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Don't focus too much on that, let it go. There may be some people in your class who are more cheerful, and they may be very enviable at that time, but there are also some people who have the same personality as you, so don't worry about anything, just be as usual and be sincere.
It's just a simple and meaningful gathering, and maybe you'll make a name for yourself at the party, after all, everyone will go their separate ways, and there will be little contact after college, and there will be no such opportunities after work. Be bold.
In short, you can be the same as before, obscure, or you can play for a long time. However, after going to college, such a personality has to be changed. Exercise yourself! University is a good stage, you can also advance it, see your performance this time, come on!
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What are you afraid of, it's not good to be popular, it means that we are special, relax, don't think about it, just like usual, smile when you see someone, even if he ignores you, you have to smile symbolically, laugh and laugh, and ignore what he does in the world. Lose face? Afraid of being embarrassed?
I'm going to let go, brother, what's the shame of that, even being a beggar on the street, it's not a shame, you're a human being, he's a human being, what's the longer he's than you? Cut, it's still your own psychology, be your true self, have nothing to do with others, don't care about other people's eyes, that will attract more attention!
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If someone invites you, go ahead, and you don't have to talk much, just do it as usual, don't talk much, do whatever you have to do. If you're afraid of embarrassment, don't go.
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Let go, it's not a big deal, in fact, you don't have so many people paying attention, and others are not more noble than you, don't be nervous. Be honest with people, everyone likes honest children. As usual, don't be too ostentatious, and there will be no problem.
I feel that the most important thing for you now is to prepare for the college entrance examination, you don't have to think too much about it, if you do well in the exam, your natural popularity will be good, and people like to be with excellent people who are stronger than you.
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The words are elegant, generous and kind! A normal heart is usually a heart, too! ~~
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It's a paradox ... It's also a very annoying question ...
Actually, it's you who overcomplicate things ... It seems easy for you to come into contact with a male friend... It's not going to be that kind of attitude of ignoring you.,In addition to the fact that you're not the same kind of person.,There's also a question of whether it's a new semester or not.,It's not that you haven't played and talked with them.,And it's honest and trustworthy to treat people with sincerity.,It's enough to do this.,If you haven't already.。。。
Don't worry, it means your friend hasn't come yet... Isn't there a saying that is good, what should come will come... It's just a matter of time!!
It's still a bit hard to make good friends... But in a situation like you, you're scaring yourself ... Is it so serious, the psychiatrist has come out, I think you are more introverted?
None of the trade-offs you say are good... It's a complex question, and it's also a very simple question, depending on how complicated and simple I think of it... Listen carefully to the class during class, talk to them after class, and contact them more soon, and there will be more contact with them.
For example, with homework.,Say I want to chat with you.。。 Or something that people don't want to talk about,。。
Don't you care if Nasha is going home... Go home and review what you've learned.
When you play, let go and play.,But it's better to pay attention to it.,Don't play.,Forget yourself.。。。
Although the popularity is good, but you can't meet good friends, no matter how good the popularity is, it is in vain.
It's good if you study well.,Naturally, someone is looking for you.,But that's the person who likes to read.,And there's the thing you have to know what kind of person you are.,Personality or something.。。。 It's still very easy to understand how to make friends by playing these games, and you don't have to make friends in your own class.
However, it's better to focus on learning, students are mainly learning, but it's still the same sentence, learn when you should study, and have fun when you should play. . . .
I wish you more and more progress in your studies and grow as long as possible...
Having said so much, I hope it will help you, and if you don't understand, ask me again.
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This requires a higher emotional intelligence, after all, everyone together should also raise each other's nuclear reform care, help each other, and be able to consider problems from the perspective of others when they are more lenient, and there will be more friends who are judged.
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Because they look down on their classmates, the most important thing is that they are afraid that their classmates will find him to do things, so they do not participate in class reunions.
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80% of class reunions depend on whether they mix well or not. It's rare to say there's that kind. If you don't mix well, you can go up and join in the fun.
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Because people who are not good at mixing may be able to get help when they participate in the class reunion, maybe some classmates will take the initiative to help, which is not certain.
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Because many people who mix poorly rely on their classmates and then bring them up, just for their own interests.
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Because by participating in class reunions, these people can get what they want, such as connections and the like.
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My classmates think that I am a very good person, and I have many advantages, and they also think that my popularity is related to my personal temperament. And they all enjoyed socializing with me.
In fact, I think that being popular does not mean being tactful, nor does it rely on creating an illusion to make others like. Good popularity is a kind of realm, and life is easier to go smoothly.
A person who is truly popular is a person who treats others sincerely. They always attract a lot of attention and approach to them and always create a win-win situation.
People who are popular do not mean that they are well-connected. But as long as they want to network, they can easily achieve their goals. People who are popular are willing to help others.
As a result, others are willing to lend a helping hand in their difficult moments, thus forming a good interpersonal relationship. I found that there are still a lot of people around me who are very popular.
They are popular because they have good self-cultivation. As the saying goes, things are grouped and people are grouped. What kind of person you are determines who you can associate with.
The temperament revealed in a person's bones cannot be covered, and his positive energy is bound to attract the attention of others.
And those who are popular are very gregarious and can often be lenient with others. And tolerance and humility are always the best way to interact with others. To be lenient with others is not to blindly tolerate the mistakes of others, but to be able to push one's own thoughts and feelings to others.
What you don't want to do, others probably don't want either. What you want to do, others may not want to. They learn to seek common ground while reserving differences, communicate with others with a tolerant and inclusive attitude, and good luck will always come uninvited.
Although my classmates recognized my popularity, I felt that I was not doing enough. Because there are people who are popular, their hearts are simply too kind.
They are always there to help others when they need them most, and when the road is uneven, they draw their swords to help. I feel that people who help others are always helped by others. I will also learn more from them in the future.
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They think it's normal. Because I'm usually very arrogant, I can talk to anyone, and it's normal for me to have a good temper and good popularity.
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They think this is a very normal thing, and the popularity of people who are very arrogant is very good.
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I think it's normal, everyone is classmates, they are relatively simple, and they are willing to give, which is why they have so many friends.
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They think I'm popular because I often bring them food, and some people are quirky and always make them find new fun.
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My classmates are very envious of my popularity, of course, my personality is more cheerful and lively, and I can get along with everyone, so everyone's relationship is very good.
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My classmates will think that my good relationship is normal, because they actually have a good relationship with me.
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They are very envious of my good popularity, no matter what kind of environment I go to, I can quickly get along with the people around me.
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My classmates are very envious of my good popularity, because they all think that I am a very good person, I have many friends, and many people will help me when I talk when I encounter difficulties.
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1. A sense of humor, people like to have fun in life, if there is always a wooden person around you, how can life be interesting.
2. Consider the problem from the standpoint of others, always consider what you say, and don't let others think that you are sarcastic or ridiculed.
3. Respect others, no one will be with a person who is self-righteous and does not consider the feelings of others 4. Enthusiasm, you have to learn to be enthusiastic about anyone, then people will also be enthusiastic about you 5. Participate in more activities and let others know you.
6. Help others.
Another important thing is that you love to laugh and be optimistic, and when you are constantly faced with sincere laughter, you will definitely enjoy being with that person.
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Learn to respect others, learn to be humble to others, learn to see the good in others and praise them. That's it.
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Take the initiative to talk to everyone and have a good attitude!
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Talk to your classmates and open your heart!!
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Chat more and understand their needs. Help them.
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Hehe. Spend more time with everyone. Actively participate in activities. Communicate more with your classmates when you have nothing to do.
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Take the initiative to communicate with everyone, be friendly, and don't put on a feeling of superiority.
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