When old cadres encounter new problems, everyone helps analyze and analyze

Here are three possibilities:

1. People already have their hearts, and it will not be good for you to be entangled any longer, I hope you will seriously investigate and collect evidence.

2. Congratulations, you have become a person of the year in the hospital, it is estimated that many people want to marry you, among them may be her good friends or people she cares about, so you should figure it out, so the investigation is also more troublesome, you can't just ask one person, what if that person is interesting to you?

3, this girl is too focused on the right door, so you should boldly let go and chase it. People must be worried that you fancy her appearance, and you will have to think about it if you change your mind in the future.

Personally, I think that judging from her performance, the second possibility is very high, and it is YY....

The reason why she is sensitive to your passions is because there are big differences in your personalities.

If you want you to be together in the future, you have to start with the basics.

Starting from the details, women pay attention to details!

Don't worry, there are still opportunities to meet.

It's okay not to be a couple, but to be friends.

The fate of the future is in your own hands.

Don't be in a hurry, it takes time, and you will love over time.

It's good to have a time to ask here and talk to her alone--

What do you like about her?

What does she like about you?

Is she really the type that women like?

There are a lot of questions to figure out by yourself in the form of a judge.

Otherwise, when you confess, she won't agree to you, and now the old Chongyuan is here.

Don't. Do your own thing.

Be yourself. See what she will say1

Why didn't the first chase succeed, what did she tell you?

What was the reason for the failure of the second bend friend's confession, and why did she disagree?

So those two failures, and now you're back, has what she didn't like changed?

Smiling at you shows that she doesn't hate you, she should have told her parents about you chasing her, and her parents think you're good. That's why her parents persuaded their daughter, maybe the girl thinks that you are okay after thinking about it. But it also depends on your hard work, on your performance.

First of all, you have to do a good job and be a help to his parents, and then you have to be good to her and create opportunities to get together, which can be done by her cousin.

Give him some space, let him calm down, care about it occasionally, and don't have to do anything to accompany him silently.

Fate, some fate can't be said, what can she do at that time?

Yes, look at RVs, but a car of hundreds of thousands is nothing.

At the very least, this girl likes to have a car and a house.

What do blind dates look at without looking at conditions, but at character? What can you see in such a short time? Everyone has their own criteria for choosing a mate, and now there are a few who don't look at the conditions for getting married, and the boy's choice of daughter-in-law also depends on the conditions, appearance, work, and all conditions! This is normal!

The car will be loaded.

It is estimated that there are more arrears than the previous ones.

The woman is vain and short-sighted. Just look at what's in front of you.

This is also fate. The birth date has long been predestined. No matter what she thinks, as long as it comes to fate, it will naturally come true. So you don't care about the influence that this society has on you, you should see the essence, what you are pursuing in your heart. Something you should have in your life.

150,000 is a vegetable cart, the house must be good, and whoever you look for has to buy a house, these are the foundations. Which girl will consider the material basis of the object.,And then see if it's suitable in all aspects of personality.。。。

Conditions are just one of the factors, and when two people are together, there are many things that can be affected. Suggest specific problems and analyze them on a case-by-case basis.

Not necessarily, it may be that this girl with a house and a car has seen the right eye.

Not necessarily, besides, the basic material needs are also necessary, and the car is not expensive, okay, this is not too much to ask.

For example, the condition for a girl to find a partner is that she has a house and a car, and people can look at it well. As a result, the first few encounters were just pleasing to the eye, and the later encounter was not only pleasing to the eye, but also had RVs, and the life was stable. In this way, does it depend on the conditions? Like you asked.

Almost! Matter matters!

On the surface, doesn't it just look at the conditions? But the important thing is that she just looks at the conditions. That is to say, while looking at the conditions, she also pays attention to the character of the other party and so on.

If you just look at the conditions and don't care about anything else, of course it's not good, even if you are together, there will be tragedy. I guess she won't.

In addition, there is nothing wrong with looking at the conditions, it is a good thing that the conditions are good, as the saying goes, poor couples mourn everything. It's a good idea to find the right person within a good range, but you can't ignore that you must also be a person who meets this condition. Otherwise, the consequences will not be good.

In fact, if you are afraid that your family, relatives and friends will ask you questions, or make irresponsible remarks about you, I am similar to you. I don't like to be with my family or relatives and friends, I don't like to communicate with them, I don't like them to ask this, that, say that, say that, and say that. There are a lot of friends outside, you can say whatever you want, you can do whatever you want, and the kind of relaxation and freedom outside is not like the kind at home.

Upstairs, how do you know that introverts don't have self-confidence! Please, don't look down on people like this, okay!!

I'm similar to you in personality.,Very introverted.,I grew up growing up with a bad learner and being scolded for being stupid.,The latter is the opposite of you.,I'm very wary of people unless it's a very familiar person.,I won't talk to him much.。

I think this kind of problem we have is more or less related to our own family and growth environment. You should probably be safe and bold to communicate with acquaintances, don't worry about them saying what you think, don't be afraid that they will laugh at you, anything is the first time is the hardest, I believe you just need to take the initiative to talk to them once, and later.

Finding a job with the help of relatives and friends may cause you stress, whether you feel that you must do a good job, and if you are enough, you will live up to the expectations of others, so you will be more restrained when getting along with colleagues.

Or because this kind of colleague is related to relatives and friends, so they can't be treated as strangers, so it will feel a little embarrassing.

To paraphrase Liu Yong's words: If you have the courage to fight privately, you must be cowardly in public fighting, and if you have the courage to fight in public, you must be cowardly in private fightingIn fact, I appreciate your character very much, and it doesn't matter if you are timid about your family and family affairs (everything related to the family).

Modern children are "little emperors" at home, "little quails" outside, and when they grow up, they are weak to outsiders and extremely commanding to their parents, brothers and sisters. This kind of talent is useless.

Hehe, rest assured, you are a cowardly person, only you have the determination to be independent. Everything will be fine with you in no time!!

Little brother, this is a psychological problem!

You care too much about what others think of you, you don't study well, it's likely that you're too talkative! Or not interested.

For example, some people have strong abstract thinking ability, can understand more complex and boring theories, some people have strong visual thinking ability, language talent, etc., there are almost no perfect people, your parents, relatives and friends, Ken Ben does not understand what pedagogy is, what is encouragement, they only see a certain aspect of you, and they talk nonsense. What a mistake!

You have to remember the saying that everyone has a certain ability that surpasses or is superior to others.

As long as you find out, many people say that the internal item is not good, I don't agree with such a statement, we can only say at most, the person who is the external item is suitable for engagement, interpersonal relationships, playing tricks, bullying the weak, playing slippery, there are shortcomings, there must be advantages, vice versa, there are advantages and there must be shortcomings, even the great *** has shortcomings, not to mention those of us?

Friends look for your strengths, learn more, broaden your knowledge, look at success", "weaknesses of human nature", "advantages of human nature", "good life", "happy life", "great people", "secrets of friendship" and "the brilliance of human nature".

In this world, there are no real stupid people, but lazy people abound, hoping that you will find your strengths and work hard. Hope you have a bright future!

Our friends at Baidu believe in you, as long as you are diligent and hardworking, you will definitely succeed!

Are you confident?? Confidence is so introverted?? This also allows your family to find you a job, and most introverts have low self-esteem

This question seems to be a little difficult, but I think, it may be that you have not studied well since you were a child, relatives and friends think you are stupid, and at the same time, you yourself also feel that you are a stupid child in the eyes of your relatives, then of course you will feel little confidence in front of them, and you will not take the initiative to communicate with them, over time, your relationship with them will be distant, resulting in the current situation, in fact, it's nothing, you may be psychologically putting pressure on yourself, relax, nothing, don't have any worries, Believe in your own abilities, and have fun!

Switch roles and transform them into characters where you can talk. (that is, irrelevant people) and the other is that oneself is oneself, and one's mood will not change with others. If you want to increase your self-confidence, think about doing things that make you feel confident.

Because your family knows your past, and the unrelated people don't know your past. Now that you have grown up, when your family chats together, they often talk about some things from the past, and you will hate and resent yourself when you were a child. Is that right?

It will make you have such a behavior because your academic performance was not good in the past, and you were a little self-prepared, coupled with the transition of the home environment at that time, which suppressed you, which made your self-preparedness more serious. I used to be the same as you, I couldn't communicate well with the family people, but I still tried to communicate, once it didn't work, just twice, two times it was three times, and slowly my family's sense of me before also changed, as long as you communicate a few more times, it will be fine. The past is the past after all, and it may leave others with a handle and a laughing stock, but those are the past, and we can't always live in the past!

In fact, sometimes it is quite fun to reminisce with your family and reminisce about the past, and it is also the best time to communicate with each other!

First of all, congratulations, the child you found is serious about your feelings, so he will consider you, and his caution is also responsible for your relationship. That's a good thing, you have to think about it.

Secondly, through your narrative, you can basically judge that she has a good impression of you, so you don't have to be confused, after all, you have known each other for a short time, and your confession is relatively early.

In the end, I hope you can get through this period of confusion and hold on for some more time, so-called"Good things are grinding"Besides, you've been together for such a short time, and you'll be able to get a clear hint from her, which is good, and you'll win her heart in the near future!

What's there to be confused about, it's normal, she's already starting to accept you, but she has a lot of concerns. At this time, you need to care, care, understand, and tolerate her, and don't hurt her unintentionally.

First: To be a man, you must take the initiative and know how to take responsibility, if you say it, you have to count it, and if you really love, you will let go of everything and rush out of your small universe.

Second: She is worried about whether you will be like her boyfriend, so it proves that she still has a good impression of you, and you just lack initiative. Take the initiative again, such as eating together, playing, shopping, chatting (**) and so on.

It is recommended to care for her every day, she is very insecure.

Third: If you have done all this, and she is still very worried, or give you a vague answer, you may wish to separate the two parties for a while, and when she feels that you are already an indispensable part of her life, all that is missing is your deliberate and unintentional hand-holding, or an impulsive hug or kiss on a rainy day.

Fourth: If you really love her, please cherish her, I heard that every girl is an angel, just waiting for your appearance and folded their own wings.

I still hope you stick to it, it's not easy to like someone, but it's hard to forget someone, since you have chosen to start, don't give up the love you want easily.

It's normal to have problems with relationships. She must have feelings for you, what she said last night did imply that you gave up, but you didn't think about rejecting you because the girl was afraid of hurting, in fact, this can show that you still have a chance, she was hurt last time then you come to help her repair the wound, this girl is just afraid that you will break her heart, so if you are really with her, you can't hurt his heart, this is an opportunity, take advantage of it!

I'm so confused, I'm confused, it's only been a week.

There must be feelings, and she didn't mean to let you give up, but said that if you continue to chase, you will definitely agree.