How did you break up with your long time friends?

I had a friend of 15 years who broke up because of a trivial matter and ignored me because he was with someone else, because I was jealous, I was envious, when he was with someone else. It's better than when I was with me, once I tried to keep it, but I found out that I was so stupid, threesome, there must be one person who is redundant, it was originally the two of us to play together, and then there was another girl, at the beginning we got along more very well, but then there were more and more contradictions, one day they were breaking up, asking me if I agreed with me and saying no, after a long time they asked me a lot of films, in the end I will never break off the relationship, I still said no, I think they are just a momentary impulse, want to break up, But after a few months, they broke up again, and asked me if I agreed to break up! This time I agreed, I really cherish this friendship, but this time I agreed because I was really tired and didn't come, and I quit after breaking up, but the two of them got better unconsciously, and then the girl's sister also came over, and then the three of them got better, I really just envy and hate.

Then they broke up again, and then my friend of 15 years said. Why did you leave me? The girl left a word.

I'm tired of playing, haha, I think it's fun, huh.

I used to have a very good friend! When she got married, I got up early, cleaned up, and then waited for her to play ** at home, almost ten o'clock or no contact, because she married out of town, so to go with the team, I gave her **, at that time she said too busy and forgot to call me **, and when she returned to the door after three days when she came back to find me, there was a little loss at the time, thinking about waiting for her to return to the door to give her a red envelope, just at this time she was talking to others, I thought she must still talk to me on the hanging, but she didn't hang, I heard, others asked her who I am, Do you want to pick me up, she said that it doesn't matter it's actually not good, I'm just a girl she knew selling clothes when she was buying clothes, I was running a clothing store at the time, but we were classmates, in the same dormitory, and then we sat together and played for many years! She often goes to my house, and my parents like her!

But she actually said that, and when she came back to the store three days later, she came to look for me, and I didn't give her a red envelope, and I never took the initiative to contact her later, and then I didn't meet and contact.

I will leave quietly without saying a word. Because I've seen it through, because I don't want to continue to be sad. If we are together again, we will hurt each other even more.

While we haven't become enemies yet, becoming strangers first is the best ending. I don't like to accuse, I don't like to question. Because all your sadness and tears are just a ridiculous farce in the eyes of the other person who doesn't cherish you.

No matter how annoying my friends are, I'm embarrassed to block them, but they will be blocked in my heart forever. Don't try to get my heart anymore. I still smile at them, but there's no sincerity in my smile anymore.

I will still pretend to listen to them carefully, but my heart is already separated by thousands of rivers and mountains. The heart of man cannot be deceived. Whoever lied to me once, I will never believe them again.

It turned out that my heart was not as big as I thought.

We are high school alumni, her name is CC, we have a deep relationship, and we have accompanied each other in the most sincere era. When she was in college, she asked me to borrow money, and I lent her all the only 500 I had, and she said that she would pay it back in a month. I had dinner with a friend from college every day.

A month and a half later, I called ** to ask her, she was still very angry, angry that I urged her to pay back, and I had no choice but to postpone. I continued to rub the rice because I was too embarrassed to ask my family for it. I once chatted with another high school friend, and she told me whether CC was chasing stars in Wuhan or Changsha, (it would seem like a super girl was more popular) and she didn't just ask me to borrow money.

I was so angry that I told her that night: I'm eating steamed buns and pickles here, and you are chasing stars leisurely there! No, when I sponsor you, you and I will be righteous in the future.

She gave it back to me the next day.

I met a buddy after I joined the work, and I usually eat and drink well and have a good time together. He said that it was important to build a house, and I was going to get married, but Kari didn't have much money, and he decisively gave him 20,000 yuan, and he was tight. Later, when he got married, he asked him to pay back the money, and he said that the business was at a loss, and after a while, it's been almost six years now, and I haven't seen him pay back.

I rarely contact, I heard another friend say that my brother went to the bank to deposit money and sent something, and it is estimated that tens of thousands of dollars were saved! My wife and I want to buy a house this year, I don't have much money to build a house and decorate it, I'm going to ask him to pay back the money, and he said that he has no money to find an excuse to hang **, he only has a few adobe houses at home, and I can't help him! In today's society, it is easy to borrow money, and it is difficult to repay it!

Do you still think that those who usually call each other brothers are different?

When I found out that I was the last to know about her marriage and asked her why she didn't tell me, she said that because I was in school and was afraid of affecting me, I decided to break up with her, and I felt that I was abandoned by her alive. Because she doesn't know how important she is in my heart, she doesn't even say it, I feel that she has failed me, and even more so our friendship, our values are no longer the same, the Tao is different, there is no need to continue.

If my friend hurts me three or four times, I will say to him directly and face to face: "Our friendship has been ruined by you, please don't bother me in the future." Then he turned around and lit a cigarette, took a deep breath, spit out a long smoke into the sky, and then turned to him and said hello, do it yourself!

After speaking, he walked forward with steady steps.

You treat her as your best friend, you don't have any privacy for her at all, you pour out your heart and lungs for her, but she treats you with two faces, one in front of you, and then you go around saying that you are not. You must have been desperate when you felt like you were going to be completely disappointed in your friends when you found out.

This may have to happen when something completely intolerable, and it should have reached the bottom line before such a thing happens, otherwise it is an extremely sad thing to completely give up the friendship that has been there for many years, and ordinary people can't do it. I'm glad I haven't encountered anything like this yet.