Your ex sent you a message, do you want to get it back?

Maybe many people will have such a thought in their hearts, that is, they will care about the past very much. Here I want to say that even if the past is beautiful and the past is bad, you should not care too much, because the past has passed and will not come back, the future is still on the way, there is no need to care about the past, but it is a waste of the future beauty. The future is all that matters.

The problem of the ex, this is a wound, the love and hatred of the past, if you can't let go, you should have let go of it a long time ago. If you meet your ex and suddenly contact you one day, don't be surprised, whatever the reason, once you get it right.

Treat it rationally.

In fact, for your ex, many times you must remember such a concept. That's the ex, that's that you don't love her anymore, if you still love her, then he won't be your ex, you say? In the face of an ex, the best way to deal with it is to treat it with a normal heart.

If the other party wants to get back together with you, maybe for women, for the former man, now regret it, but still want to be together again, this is the need for a man to determine. As for the man, if he still loves her, then he might as well give himself a chance. After all, fate can't stop it.

Ignore. Perhaps politely, this is a very unfriendly way. However, it should be broken as soon as possible, and there is no need to break the thread.

For the ex, many people can't bear their own hearts, and they will always have a fantasy about their ex, but they don't know that the best way for you is to give up.

If you don't ask, don't think, or look at what happened before, just act as if you don't know anything, be a smart person, and let the past pass. When you see someone, you don't just want to be friends with your ex. Trust me, your heart will not deceive you.

So, ignoring it is the best outcome for both of you.

If I send a message to an ex-friend, I want to see if he sends a message if there is something important, if there is a major matter, I will reply to him, if it is just a normal chat, I don't think I will reply to the message.

If you have a current one now, and your ex sends you a message, I think it's better not to reply, so as to avoid misunderstanding the newcomer, causing the newcomer to think that your ex is still unfinished, and then there will be no sense of security now, there will be a sense of crisis, and then the relationship between the two of you may be in crisis. Now that you're with your current one, why bother with your ex. So I don't think it's going to go back.

If you don't have trust, then you can take a look at what your ex is looking for you. If you are looking for a reunion, then I don't think it's necessary, so as not to repeat the mistakes of the past. If he needs your help, if he is in trouble, I think you can help out of humanity.

I hope mine can be helpful to you.

Hello, let me put it this way, once I sent a message to my ex, and my ex didn't reply to me for more than a month, and finally I chose to delete my ex's message. I now think about it and I'm thankful to my ex because she didn't reply and let me know that we couldn't possibly.

What content to distribute and whether you want to continue the lead. If you want to, and the other party also has an ambiguous meaning, you can talk about it, if you don't want to, the place is also a normal message for ordinary friends to chat, you can also talk about it, except for these two situations, don't go back.

What information does this need to see? If it is insignificant, then there is no need to reply if it is something very important, then it is required.

If you don't have anything to say, don't reply, there's no need.

I think that since they are all exes, they should be okay with each other and not disturb each other.

I especially hate stalkers, and if you break up and bother others, you will only ruin your good feelings and regret knowing each other.

If you don't reply, block or delete it directly, don't drag it with mud and water.

It depends on what they are posting and what they want to express.

If you want to recover, give it back to him.

You must be clear about the fact that you have broken up, and you must be able to recognize your current relationship correctly.

To put it simply, you have to know that you are ordinary friends now, and you are not even as good as ordinary friends. So at this time, if you want to get back together, you have to show enough determination to be doubly good to him. You have to have the courage to work hard to make a difference.

If you say that you are in love, then the other party may think that you are willful, and he will suffer a little loss, for the sake of love. But now that you've all broken up, if he still gets used to you like he used to you, isn't that lacking in heart?

So, more important than chatting, you recognize that you have broken up, and assess the current situation and put yourself in the right position.

Communication is mutual. Real chat is based on equality, where two people express themselves, listen to each other, and can respect and understand each other. If you're just exporting one-sidedly, it will not only make you get the same amount of information from each other, but it will also easily cause pressure on each other.

Generally speaking, the reasons why your ex doesn't reply to your messages are none other than these points:

1. He is dissatisfied with you and has an avoidance mentality, thus alienating you.

2. He wants to dissuade you with indifference.

3. He feels guilty about you and doesn't know how to deal with himself.

4. He has lost his sense of expectation for you and doesn't want to waste time on you anymore.

These factors usually don't come alone, but come in the form of combos. So, if you want to figure out why, you have to start with introspection.

No emotion arises for no reason, so you have to think carefully about whether you have done anything to hurt him and ignore his feedback before he responds to you in this way.

It is estimated that it is a whim, and I want you to take the initiative to ask him, after all, I have lived with you for a while and understand your character.

This should be that the other party is busy, since he took the initiative to find you, there must be something, and it just so happens that now he is busy with other things.

It should be the time difference, wait a little longer, maybe there is no prompt sound.

The reason why he doesn't reply to you is because he still has a grudge against you, and some of your words and actions have hurt him in the past, and he doesn't want to deal with you or look back on that unhappy time.

Many girls think that if the other party doesn't reply to my messages, they just don't love me anymore! In fact, there is such a saying that I don't love you at every turn. Feelings are very complex things, and not everything after a breakup can be explained clearly by the word "not love".

No matter how agitated and miserable you are right now, don't continue to message your ex. Because your behavior of sending messages has caused him strong dissatisfaction, if you continue like this, you are likely to be deleted and blocked by your ex.

If an ordinary person doesn't reply to a message, it doesn't matter to us, but the fact that a loved one doesn't reply to a message can make us have a great sense of self-denial in the long wait. Many people wonder why their ex doesn't reply to messages, and eventually get used to giving themselves the most plausible explanation that seems to be "he doesn't like me anymore".

In fact, this is essentially a manifestation of self-deception, and you will subconsciously interpret not replying to messages as not caring about me. You have to realize that if you don't reply to messages≠ you are not important, and if you don't reply to messages≠ he doesn't like you anymore.

There are many situations of not replying to messages, one is not in the service area. The second is that they didn't see it, or they didn't understand it. The third is that I don't want to go back when I see it.

Fourth, I don't want to go back. No matter what the reason, since you don't go back, it means that you don't want to continue this relationship, or you have a new partner. Since you don't reply, don't send it again.

If you still can't let it go, then send it again, and if the other party still doesn't reply, you don't need to send it again, because the other party doesn't want to continue the relationship with you at all. In that case, then don't dwell on it anymore and let it go.

Not replying to messages meant that it was more painful and helpless at the time. Replying to the message means that he is a little reluctant to the past and wants to be an ordinary friend.

If you reply to messages a lot and talk about some past and future things, then it should be possible to want to get back together.

Questions. From missing contact to not replying to messages to replying to messages, what do you ask, what does he answer, but the attitude is very indifferent.

Well, then you just ask him if he wants to come back? Want to get back together?

Questions. At present, I don't dare to mention my feelings, I'm afraid that he will have mood swings and resistance, oh, I should regret it.