How do you feel at this moment when you re in love with someone who only sees you as a confidant?

What you have brought me is an unprecedented sense of security, so that I no longer suffer from gains and losses in my relationship, and I no longer have to worry about the future. I was accustomed to your goodness, and I always thought that you would never leave me. So when we were together, I never expressed my heart frankly, I always thought that there were countless tomorrows, I always thought that if you take your time, you will understand.

I will never admit to everyone, including you, how much I care about you, and since reality is no longer along, at least let me leave a little dignity. Probably because you still have love for him, but you can't do anything about yourself. I began to be afraid, afraid that everyone who appeared in the rest of my life would not be able to compare to you, that I would never forget you for the rest of my life, and that I would never be able to like anyone else in this life.

My intellect tells me very clearly that a person who can't get it and can't do it shouldn't dwell on it, but emotions still control my emotions.

There are already several boys around me who regard me as their confidante and confide in me about the unpleasant things that happened to the girls they like, and one of them is the one I like, and when he comes to me and says that, my heart is about to break, but I still can't help but listen to him. I don't know why they come to talk to me invariably, I feel that it should be my problem, but I don't know that I have a problem, no one is chasing me, but they all come to me to talk. I feel that I am very good in all aspects, in fact, I also want to know what he needs, meet his needs within my principles, and do not let him confide in his personal feelings.

Because I feel like the more I know, the more he will treat me as his friend and will never like me because I know too much about him.

It's normal to like someone, but the scary and sad thing is that you like someone who can't possibly be with you in this life. Even after all this time, I still feel an uncontrollable pain in my heart when I hear your name be mentioned. Now I haven't bothered you anymore, and have you never thought of me again?

I can't tell you how long you've been gone, so what does it matter, whether it's a day, a month, a whole year, it doesn't seem to make a difference.

I don't like you, don't let me like you, when I realized that I liked the person around me, I refused, he was very good, there were many choices, but it would never be me, so I began to meditate this sentence in my heart "I don't like you, don't let me like you". I'd rather fall in love with a passerby than you. In this way, I will look forward to it with a small joy on the road I have to pass every day, and then forget about him as more and more people pass by as time passes.

But you, you, you, let me do what.

Pain and happiness are mixed, because the other party is already very lucky to be able to regard him as a confidant, and he can work hard slowly in the future.

I remember that there was a boy I liked very much in high school, and I had a crush on him but didn't dare to confess it. After contact, they became confidants. I don't know if I really like it, but I just love that boy's clean smile.

This procrastination of love prevented me from expecting the boy, and of course he ended up with another girl. Watch the person you like fight with her, and watch the person you like and her being coaxed by the whole class. At that moment, I could only fantasize that the heroine was myself, and the reality was to applaud them as a spectator.

Maybe there is still a little bit of fate between us, if I can have a little more courage, if you are willing to be a little more patient, will there be a different ending between us. It's a pity that the past doesn't stand up to assumptions. All the things that can't be obtained are probably stubborn.

I don't know why so much time has passed, and I still have to read you over and over again.

Before you, I didn't have any decent heart, and after you, I didn't have the pain to get out of my hands. Maybe it's hard to meet someone like you again, and I don't want to meet again, it's enough to meet one in this life. Who told me to fall in love with an impossible you?

I don't think this kind of love will be happy, if you really love him, you can try to fight for it, I think sometimes the truth can move everything.

It's not bad to be a lover and a bosom friend, and you don't have to worry that one day our relationship will become strange and distant.

In fact, many times you care about a person of the opposite sex, you don't necessarily have to be with him, maybe you have to ask yourself what you think in your heart, you try, do you want to be with him or want to be with him as a confidant,Because sometimes it's not necessarily love, but the idea of detachment from friendship lingers in your heart.

Of course, at this time, you also have to see what he thinks of you, if he wants to develop a partnership with you, then it is not impossible, because you originally had a good impression of him, both people care about each other, why not try to date each other, but the premise of dating is that you may break up, so you may not even be friends, so you must be cautious.

Or maybe you can't be together at all, you can only be confidants of each other, because sometimes even if you care about each other, but you can't be together, some things happen to love each other, but you can't cross it, the hurdle in your heart, there are always some reasonable happiness in front of you, but you feel out of reach,There are probably many things in life like this, either you are not brave enough and miss fate, or you are actually wrong and you miss friendship, so life is lingering back and forth in these two states.

Of course, whenever you have to accept your inner thoughts, you can talk to him and think about what your attitude towards each other is, how far you want each other's relationship to develop, in fact, sometimes it is really important to take a brave stepOf course, the most important thing for two people is to be honest with each other and maintain that feeling of liking each other, so that even if two people don't get together, they are happy.

If you are a confidant, there is a lot of trouble, because being a confidant will affect each other's families, how many are pure confidants and do not add any feelings other than confidants? If there are feelings other than confidants, they will involuntarily hurt each other. Being a lover, simple, the people you care about, become lovers with each other, it comes naturally, the emotional foundation is solid, it's good to care about each other, it's not wishful thinking, but when you are tired of being a lover, love will eventually become family affection, and plain is true

Of course I will choose to be his lover, who will be his confidant, this is too wronged myself.

If you really care about someone in particular. At this time, both of you are single, of course you can be lovers, if that person is not single between the two of you, then you can't fall in love, then you have to be a confidant.

If I really like him, I definitely want to be his lover, but if I care, it's better to be a confidant, because caring doesn't mean love.

In fact, in my opinion, appearance may be very important at the beginning, to be realistic, after all, this is a society that looks at faces, if the looks are not good, it is generally difficult to have a story of two people later, but once the relationship is established, after falling in love, in fact, the role of appearance is not much.

I will choose to be his lover, I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about what I once had, not to mention that it may last forever.

If he loves me, I will be his lover, and if he does not love me, I will be his confidant.

Lovers, direct confession is the best, I don't think there's anything better than falling in love.

Lovers, because it's not easy to meet such a person.