How many grievances have you been subjected to? Have you ever been wronged?

I suffered a lot of grievances in high school, and it was also the time when I said that I was most wronged, at that time it was a residential school, so if I was bullied, and no one stood up for me, I was very weak at that time, and a lot of boys came to bully me, so I was very wronged.

A lot of grievances, when I was in elementary school, because of my poor grades, my family didn't give gifts to teachers, so the teachers treated you with a very indifferent attitude, and secondly, your classmates didn't treat you well.

Since I was a child, I have been the kind of person who has not been protected, so I feel that I have suffered a lot of grievances, such as when I go shopping, others weigh me two catties of meat less, or when I buy clothes, they buy expensive, and they don't bargain with me.

There are a lot of them, because my hometown is very patriarchal, I am a girl, when I was born, my family disliked me very much, rejected me, I didn't feel love since I was a child, and I have been doing farm work.

I have suffered a lot of grievances, and I may be wronged everywhere, so it's good to take this kind of thing lightly, and don't take it too seriously, so as not to cause my mood to be very bad.

I remember once I had a very precious book at the same table, I couldn't find it, and his book, he said it was only for one person to see, and he wronged me, didn't I take it? I was very aggrieved at that time, and then I told the teacher to adjust the monitor, but it turned out that I didn't take it, and he apologized to me.

When you are with the subject, there is a grievance that he does not feel that you are wronged, and throws you a sentence "You have to think like this, I can't help it". When I first interned, my colleagues didn't help, my superiors scolded me, and I thought about whether to quit my job.

I can't count this from childhood to adulthood, because from childhood to elementary school to university, a lot of things happened during this period, and the teacher also wronged me, but in the end, I made it clear.

Obviously, they have given a lot of themselves, and then they have done a lot for others, but they just don't understand, and then they feel that you are doing it, and there are many other things, they think that you should do it, and they don't need to be grateful.

When I was in junior high school, there was a time when I was probably very wronged, and I don't remember the specific reason. But I couldn't help but shed tears while walking with my head down, and I guess my expression was miserable. Suddenly, a voice came from the front, it was the voice of a little girl.

Little girl: Sister, what's wrong with you? It was innocent, soft and powerful, inquiring, caring.

I looked up a little and saw a little girl in a ponytail and a pink and white dress standing in front of me, tilting her head and looking up at me. There was curiosity and puzzlement in his eyes, and his expression was a little worried. I'm probably seven or eight years old.

I really couldn't help but smile gratefully, and the sense of grievance disappeared all of a sudden. I smiled with tears in my eyes and said to her, it's okay, thank you. The little girl gave me a big smile back.

In this way, there will be kindness from strangers in life from time to time, and if you look closely, this kindness will be everywhere. In my past life, I should have encountered countless kindnesses that I can't remember. But many times, we may not have time to make a return in the present, or we are so busy with study, work and life that we can't remember the good intentions of the past when we come back to our senses.

I was worried and helpless about this, and I didn't know what to do. The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring. But I don't have a good memory, so haven't I lived up to my kindness?

When I was in high school, I loved reading books that were readers' and digests. One day I accidentally came across an article, and unfortunately I forgot the author's name (Yun Bei). I only remember that there is a general meaning in the article, I helped you, no need to reciprocate, if you want to reciprocate, then the next time you see someone in trouble, you go and help others.

That passage gave me an empowerment and gave me a clear direction. I think this is the secret of goodwill. If I get help, I keep this kindness in my heart and pass it on the next time I help others.

I don't know if this kindness can be passed on to a second person, a third person, but I believe that the goodwill has been sown when it is transmitted, and it will sprout in the vast sea of people and flourish with life. Kindness is a precious treasure that has been passed down from ancient times to the present day, and it will continue to be passed on. In this world, it is not easy for everyone, and there will always be times when you are wronged, sad, helpless, confused, and confused.

I hope that when others are wronged, they can also be as fortunate as I once had to meet a "little girl" who cares, and of course I also hope that my children, lovers, relatives and friends can also be fortunate to meet such a "little girl" when they are wronged. I believe that behind the "little girl", there is a lot of goodwill.