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yes, it's easy to get angry because you care. <>
I don't know why, but before I was with him, I was mostly rational when I encountered things. And I despise those girls who have zero IQ when they fall in love. But after falling in love, I found that I also became an IQ of zero.
Sometimes I don't want to be angry about a small thing, but I just can't help it. Maybe it's because of his unintentional words, and when I hear it, I think: how did he say these things, did he dislike me anymore, oh my God, why is this happening, well, since you're like this, then I'm angry.
After that, of course, a person sulked and ignored him. He knew that I was very inexplicable after I was angry, and he never understood that he had done something wrong. I got more and more angry when I heard it, and the mind was a bunch of mental activity again:
Okay, you don't even know that you're wrong, you're not sincere at all, and you don't coax me, it's clear that you don't like me and don't love me, no, I'm still angry!
Slowly, I calmed down. After calming down, he also became "kind". Knowing that he shouldn't be careful, he gets angry indiscriminately, and the relationship is rigid again.
And now that my boyfriend doesn't coax me anymore, I carefully tease him to see how he reacts. The boyfriend, of course, has a look of "great, you're finally not angry". I obediently admit my mistake, he says it's okay, and then we get back together.
After a few days, the scene was repeated. I calmed down and analyzed it carefully, and I was angry because I wasn't sure of his love for me. I care all the time about whether he loves me or not, and I am not sure about the shelf life of love.
In the final analysis, I still have no confidence in myself and this relationship. So, it's my fault after all. Now, I've slowly gotten over it.
However, sometimes I can't help but get mad.
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I believe that many boys will have such an experience: why is she angry again? How could she get angry so easily?
When you're angry, you don't care about people, and she doesn't care about you when you ask her. Actually, it's not that your girlfriend is angry, it's just that sometimes she thinks so well that she forgets that you are just a person, not a god, and everything can't be predicted.
As a girl, especially a girl who already has a boyfriend, I feel deeply emotional. In fact, it's not that we girls love to be angry, but that we girls are more emotional than you boys, and when we love it, we love it without reservation, and we love it to death. So we hope that the love we give can also be equally reciprocated, and I hope that you boys can also love us without reservation, so when our expectations do not meet what we hope in our hearts, we will be lost, we will lose our rationality, become unreasonable, and love to lose our temper.
So when your girlfriend loses her temper, don't say why you're angry again, why are you so unreasonable. You should think about it: whether you promised her today or just now, didn't do a good job, or ignored or ignored her, and then cared about her in time and admitted her mistakes.
Every day, no matter how busy you are, you have to take out ten minutes to shush her and ask for warmth, to chat with her, and to talk. Especially those couples who have gone through many springs and autumns, don't feel that she has gone through so many ups and downs with you, so you don't need to be romantic. Girls are a little vanity, and you occasionally create a little romance, which will shorten the distance between you and her.
There are also girls who are sometimes duplicitous, don't think that if she says no, she really doesn't want it, sometimes she is just afraid of spending money and feels sorry for you. If you do this, you will find that your girlfriend who used to be very angry no longer likes to lose her temper and becomes considerate and gentle.
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It's not easy to get angry because my girlfriend is very mature and she cares about me like a big sister and takes care of my emotions, so she doesn't get angry easily.
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Yes, my girlfriend is particularly prone to anger, but it's understandable that girls like that little temper like that.
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There are often boys who complain that their girlfriends love to play a little temper and often get angry because of small things. In this case, is it because the girl is ignorant, or the boy is small-minded! In fact, the fact that girls are willing to play a little temper with boys also shows that they love him!
Boys complain that girls are petty, there are too many things! In fact, the fact is that girls are somewhat petty tempered and princesses are sick, but the specific degree is different.
Besides, many of these little tempers are spoiled by boys in love, and then when they catch up, that kind of beauty disappears, and they start to complain, and they can't stand it.
Why is it that something that looked beautiful at the beginning, but after the passage of time and judgment, it has completely become a shortcoming, this is the so-called aesthetic fatigue!
The benefits of girls who love to play with their little brother's temper!
A little tempered, resentment will not accumulate, and it will not settle accounts with you.
The flowing water will not deteriorate and taste, and the rotating door shaft will not be spoiled by insects. I always heard a Chinese medicine friend say that whether it is physical or mental, the premise of health is smooth and flowing. If the meridians are not smooth, it will definitely cause qi and blood blockage and induce a disease; If the mood is not smooth, it will inevitably be depressed, which will not only make people irritable, but also cause damage to the body.
A woman's state of mind is like a pool of water, once something bad flows in, it must be discharged as soon as possible, otherwise it will accumulate into a pool of stagnant water, and it will be strange if there is no problem. Many couples who have broken up always like to dig out old accounts to blame each other, but in fact, it is the accumulation of these old accounts that have never been resolved that has brought the two to this point.
As for the wife who has a little temper, she can't hide things in her heart, and she will vent her emotions and dissatisfaction at any time, so she will not accumulate negative emotions in her heart, and the relationship between husband and wife is healthier.
In fact, how can a girl be angry about such a trivial matter, this is just a fuse, she must be dissatisfied with you something, you can't meet her requirements, you will do something wrong. Let's see what we are lacking!
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