for it.

Aren't you still alive, and why do you have to ask so many "whys". How tiring.

What do you think is someone else's goal?

A lot of these subconscious pains, anxieties, and fears in childhood will naturally be resolved when they grow up with the increase of a person's growth experience, experience, knowledge, and wisdom. Even in rare cases, as long as they do not make further negative associations, they are generally in a normal state of mind and do not cause excessive harm to people.

"Life is a repetition of childhood" is only a figurative understanding of psychoanalysis, not the basic idea of the psychoanalytic wheel. This means that childhood impressions have an important impact on a person's life, and the memories left behind are profound. But it's not that the whole life is childhood, that's not what it means.

Psychoanalysis itself needs to be viewed dialectically, and this basic view has been constantly questioned, and many scholars and experts are refining and revising this theory, and Freud himself due to the limitations of the times, we also need to take the essence of his views and discard the dross. For example, he related people's subconscious and conscious minds to "sex", and all activities are based on "sex" - obviously wrong. Therefore, we should not believe all of them, but look at them rationally.

As for the trauma of being beaten, it is just an impression that remains in the memory, and if you keep thinking about it, reminiscing, living in the past and not being able to get rid of it, this is called "creating a similar situation again". This is also the only way in which impressions of the past affect the present – recollection. So, as long as you don't think about this trauma, it doesn't make any difference.

But if you can't help yourself with reminiscing, that's a different story.

Although this statement is pessimistic, it is not unreasonable.

The way we get along with others, the way we love others, and the experiences we feel when we encounter things are all learned when we were young, and many inherent personalities have already been formed subtly. This personality is influencing my current life.

If the current external environment is determined by a person's luck and circumstances, then how to deal with it and how to exert influence to achieve a specific result is determined by the various habits and personalities that have been formed in childhood. And the latter often plays a greater role than the former, so it is said that the whole life is a repetition of childhood.

Of course, it is not what your childhood is, but what your life must be. Different people choose different choices. Children who have also been subjected to violence in childhood may choose to be abusers when they grow up, while others choose not to commit violence against their offspring.

Some people can't get out of the shadow of childhood in their lifetime, and some people can still recognize and break the influence of childhood through hard work. At the end of the day, everyone wants to have the life they want, not a life that is limited by childhood.

What is childhood? It is to live in the present, not attached to the past, and ignorant of the future.

If life is a repetition of childhood, then we are now adults, and we will live in the present when we are old in the future, and we will not be nostalgic for the past or look forward to the future. Do we really?

No, when we are adults, we will be nostalgic for the past, we will look forward to the future, and sometimes we don't appreciate living in the present anymore.

So we will have one more thing than we were in childhood - pain.

At the same time, there is one more ability - change.

Similar scenarios may arise, but you have experienced the pain, you have a greater power to change, and you can control yourself from repeating the trauma.

The power of change is in your hands, and it is a sign that you say goodbye to your childhood and truly mature.

Chinese Scientific Hypnosis Dream Interpretation Center - Dream Interpreter Gesang.

This notion was systematically challenged by Sartre, and it was often cited as a pretext for relinquishing one's own freedom and responsibility. It is acknowledged that childhood experiences determine the pattern of the world of human experience to a certain extent, but pure reflection can perceive this pattern to a certain extent and adjust and change it.

When you want to find strength from memories but can't get it, that feeling is really helpless, as if there is no way out, but fortunately you find that because of the unhappiness of childhood, you have affected yourself, and created your bad personality and hobbies. Then you should not sigh, but try to change it, because its existence is nothing to your determination to change it? It's very small, when you find it and stare at it, but you retreat and run away, it's everywhere, because in your subconscious, it's still as strong as yesterday, you're still that weak child, but the reality is that you're an adult, it's still the same as it was back then, you have to remember that it's time for you to conquer it, because your power has far surpassed it, let it be your slave, you know, when your balance of power has changed, your roles should be reversed, How a pity you are still cocooning yourself in the hotbed of yesterday.

You were scared to face your shortcomings yesterday, didn't you? So today, when you were lazy yesterday to reform your own shortcomings, did you face it? Then go and hold on once today When you act more and more, your strength will awaken from the depths of distant memory, and when you bravely take a step, your life will change, you will no longer be the child in the shadow of yesterday, you will gain strength, happiness, warmth and joy.

Here, I wish you a happy day!!

Indeed, there is no good childhood that will leave a certain impact on people's hearts, just look at how you look at this thing on the road in the future, don't think about the pain of the past, and don't let yourself leave regrets on the road in the future! Try to think about some good things, so that you don't think about those unhappy things, and don't let yourself live in the shadow of your childhood, because you still have a long way to go! Go for it!

Believe that you can do better!! I support you, and I hope you can go through this road well, so that you will not be disappointed in your twilight years!

There are countless possibilities in life, and only you can decide how you want to go. Only by working hard can you understand your own possibilities. Some people say:

People are like a seed, even if you don't know what seed it is, as long as you keep watering, fertilizing, and growing patiently, you will definitely give birth to beautiful flowers. "In fact, the vitality of the seed is very strong, just like people. A day, a month, a year, forever...

It [you] can wait, because there will always be a day when it will bloom. Let the past pass, only the future, the future is what you have to grasp!

Work hard, character is only one aspect. Competence is self-cultivated.