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For women, love can be their everything. As long as it's her true love, she can give up anything. It's not that a woman with a boyfriend will be happy, everything has a good side and a bad side, it just depends on how everyone understands it.
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Not necessarily, sometimes women make trouble, it's really annoying, today I was depressed and old, come to the Internet to relieve boredom.
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I didn't look for a girlfriend, if I was looking for a girlfriend just to play (to meet my physical needs), I don't think it was necessary, at least you don't have that capital, I recommend watching McDowell's "Why True Love Needs to Wait".
By the way, what do you mean by happiness?? Sexual pleasure??
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It's just that emotionally not alone, with someone to accompany you. But not necessarily good for his career and body.
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It's good to pull, at least I think it is.
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The New Year's Eve is a sharp pile, which has no substantive significance.
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I also found out that many female college students around us would rather be in the dormitory than come out to fall in love, mainly because they realized it and sobered up, and there was no result in falling in love in college, and they broke up after graduation, and they didn't want to waste their feelings
In fact, many college students are always sober and have not been carried away by love, everyone has the ability to think independently, so they must treat the issue of love rationally.
Is it necessary to fall in love during college, but also respect everyone's ideas and needs, and don't treat this matter as a task to complete, because in addition to love, there are many meaningful things that can be accomplished during college.
Not only academic studies, but also various social practices and club activities, etc., are the best times to improve one's ability, and during this time, you should strive to obtain some certificates to pave the way for future employment.
Instead of wanting to fall in love with what kind of person Fu Wang wants, it is better to plan what kind of path you want to take in the future and plan in advance.
If you are in love during college, you should take your relationship seriously.
Everyone has their own ideas, and there are many benefits to falling in love during college on the basis of not delaying your studies.
For example, you can improve your emotional intelligence, and you can also think about your own emotional outlook, two people accompany each other, and work together to make the future better, and good love is indeed beneficial.
But I'm afraid of encountering some bad relationships, like some people who fall in love for the sake of falling in love, the moment of graduation is often the time to break up, and the consequences of not cherishing the relationship are destined to hurt.
When falling in love, you should also be rational and objective, think about whether two people can go on for a long time, whether the future plan is consistent, no matter how you choose, the mentality is still very important.
Regardless of whether you are in love in college or not, college life is very beautiful, freshmen who have just entered the university should enjoy the four years of college, grasp their youth, I wish you all a happy start to school, and the future is like a great bargain!
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Many people will tell you not to fall in love when you were a student. Falling in love will affect your studies, and if you can't get into college, then you won't have a good way out in the future.
A person understands loving and being loved very early. He may not be very successful, but he will definitely not do very bad things in his life and become a very bad person.
The author talked about his first love in the second year of junior high school. I had a second love affair in high school. The author gives you some advice:
1.If you fall in love with someone, love to the fullest, don't dwell on it, don't regret it. Otherwise, you will regret it years later.
2.If you want to get into a good university in the future, you still have to put your mind away. Because falling in love will definitely affect learning.
But how deep the impact is depends on how well you grasp it. Poor grasp can indeed affect your progression. The author didn't go to college because of love.
There are also some regrets. But I also have a new life because of it.
3.College may not allow you to learn a lot, but it will certainly broaden your horizons. It allows you to see things that others can't.
If you drop out of school early, you may be limited to a small area. The circle will also be much smaller. So measure the balance between love and study.
4.No one dictates your future. The key is whether you dare to go on without scruples.
There is no right or wrong choice for you. Choose carefully before choosing, and go all out after choosing. Love and study are not mutually exclusive.
It can also be mutually reinforcing. The key is to take advantage of it. If you can't grasp the degree, the author recommends that you focus on your studies, and if you can, you can do it simultaneously.
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It's up to you to make your choice, for some people career is more important, while some people think love is more important.
There are those who say that there is nothing more important than success and fame, that man lives in this world, that leaving is a glorious name, even if he is asked to give up everything to reach our goal without hesitation, what love, in his opinion, the family is just a dead cloud that can be completely ignored!
Others say that the most important thing in the world is family emotion and perception. Only successful people with happy families are successful people. On the contrary, those who pursue material desires, fame and fortune tend to lose their way.
The more power they have, the more greedy they become. Finally, they are pursuing the pinnacle of their careers. In this process, there is no affection, no family affection, no love, and eventually goes to the abyss of sin.
Of course, everyone has their own attitude towards life, we don't know who is right and who is wrong, but everyone has their own choice.
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Answer: Personally, I think that studies are more important, because studies are careers from another perspective, and boys can take better care of girls after they have a career, how can they support their girlfriends without a career?
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Objectively speaking, girlfriends are unstable, and it is easy to change because of something, but not only academics, but the knowledge and skills you learn will always be yours.
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''It's all important!'' It depends on the individual, academics. Girlfriend, at your age, you promise to do well, you can have both. If you really want to compare, your studies are more realistic and realistic.
If you have to choose, choose the one you like.
My personal advice is: study your studies! Be good to yourself in the future.
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Love and school are not contradictory, just like you ask which is more important to eat and sleep. Handle it well, complement each other, promote each other, and help each other; If you don't handle it well, you will not only waste your studies, but also lose your love. Don't be careless. There is no one that is most important, only which is more important.
When it comes to which question is more important, it depends on what stage of life you are in. The student stage, as the name suggests, is, of course, academically oriented, and academics are more important. Learning knowledge, practicing skills, and improving ability are the prerequisites for your success, and they are also the foundation for you to harvest high-quality marriage and love.
As a college student, of course, you understand this truth, and you will consciously correct your academic and romantic relationship. If you have a clear distinction between priorities and priorities, you will be able to deal with the problems existing in love and study well.
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Love has always been the icing on the cake. Many people will think that a college without love is imperfect, but if it is really fate that has not arrived, we can't force a relationship, that is the real imperfection. I have a friend, after graduating from college, I met a person I loved when I was working, and it happened that the two people had similar temperaments and personalities, and their family backgrounds were similar, and they got married not long after falling in love, and they also had a child soon after marriage, and they are now living quite well.
I think if she had found someone to fall in love with in college, maybe she wouldn't have had this good marriage. In fact, the imperfection of a college without love is just a statement, and it is never the expression of imperfection, but the desire to express everyone's desire for love.
Therefore, I think it is more important to study academically. In fact, there are a lot of knowledge points learned in college, and teachers will not chew up a knowledge point in class and teach it to you again and again like in junior high school and high school, and many of them need to be understood by themselves. We also need to enrich ourselves as soon as possible in order to continue to enter graduate school after graduation, or to find a good job.
Even if we don't think about these practical things, our studies are the first thing we need to complete, and they should be put first in our first place. You must know that if you can't complete your studies, you won't have a good result after so many years of hard study, and you may have to waste time rereading, which is completely unnecessary. As for love, it's fate, you don't have to force what you can't meet, and you'll be together when you meet.
Of course, it doesn't mean that you should be a nerd because your studies are important. After all, college is also equivalent to a small society, we can no longer continue to be children who "don't listen to things outside the window", but should learn to take the initiative to integrate into society, to accept new things, to communicate with people, just to say that college students still have to put their studies first.
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Of course, academics are the most important, because this is related to the employment after graduation, an excellent student still has a certain advantage in employment, but love can be talked about at any time, the key is that campus love generally does not last long.
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For students, academics are always the most important, if a college student only cares about falling in love, then he may fail the course, so he may not get a graduation certificate, which will have a very bad impact on life, and the gains outweigh the losses.
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Do you still need to ask about this? It must be that studies are more important, and only by studying hard, learning knowledge, and finding a good job will you have more confidence to fall in love.
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I think that academics are more important, because when we are in college, we should study hard, calm down and find experience, and get close to society.
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It must be that studies are more important, but if you use your college time to fall in love, there is really no practical meaning, and it is not too late to learn the knowledge and find a good job to fall in love.
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For college students, academic studies are definitely important, and only in the case of good academic learning, you can fall in love appropriately and increase your emotional world.
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Of course, studies are important, because after graduating from college, everyone will go their separate ways, and studies are linked to their future careers, and they can't lose their future lives because of illusory love.
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In fact, for college students, it should be more important to study, because after all, it is related to their future.
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Of course, studies are more important, only by accumulating solid professional knowledge in the university can you graduate smoothly, and it is easier to find a job in the society, only in this way can you have the capital to fall in love.
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I think my studies are more important. Only when college students complete their studies can they fulfill their responsibilities. Draw a complete end to your college career.
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Personally, I think it's important to study, I'm not saying that love is not important, your love life is good, at least it means that your interpersonal skills are there, because you can get along with someone so well.
But as one teacher said, the task now is to study, and falling in love is something that should have been done before high school. Many people may think it's a joke, but when you think about it, it's really true.
We in China are currently exam-oriented education, which means that the knowledge we learned in the past is really one-sided, sometimes even useless, and what is really helpful for our future career and work is the knowledge we have learned in college, which can be the content taught by the teacher you understand in class, or the content of the books you are interested in borrowing from the library. I was impressed that people said that even if you don't read, it's good to go to the library, and that's good for you.
Love is not love a lot of times, I am also a person who is in love, so it's not that I can't eat grapes and feel sour, I now regret that I was too impulsive to fall in love at that time, I also regret that I wasted so many valuable resources and time in college, I am now studying hard, I want to recover my previous losses, and I am constantly reading the books I am interested in, we should understand some in all aspects, and a cursory look is good, enrich my self-cultivation, and I will not be ignorant.
The important thing for college students is to be broad and specialized, wide is to dabble in a wide range of fields, and to specialize in their own majors, and to look at relevant academic **, it is good for you.
I'm working hard now, I hope what I said will help you, and you can handle your studies and feelings well, but in the end, we don't rely on feelings, but strength, your current love can you definitely accompany you through your life? But learning is different, it may give you a chance to do wonders at any time!
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College love will involve marriage, and marriage will involve career, so girls will choose self-motivated career men. If you are a boy, study hard so that your love will come with your career. If you are a girl, the person you love is a waste material, please re-elect or be independent because of hard work, if the person you love is a career man, you can value love a little, but you can't be too bad in your studies or career, and boys don't like corrupt female ......That's all.
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Personally, I think that when you fall in love in college, there is no absolute should or shouldn't, everyone's emotional experience is different, you shouldn't deliberately pursue it or avoid it, when love comes to you, sometimes you can't refuse, but you must not look at others who have boyfriends and girlfriends, out of vanity, just find one at random and solve the face problem. As for the practicality of college students falling in love, in fact, the feelings of the student era are relatively innocent, some people will say that it is too unrealistic, it depends on how you choose, the key is whether you want emotional love or rational love, and if you want emotional love, you don't have to think too much about realistic things, because love may be your powerful motivation, and you can work hard to get everything without it (material aspects); If you want rational love, then you should start to be rational in college, you should consider all factors, including spiritual and material aspects you have to think clearly, so there is nothing to say, nothing to do, everyone has their own way of living, the key is to recognize what kind of love you want?
Personally, I support this point of view, because the love of college students is very simple, and the love in college students is also very sincere and realistic.