What to save yourself? Urgent!!!

I think you really care about him, and you always want him to be in tune with you, and if there's something out of tune, you'll rush first without looking for a reason. In general, you are quick-tempered and somewhat self-centered. It's also important to note that your behavior pattern (which can also be called habitual behavior) has been formed, and you just need to change your pattern to get along with your boyfriend.

You make this post, it means that you are aware of the problem, which is good, you have taken the first step towards success. So, what you should do:

1.First of all, remember that love is two-sided, he should try his best to maintain coordination with you, but you should also take the initiative to communicate and coordinate with him, once the coordination fails, then the responsibility is on both sides, you can't blindly blame him, you are also responsible!

2.Secondly, there is what you need to do, which is to control your emotions. You say that emotions cannot be controlled, but this is not the case, a normal person can control his emotions, but sometimes he does not control them on the grounds that he is "quick temper" and "I am such a person", and he does not want to admit that he can control it.

Of course, this is because controlling your emotions is really uncomfortable :) but your impulsiveness will cause unpleasant and even regretful results, and you have to control it!! Try it out, you got it!

I can help you with specific emotional control: going from normal to angry is a process after all, and you can ask yourself sensibly when you feel angry (or just starting to get angry), do I want to hurt him? Am I going to hurt our feelings?

Do I really not care about the consequences? Then hold your breath and spit it out again and try to calm yourself down and tell yourself that it's not a big deal, and then talk about it calmly after a while

See if such an approach works for you?

Always remember what's important and don't let the moments get the hang of it.

Psychology students stay.

Don't always say that you know it's wrong but you just can't control it, it's just a reason, a reason you give yourself. If you really care about the relationship and really want to reverse the situation, you can definitely do it.

The first thing you have to do is sit down and really think about what you're doing this for. If you continue like this, will it affect your relationship? If one day he can't control his emotions, will your relationship be seriously hurt?

After thinking about it, you will understand the harm of your actions. Maybe you just indulged your impulses too much, and your boyfriend's love for you made him tolerate it, but romantic infatuation will always become rational and peaceful, and when that day comes, will he continue to tolerate it?

After understanding this, you should pay attention to your inner feelings, and when you feel angry and angry, you should tell yourself to be calm, not only in words and actions, but also to think calmly and rationally about your reactions in your heart.

If the above advice makes sense to you, but it's not easy to implement. Then you can do this at the same time, every night before going to sleep to record your number of times of loss of control in a day, specifically note down the reason for your anger, the conclusion of reflection, your boyfriend's reaction and how to improve next time, try it, I believe that after a month, your boyfriend will definitely feel your progress, as long as you do it.

Your situation shows that you really love him. Because I was afraid of losing him, I was suspicious.

It also shows that he loves you too. He knows that your temper is like this, so he doesn't argue with you, and it's good to tolerate you, but if it's the same as you, it's bad.

And you have to try to control your own temper, true love will not be doubted, or when he is no longer tolerant of you, it will prove that he no longer loves you.

I don't think that's the case for you.

I'm sure you'll be fine.

Then you are the over-the-fire of love

You have angels in your mind.

He loves you, you love him, you can't trust him, it proves that you don't love him, you don't don't believe him

You don't believe in yourself

I feel like you still don't love him.

What are the consequences of not being able to believe him?

What are the consequences of believing him?

Choose!!!

Flex: bend "Lan" means wave.

Steep and steep, turn over.

Perseverance Perseverance: Engraving Suppression of Hunger and Oak Caution Suppression: Lowering the beam and burning low.

First of all, you first extend AE to BC to get point F.

abc+∠bcd+∠2=180 46+64+∠2=180

2 = 70 1 = 2 (the number of logarithmic angles is equal).

a+∠1+∠afc=180 70+28+∠afc=180

afc=82

afd+∠afc=180 82+∠afd=180

afd=98

def+∠d+∠afd=180 98+12+∠def=180

def=70

aed+∠def=180 70+∠aed=180

aed=110

Because the angle BCD = 46 degrees.

Angle abc = 64 degrees.

So angle 2 = 180 degrees - angle bcd - angle abc = 70 degrees and angle 1 = angle 2 = 70 degrees.

Because angle a = 28 degrees, angle d = 12 degrees, inner angle acd = 360 degrees - angle a - angle d - angle 1

So the inner angle AED = 360 degrees - 28 degrees - 12 degrees - 70 degrees = 360-110

Then the angle between AE and ED is 360 degrees-250 degrees = 110 degrees.

Angle 1 is equal to angle 2 is equal to 70 degrees.

The angle e is equal to the angle A plus the angle D plus the angle 1 is equal to 110 degrees.

In college, try to participate in extracurricular activities as much as possible, many of them have to communicate when doing activities, of course, now we have to learn to work hard to communicate, why work hard, because this is also a knowledge, but also need to exercise, not reading books can solve problems, in the process of communication, learn how others communicate, how to use words, the same words, everyone said the effect is different.

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