Do we really need friends in life to tell us what s wrong with that?

I think so, if a person doesn't do well and makes any mistakes, he actually needs to be reminded by others. Otherwise, we will never know that we are wrong, and we will never correct it, which is very detrimental to our growth and progress.

And usually, if someone you are not familiar with discovers our mistakes, not only will people not tell you about your mistakes, because people are afraid of offending you, more things are better than less things, and if you yourself hear people you don't know well like this, you will definitely not be happy. Won't anyone tell you about your shortcomings? Actually, no, I think in life, friends are the most necessary and the most effective to tell us that it is not good.

First of all, as a friend, the relationship between the two people is very good, so they can say nothing to each other, and some words can also be said without scruples, and directly point out each other's shortcomings, second, as a friend, in fact, they want to consider each other's good perspective, third, friends are the most frequent contact with our usual relationship, so they should also know us better, and they tell us our shortcomings, in fact, more clearly and objectively. I have always felt that two good friends should be alert to each other and make progress with each other, and they don't have to care if it will affect each other's relationship, as long as it is for each other's good, everything is worth it.

All in all, you should listen to other people's opinions and know your own shortcomings, and if it is proposed by a friend, you should pay more attention, after all, they see it more thoroughly and sincerely hope that you will get better.

I think that's what a true friend should be. If there are good ones, analyze them together, and point them out to your face if there are bad ones, shouldn't this be what good friends should be?

Of course, the current society is more hypocritical. There are too many people like to eat and wear between friends, to be petty bourgeoisie, to have one set in front and one in the back. I can only say that such a friend is not a friend, at least in my heart, I can't give you the position of a friend.

Because I'm just a very sincere, very simple person, who is what he is, so does hypocrisy make sense? <>

I've got a couple of good friends, and I've always been like that. We're all in this together, and we talk about everything. Of course, if I have something I don't do well, she will point it out to me and say that I don't do well in front of me.

Naturally, I won't be angry, I'm a girl who is more sensible between right and wrong, although I don't have many friends, but they are all able to speak to their hearts, and they are all very sincere friends. <>

A friend is the one you can point out to your face, share your good together, and sincerely congratulate you. There won't be too much utilitarianism mixed in, and there won't be too much jealousy. Of course, we also need such friends, who are not doing well in life, reminding you and persuading you.

Such a friend, even if we haven't seen each other for a long time, as long as we hear her voice, no matter how long we are apart, we will always feel familiar.

If you want to be a popular person, you have to listen to your friends' suggestions and opinions with the mentality of encouraging you if you have something to change.

Many people say that this is unnecessary, I am me, and we don't have to be friends if we don't like me, and don't be friends who think I'm not good. If you have always been in this state of mind, there will be fewer and fewer friends, and the friends you will leave behind will also label you as "stubborn"!

The relationship between friends requires mutual efforts, and the quality of a friendship or even the breakdown of a friendship alone cannot cause this result. Xiao Wu has a friend who is good in the world, and he is sincere enough to treat people! There is one point that Xiao Wu can't accept in particular, and he likes to be late for dating.

It's not a minute or two minutes late, it's an hour and a half an hour. It's devastating, it's acceptable to wait for one or two times, but isn't it heartbreaking to be like this every time? An otherwise beautiful date may become boring because of this lateness, and I feel a breath of anger in my heart, you made me wait so long and I can't be angry?

This is one of her shortcomings that must be said, and she calmly said it when she found a suitable opportunity, and she also listened to my opinion. After that, the date is rarely eaten, and even if you are late, it is a minute or two, which is not as exaggerated as before! She's happy, and I'm happy.

Later, she also said that if she has any shortcomings in the future, we must help her point it out.

There are some shortcomings that will make people very uncomfortable, such as not paying attention to hygiene, living habits are not very good, like to be late, like to be cheap. This kind of little problem is only pointed out by friends, if friends don't say it, do you expect outsiders to say it? It's not a good thing to get rid of these bad habits.

Some people treat their friends with such a attitude, especially when they are superior to you, and they splash cold water on you from time to time, which is actually very unpleasant. Because I always feel that the status is very unequal, if the person with strong self-esteem is even more. As the saying goes, loyalty is contrary to the ear, some things are clear to the bystander, what your friends see is indeed different from what you think, and it depends on how your friends express it, which requires the art of language.

A friend of mine always said to me that I was treated like a brother, and then I said that I was a son, and this intention was good, but I couldn't stand it, although I was not so mature in some places, but I was much better than you in other places! It is necessary for people to be neither humble nor arrogant, and it is difficult not to look down on others and not to underestimate themselves. I don't think your friend's EQ rating is high enough for his own feelings and not yours, otherwise I wouldn't hate him so much.

This is for sure, because sometimes, we ourselves belong to the present to see the problem, and our friends are in the state of spectators to bring problems, and naturally we will see it more clearly than you!

Actually, I think it's still necessary, because the role of friends is to see if there is something wrong with us from the perspective of a bystander.

On the premise of not affecting the interests of the other party, it should be able to help.

With a gesture and a good relationship, even if it is a stranger, it should choose to help, not to mention that they know each other, they can also be regarded as friends.

It's like when we go out and meet someone calling, we will also subconsciously take a look, if we are within the scope of our ability, of course we can help. This is human nature and the bottom line of morality.

This is true for strangers, let alone friends. When you are in trouble, you just open your mouth to ask the other person for help, and the other party will measure your relationship and the price paid for helping you in your heart, as long as it does not affect your own interests too much, ordinary friends will also help.

I have a friend who has never been in touch since graduating from high school, and the two of us basically do not intersect, but they live together in the county seat, and occasionally meet on the road to say hello.

I had to punch holes with an electric hammer and hang them on the wall after my wedding photos, and I really didn't know what to do. There is neither an electric hammer nor a relevant way at home, so it is not worth spending money to invite someone to come.

I asked in the group of classmates, and the friend didn't hesitate, saying that he had an electric hammer at home and came over to help me make a few holes after work at night.

I wanted to invite him to dinner in the evening, and by the way, let him help me with the work, but when he came, he said that he had already eaten, and he helped me make holes in each room and go home.

It may have been a gesture for him, but it definitely helped me a lot. I am very grateful to him, and I have been in contact with him a lot, and we have dinner with us once in a while, and now we have a good relationship.

What is the difference between an ordinary friend and a good friend? You communicate with each other often, and slowly you will become good friends, and if you don't contact for a long time, good friends will become ordinary friends.

In your life, there will not be so many big difficulties, often some bits and pieces, you can't always go to your limited number of good friends for help, they also have their own lives, it is impossible to wait for you to help anytime and anywhere.

Ordinary friends are also important in our lives, and we should value this relationship。When you encounter difficulties, don't be embarrassed to open your mouth, and believe that ordinary friends will also give you help within your ability.

Life isn't as bad as you think, trust your friends. Even ordinary friends will be willing to help you when you are in trouble

But. Not all friends are true confidants. There are ordinary friends.

Sincere friends. Friends together. A true friend is a confidant who makes oneself worthy of cherishing and trusting.

It's also about trusting yourself. Lecture on morality and credit. She is a mutual giving.

I can share your ups and downs. Be able to take the initiative to stand up and speak for you when you are most in need of help when you are most difficult. Comfort to you.

Meeting measures. Send it to you. Someone who relieves your worries.

A friend is a thoughtful person to each other. Trust. Take care.

Machine. Help. Tolerance.

The ions are far from right. Be a faithful guardian of the other party. Such a friend is a true confidant friend without any doubt.

Friend. It doesn't necessarily make sense. But you must know what you want.

It doesn't have to be inseparable. But there must be a heart-to-heart sympathy. Not necessarily dissolved.

But it must be a blessing in disguise. Not always in touch. But always keep it in mind.

Friends are on the road of your life. Especially when you're having a hard time. I'll give it to you first.

Or friends? When you're happy. Laugh and tear up with you.

In your most painful time. Hold your hand and give you strength. How's it going?

Jean, it's not about the feet. It's in friends. Help.

If you care about pigs. You go to the friend to say. and no longer indulge in it.

If you are in the midst of a painful day. You can feel your friends by your side. The man was unconsciously full.

What are you doing? Qingdao University students. So what?

That's the weight of a friend. The kind of way each of us treats our friends. It's how we give to our friends.

How do you spring up in the hearts of your friends? How to get friends in their people? Always feel the friendly battle.

There is a signpost to guide you. There is a heart that has the same hope. Cherished.

Such a friend is a true bosom friend. A person will have many friends. But.

The real ones are very few. I am able to look at each other spiritually. I was able to do it with each other.

When you're upset. Ha ha. Won't tell you either.

Specifically, there is no mutual possessiveness. When you're happy. He will also tell you about his pleasure and share it with you.

I have my own goods. You are. A confidant is a god in each other's hearts.

It is enough to have a confidant in life.

Not all friends are good friends, and not all good friends will help you when you are in trouble.

Fellowship with profit, and dissipate when profit is exhausted; Intersect with potential, and tilt when defeated; Intersect with power, and abandon power if you lose it; Fellowship with affection, and hurt if affection is broken; Only by communing with the heart can it become long-lasting.

There are not many friends, but whether they can be like-minded and whether they can know each other. Like-minded people can walk together, and confidants can trust each other.

Of course, like-mindedness does not mean that it is exactly the same, but that it seeks common ground while reserving differences and tolerates each other.

The ones who can help you are your true friends.

Generally, friends are reasonable when you are in trouble, you leave a good impression on others, you have a reputation for you, and friends can help you when you are in trouble, but you have to know the reward.

Bai in general

Friends shouldn't be too helpful to you. In our life, we will make friends with a lot of people for various reasons.

But there are not many true friends. If you can help us in our most difficult times, it must be the most sincere to you, such people should be cherished, as for those friends with ordinary relationships, they will basically be left alone, and will not go to the soup for you.

Of course, the meeting will resume. My roommates are just normal friends to me, and they don't have the same relationship with me as my girlfriends. But when I had stomach pain during my period, my roommate would take me to the teacher to ask for leave, and he would also help me hand me a cup of hot water.

When my roommate is sick, I will also accompany her to the injection, we may not be particularly close friends, but we can still help if we can.

It depends on what you need help with, if it's simpler, your friends will help, and helping others is the foundation of happiness. People you don't know will help, let alone friends.

If it is a big thing, it depends on the depth of the friendship, and good friends will help.

Yes, sometimes this friend can still help you at a critical time, but you still have to decide according to your own ability, if you have a big ability, then you can help, more strength, less ability Xiaona will help, it mainly depends on the depth of personal friendship.

In fact, it is often the friends who help you when you are in trouble, who do not have hope.