Why do so many people feel so na ve when they see their past selves?

It's normal,People will progress and grow.,There will be this feeling.,It means that this person has improved and changed compared to the past.,Maybe the subject hasn't reached this age.,So you'll feel curious.,There are generally secondary two in the growth.。

Age, the second year of secondary school will do a lot of childish things, pretend to say something serious, fantasize about some of the plots in the comics happening around you, and fantasize that you are the protagonist of the comics, which is very normal. When you are a little older, you will remember what you have done during this time, and you will cry and laugh at your secondary two behavior, which means that you have grown up, if you still feel that you have not changed much, and you feel that your previous self is not naïve, it may mean that you have not changed much over the years, and there has been no progress, which is a more terrible thing.

Man lives in this and follows the law of the jungle.

society, sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat.

If you don't change or make progress, you will be left behind by others, you don't want to be drowned by the trend of society, you don't want to make yourself feel naïve after many years, just let yourself mature when you're young, read more books, do more meaningful things, and mature people have to be cultivated from an early age, but often due to the lack of awareness of parents, not paying attention to children's behavioral norms, and excessive indulgence, more and more bear children in China will naturally do a lot of childish things when they are young.

People can find their own past naivety, in fact, it is a very good thing, can have such an awareness, need many aspects of literacy, such as the amount of knowledge, as mentioned above, from a young age to the reading of books, a long time to make people grow, there are global statistics pointed out that the average annual reading of Chinese is long-term at a low level of only a few or a dozen books per year, but some developed countries.

For example, in the United States and Japan, it has reached forty or fifty books, and the maturity of a nation often depends on whether they like to read books or not, so they will find that they have changed, and they feel that they were naïve before, and there are also reasons for this.

I can find that I was naïve before, which proves that I am now mature and progressive, and I hope that the subject will also have such an awareness.

There were too many things to worry about before, and we were all thinking about those things that were worth thinking about and what were not worth thinking about. Now that I have experienced more things, my natural mentality is better, and I look at my past self, of course, I will feel naïve!

At that time, I didn't know anything in elementary school, and I played with the little girl in the neighborhood and compared a lot of things. For example, my skirt is pink, my pants are new, and my braids are tied by my mother. Once there is something different from the other, I like to show off with my friends.

There is a "I have you and I am not as proud as I am" mentality. When I was a child, these things I was proud of now that I have grown up, do I think it is very naïve?

Let's talk about the mentality in junior high school, when I have an argument with a friend, I will try to overwhelm the other person, and it is not easy to admit that I am wrong. When you quarrel, you don't think about it at all, you just want to quarrel and quarrel, and you don't think about how embarrassing it is to meet after a quarrel! As for the loss of a friend in a quarrel, it is not even considered!

I remember a quarrel with my tablemate, when I was in junior high school, there was a "38 line" on the table, and she crossed that line, and the reason for the quarrel was so simple. Now that I think about it, it's really embarrassing, you push me and I yell at you, and in the end it all ends with "I won't play with you again"!

Isn't all this naïve in retrospect? Didn't you just go over the 38th line, didn't you just buy a new set of clothes, didn't you die with new toys? What are these about?

The calculating junior high school is embarrassing to think about now. Sometimes junior high school parties often joke about these trivial things and hate each other!

That is to say, when we grow up, we will feel naïve before, and if we are immature, we will not feel naïve

This is a process, saying that you are naïve and have no malice, but that you are not too mature and sophisticated, and whether you are mature or not is that you are a little immature, it is to say whether your behavior is suitable for your age. In particular, when a person enters adulthood, if his behavior is still childish, others will say that he is naïve, and he must continue to learn and improve himself, so that he can grow up at all ages. If your studies lag behind your age, there will be a phenomenon of "childishness".

But don't deliberately "improve" yourself, it's better to be true to yourself. This means that if "childishness" does not hurt others, and everyone knows the "childishness" of your behavior, you will be able to get along with each other. Of course, it's better that you can improve that, and sometimes, a person's maturity is really "innate".

If you look at the colleagues and friends around you, there are really "baby faces", and there are also people who have always been very "naïve" in personality. In conclusion, naivety is not a derogatory term, and it is not necessary to be too exclusive.

The way of thinking is not reasonable.

Sometimes, even with the accumulation of rich knowledge and broad horizons, people's thinking will still often be superficial, which is related to the way of thinking.

The accumulation of knowledge, as well as the broadening of horizons, can play a decisive role in the depth of a person's thinking, without which they can only be superficial.

The biggest difference between maturity and naivety is the mindset. The more naïve a person is, the more they have the following thinking patterns. After the age of 30, quit the four kinds of thinking, and the road of life will be wider and wider!

1. Cynical and unaccustomed to all kinds of things.

Some people say that maturity is a sign even if you learn to be "sleek" in life. "Sleek" here is not a derogatory term, not to say that it must be flattering and flattering, but to use a tactful way to make both parties more comfortable.

Some people are immature in their thinking, and they still call themselves "angry youths", they like to raise the bar, scold the sky and the air, and they don't know if they offend people. After the age of thirty, we must learn to look at things more tolerantly, even if we are not used to seeing what others do, we must learn to tolerate and treat them in a smooth way, so that we can meet the source and not offend others.

2. Being stubborn and not listening to other people's opinions.

This kind of person is self-centered in everything, blindly confident in his own ideas, and dismissive of other people's suggestions and opinions. Self-confidence is a virtue, but blind self-confidence is conceit.

If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher. On the way we grow up, everyone is the object of our learning, parents, teachers, friends, colleagues, ......Although their advice may not be correct, it is also of high reference value. The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.

Thinking from their perspective may lead to a different way of thinking.

Third, only care about throttling, do not understand open source.

This kind of person only thinks about saving money all day long, but never knows how to open up more channels to make money. But no matter how frugal you try, why can't you save money? In fact, this account is easy to calculate, if you have a fixed monthly income, no matter how much money you save, it will not exceed your income.

For people with a large pattern, instead of thinking about how to save money, it is better to find ways to make more money. Therefore, they are willing to invest in themselves and learn more skills to improve themselves. is also willing to try more areas, so Chai Xiang has the opportunity to be the first to eat crabs.

4. Lack of sense of independence and like to rely on others.

This kind of person relies on others for everything, obeys the orders of his parents since he was a child, and lives according to their arrangements step by step, and develops a bad habit of lacking a sense of independence and liking to rely on others.

As the title suggests, for a long time, every time I look back on the past, I will find that I was naïve at that time, and then I will find that I am growing every time I find myself naïve.

When I was in middle school, I felt irritable about studying, and silently decided that I must work after finishing college, but after working, the complexity of society made me realize that what adults once said was right, and I could never go back to study after work; When I was angry with my parents, I would think that I would stay away from you when I was studying and working, but one day I found that my parents who had been black hair and vitality in my memory had become vicissitudes, and there was no need to hide their gray hair...Sakura Guess sells....

So, I felt that I had grown up and matured, and I began to have my own ideas and decisions again.

I know how many years later, or at some point, when I was inspired again, I would think, "It was so naïve, so naïve." But I won't regret it, because every decision I made at this time was the result of my own serious consideration at this time, and I would be responsible for every outcome.

I will continue to grow, and I am grateful to everyone who inspires me, familiar and unfamiliar, but again, I will still be so naïve, I want to go through everything that I should go through.

Summary. Hello dear <>

Feeling naïve is actually a kind of self-awareness. Sometimes there is a certain problem with self-perception of one's own personality, and if you can improve it, it is also a good thing. The road of life is to do something to improve yourself when you realize it, and if you feel very naïve, it is good to slowly make yourself mature.

I feel like I'm naïve.

Hello dear <>

Feeling naïve is actually a kind of self-awareness. Sometimes there is a certain problem with self-perception of one's own personality, and if you can improve it, it is also a good thing. The road of life is to do something to improve yourself when you realize it, and if you feel very naïve, it is good to slowly make yourself mature.

Customize your life direction and give yourself a unique purpose. Sometimes when I am naïve, it may be because I don't seem to have any goals in life. When a person has a goal, she will work hard towards what she wants to get, and people will get a better life as long as they work hard.

Only when you have a goal in life will you have a new direction of development and know what you want to get in the future. Build your character and make yourself more mature. If you want to make yourself more mature, then you must shape a mature character for yourself.

If you don't make certain adjustments to your personality, then how can you make yourself mature? Therefore, it is quite important to build one's own character. Hope it helps you <>

First, the information you subjectively accept is more mature than that around you. To put it simply, there is already something formed in the mind, and it is more realistic to take it. I watch the beauties in movies and television every day, and I can't see the beauties around me.

For example, watching TV series, some **. These are all relatively mature views. It has invisibly affected you.

People of the same age you will naturally feel naïve.

Second, it is easy to evaluate, but it is difficult to do it yourself. As a bystander, you will feel naïve about other people's opinions and other people's actions. For example, when you watch **, you think the writing is super bad, the plot is super bad, and so on.

Brother Split is completely your own subjective evaluation. If you do it, can you make it? When you look at the children's paintings, you feel naïve, so that you can't draw as well as him.

3. Maybe your IQ is indeed higher than that around you, and your mind is more mature. Object beams.

Humans are social and social creatures.

1. Many times, the opinions put forward by others are really naïve. But don't deny others, and at the same time put forward your own opinions.

Second, sometimes there is no heart and lungs, and playing with them without IQ is also a kind of unbridled life. Just like with a child, you follow his train of thought, guide him, and make him listen to you. is the sensible thing to do.

3. People need friends. The naïve friends you think are often not witty, but the ones you don't feel naïve are the ones who are deep. It's up to you what you need.

Be friends with those people, others may think you are naïve. Fight with them, someone sells you, and you help him count the money.

Fourth, only by listening and thinking can we make progress. Some people's views may be naïve. But listening to the perspectives and questions of thinking from other people's points of view is really mature.

Sometimes when I think back to what I did a few years ago, I feel like I was so naïve that I didn't know what I was thinking at the time, and I even wanted to go back to the past and do it all over again. What is the reason for this? Why do you feel this way?

First of all, because of the increase in age, we must be more and more mature, and at the same time, when dealing with problems, we have more profound insights, and we will not simply encounter problems as before and do it directly, without thinking too much. But now we also think about the relevant interests, and even the emotions of others, and we learn to put ourselves in their shoes. And this maturity is a manifestation of what we experience, and it is also a good influence on our continuous growth.

Because people always become more mature in their minds as they get older, they feel that what happened before is very naïve.

Because people are going through all kinds of different things all the time, and as time passes, they will learn a lot and continue to grow, and the ideas of the past are a little too simple.