How to pursue your friends of the opposite sex

I'll give you some of my subjective opinions, and you can listen to them.

In short, Jing Hou Jiayin.

It was too sudden.

Wait quietly on your own, don't be in a hurry, and don't put pressure on him. I still want to be the same as usual.

Step by step. Take a gentle offensive slowly.。。

You yourself have to slowly try to go from being a good friend to being a good friend ... The lover's aspect slowly changed, so maybe she would be a little more receptive.

You must have a good grasp of the proportion, the progress.

I think you may well succeed ... After all, I've known my friends for 7 years.,There's a lot of goodwill.。。

If you love, you will actively strive for it.

It doesn't matter if you fail.

You can have regrets, but don't regret them.

Everyone has a process of adapting to the role change, maybe she has always treated you as a good friend before, and she is still considering the role change, and there are two possibilities for not rejecting you: one is that she has not thought about it yet, and is considering it; The second is that you are afraid that you will not be able to make friends if you are rejected. If you really love her, take the initiative and conquer her heart, girls are naturally sensual people, you are good to her, she is not a stone, she will feel it.

Cherish, struggle is unlimited, is the pursuit, is towards the future and corrected, is to the wonderful, is to begin to comprehend, is to learn to respect knowledge.

She didn't refuse you, she promised you, you have to give her a little time, and after a while, you don't have to confess again, she will be your girlfriend, I wish you happiness!

You have a great advantage over others, you need to give her time and space, four words: be patient!

Can't wait. What is it called. Be sure to rob while it's hot.

Wrong. It's that. Oh.

Be sure to strike while the iron is hot. After a long time, not only the two people were embarrassed. You may even be a little afraid to see each other.

I've had to do this several times. I'm too timid to attack again. As a result, because of this, she was slowly estranged and even became a burden for her.

Girls love to pretend to be reserved. If you take the initiative to open her heart. Brother, I've failed n times, don't go back to my path.

The word is "etc.".

It's useless for you to be anxious now, just wait for her reply, believe you can do it... Girls have to be reserved. Hehe!

Bless you all.

I also encountered a similar problem, I think we have known each other for so many years, and after a long time, I don't have the feeling that I want to sublimate anymore, that is, I don't have the feeling I just met.

Maybe it will take time to change your habits.

Keep waiting.

Take it easy. Maybe she likes you too. It's just a bit more subtle.

What are you waiting for? As soon as you wait, her courage will be lost, and she will start to hesitate, and then you will never wait for the result

Hurry up and strike while the iron is hot. Chase.

Don't make a mistake in front of the opposite sex you like.

To be precise, it depends on how you feel about her, and if there is a favorite component in it, try to get along; If you just treat it as an ordinary friend, you can decisively refuse and not delay the other party, which can be analyzed as follows:

1. Accept the other person

Although rabbits don't eat the grass next to the nest, but after all, they have known each other for many years, and there will be more or less feelings between two people, if they refuse directly, they are likely to hurt each other, and if they are serious, friends can't do it, after all, in the eyes of some people, there is no pure friendship between men and women, either they take what they need, or they just like you.

So if you are still single at this time, you might as well try to accept each other, maybe after getting along with each other in the relationship of lovers, you will find more advantages of the other party, and under the nourishment of love, you will find that life can be so beautiful, and there is a previous friendship as a foreshadowing, there are a lot of places that need to be run-in, and the relationship is easy to heat up quickly.

2. Reject the other party

Although the relationship with the other party is very good, if it is only based on friendship and there is no trace of love, you still have to reject the other party directly. After all, sometimes the more familiar people are, the harder it is to get together.

Friendship is also commendable, two people are familiar to a certain extent, they can hook shoulders, play games together, go out to play together, as long as they don't cross the line, both parties will not take it to heart, and the requirements for each other in love are different from the requirements for friends, being friends can tolerate all the shortcomings of each other, and being a lover is not good.

In short, the feeling between friendship and love is not the same, friendship can be a big grin, although there is also mutual care, help each other, but lack of the feeling of heartbeat between lovers, and for friends of the opposite sex who have known each other for many years, in most cases it is difficult to pierce this layer of window paper, unless it is to think about the meaning of the title, one party has a different kind of feelings, and confess to each other, two people may still be together, in love or be bolder, As for the result, leave it to fate!

If you also have a crush on this friend of the opposite sex, you can be with this friend of the opposite sex, and if you do not have a crush on this friend of the opposite sex, you can choose to refuse.

I think if you like him, you can try to have a relationship, if you don't like him, choose to say it directly, clearly reject his pursuits, don't let him have hope, affect the friendship between you.

It's normal to have friends of the opposite sex pursuing you. If you accept it in your heart, look at it everywhere. If you only think of it as a friend and don't want to go further, make it clear to him.

I think you should follow your inner thoughts, if you like him you can try to have a relationship, if you don't have any feelings for him, you can choose to reject his pursuits, don't get too involved with him.

It shows that she is still very sensible, if you don't like it, if you don't like it, if you like it, you like it, but you are too absolute to say that you don't contact her.

For two friends of the opposite sex for many years, it is difficult to become an object, so it is normal to have such a result, but your behavior is too absolute, for example, never contact again, this is completely unnecessary, you chase others, others did not promise you, as a man should be generous, it is okay to continue to be friends, this girl said that it is irrational to calm down, the two should be reconciled as before, just be friends or okay.

In fact, I also have friends of the opposite sex who have been in a relationship with you for many years, and one of them is a girl I asked Bury Don't like her and chased her, but she rejected my pursuit, and was with other boys, and finally got married, even so the relationship between the two of us is still good friends.

Of course, many things are based on the ideas of two people, for example, both of you think that you don't want to be friends anymore, you can cut off contact, but if one of the two people feels that it is necessary to be friends, they can continue to be friends, after all, it is better to have one more friend in this world than one less friend.

In fact, everyone should be a real friend should be a particularly lucky thing, because in the vast sea of people, it is not easy for you to find like-minded people with yourself, especially in today's society, everyone has their own abacus in their hearts, I don't know what they are thinking, maybe what they say and what they think in their hearts is completely inconsistent, and adult friendship is based on interests.

I also have two good friends recently, and it is very easy to negotiate at work, and they usually help each other in life, since I fell in love, I did ignore a lot of them, at least there are some things in my heart that I won't tell them, because I met the most important person in my life, and it is the kind of boyfriend who is married for the purpose of marriage, during which they also said that I am heavy on sex and light friends, and I forget my friends when I have a boyfriend, because they sometimes call me out to play, but I don't have time, Or maybe I think it's happier to be with my boyfriend.

Even so, I still think that they are my best friends, because I have experienced a lot of things in the past, and I may feel some guilt about them, but for my future life, I think I still have to distinguish what kind of life I want to live in the future, friends are important, but home is the warmest harbor, this is what I say in my heart.

It is indeed the case, the best friend relationship may exist before the love, because at that time they are relatively simple and wait for the love to get married and have their own small family, put half of the energy in the family, so that there will be a very neglected place for friends, if it is a real friend does not care about this, after all, everyone has to fall in love, it is impossible to be single for a lifetime, I believe that as long as it is a friend, mutual understanding and tolerance can become the most important friend in their hearts.