The choice between love and not love? How to choose between love and not love?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I will choose the person I love, even if I give, it is a kind of beauty, which also requires a lot of determination, but I didn't even think about it at the beginning.

    Now that you know who you don't love, if you choose him, you have to face him every day, can you stand it? What's more, you have to hold hands or something.

    So I will choose the hunger I love, and it would be best if he loved you too.

    If not, then there is a difficulty, and perhaps only such a relationship is unforgettable.

    These are my personal opinions, just for your reference.

    As for how to choose, it depends on your own specific situation.

    But I hope you are cautious, if you miss it, you won't come back, think clearly, don't regret your choice, no matter what the consequences, choose to love you, then you are a happy little woman, if you choose what you love, then you may love all over the body.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Loving and being loved is a feeling and happiness!

    Don't say anything about loving and being loved!

    Love is the happiness you pay for your pursuit! Love is the pursuit of dreams! Love is active! Being loved is passive! If you don't love the person who loves you, can you accept it!

    So find the love you're looking for! Be worthy of yourself! Worthy of your own life! There is no happiness to pursue if you choose to be loved!

    Please love your loved ones! Remove all obstacles to pursue your love!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    M: Choose the person you love, I believe that will always be your goal.

    F: Choose the person who loves you, he will love you for the rest of your life, isn't it happier?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If I had to start all over again, I would choose the one who loves me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, we often hear things like this, but these are not so absolute. Love, sometimes a person is very hard, but, always, the feeling of happiness is always much more than anything else! Since, why give up so easily if you love, since you have chosen, why not work harder!

    Choose someone who loves you and you love it, it must be perfect, but how can there be so many perfect things in the world, don't you have to fight for it yourself, and work hard for yourself!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's best to have both, but in real life it often backfires, but as long as you manage a relationship with your heart, I believe that whether you choose the person you love or the person who loves you, you will be very happy!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on whether the person I love loves me or not, she loves me, and of course I choose her.

    I don't love someone I won't choose.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you are a woman, it is advisable to choose someone who loves you.

    If you are a man, then work hard for the people you love.

    It is best to be happy with each other, a great thing in life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, how to say this problem, it is normal to encounter this kind of thing. There are always some hiccups in a person's life.

    The same thing happens to different people and will have different results.

    In the face of love, I hope you can bravely pursue your own happiness, there is no regret medicine in the world, and if you miss it, you will not come back.

    But there are gains and losses. Only when you get it will you know what you have lost. In the same way, you don't know what you once you have once you have lost.

    If I were you, I would choose love, because if that person still treats you as a friend and really likes that girl, he will bless you. Otherwise, his love is selfish.

    Don't think too much, everything will take its course, and there is a solution to everything.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What is love???

    Love can be said to be the existence that controls everything, and it can also be said that it is not

    Don't ask if love exists or not

    The question that should be asked is whether they believe in true love with each other

    If both believe in the existence of true love, and each other can not seek to live together but to die together, is this considered true love? I think it's better to forget it, so we're very satisfied and happy with each other

    If they don't believe in the existence of love, then they believe in material money, and they won't talk about love or not love, and they don't have the word love in their hearts

    There is also the fact that one party believes in each other and one party does not believe, just like now, which makes people feel suspicious, tired and reluctant!

    How to choose whether to love or not depends on what kind of person you are and what kind of love you need

    Remember that there is no reason why you can't let go, you can't let go now, but there is still hope, but you are not willing to give up

    If there is really no hope but despair, there will be no such thing as not being able to let go, and there is no need to let go at that time, right???

    Good luck

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

    Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, when he loves you, he really loves you, but when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, you can't take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, because we don't believe in each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

    knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

    Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

    When making a promise, be careful not to make a promise that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember: "Unfulfillable promises are the most moving".

    In love, one thing is said and another is done;

    The speaker does not believe, and neither does the listener....

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, love is very hazy, but the only thing I know is that love is the pillar of a person's spirit, because everyone longs for true love, and true love is two people's care for each other, and each other's thoughts, no matter when Hu Haolu puts his heart in each other's hearts, this is true love.

    If you love her, learn to love her silently, care about her, and prove it with actions Love is not said to be hearted, do you understand it, use your heart to pay and feel to bear It's easy to ask how true love can be so easy to get, if you really want to use your life to protect her, then use your life to prove it

    If you don't love the socks calendar, leaving is the best choice!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have the final say, rely on feeling.

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