In the era when material is king, has young people s concept of love improved or regressed?

I think it's progress, after all, the times are developing, everything is constantly changing, love is the same, it is constantly improving, and young people's concept of love is also constantly improving and changing.

Although it is said that because of material reasons now, many people will pursue material, and the first criterion for many people to choose a mate is to have a house and a car, in fact, is there anything wrong with this, first of all, you should meet the basic life in order to pursue spiritual things such as love. Although some people sell their love for money and choose to marry individually, but this is only a minority, they do not represent all young people, most of the young people in front of love The most basic thing is that you have a house, even if you don't have a house, two people can work together. Therefore, young people today are no different from young people in the past, although there are material requirements for love, but it is not all.

On the contrary, I think that young people are more advanced in their pursuit of love. We always envy the people who used to love only one person in their lives, but how many people choose to forbear because of the world's vision, even if they want to divorce but can't stand the eyes and rumors of others, and at the same time they don't get divorced because of the constraints of their children. On the contrary, young people can freely choose marriage, if it is not suitable, we can divorce, we don't need to embarrass ourselves for others, and they are all good to get together and disperse.

I think this view of love is better than before, although it will cause an increase in the divorce rate in society, but it is much better than an unhappy marriage.

We always say that young people nowadays attach too much importance to materialism, but in fact, people who say this have no material foundation and come to complain, so if they have time to say that others are realistic and material, it is better to work hard and make money.

I think it's a step backwards.

In the past, love was holding hands, which meant marriage and eternity, but now even if you go to bed, it may not have results. Taking the rural areas as an example, in recent years, the bride price in the rural areas has been rising, and fewer and fewer people are willing to marry into the rural areas, which has led to the phenomenon of singles in many families. The woman generally has high requirements for the family, such as buying a car and a house in the city, and the dowry is indispensable.

Whenever I start a new relationship, I will first consider the other party's family situation, because after all, I don't want to waste my feelings in vain, and finally choose to break up because of the financial situation, I think most girls will do this.

The concept of love changes with age, when I was ignorant in junior high school, I wanted to find someone I liked, and he also liked mine, no other ideas and would not consider the future, high school was also pure love, no need to consider his background, only know that he liked, the only difference is to start thinking about whether we will be admitted to the same city in the future. Although college love is still on campus, it has begun to change gradually, because we have all grown up and begun to be linked to economic ability. From this point of view, material things have gradually become the dominant force of love.

In the end, there is no progress or regression, only reality and unreality, everyone wants to marry love, but a few people can do it, and finally marry themselves hastily under the urging of their parents and economic pressure.

Matter is like a mountain, blocking all exits, forcing you to surrender, your self-righteous love is so vulnerable in reality, in front of material, bread and love are common choices in a relationship, but in terms of reality, bread is more important.

It's just more realistic, more self-egoistic, not regressive.

Nowadays, young people's view of love is more realistic, focusing on both material and spiritual, and what they don't want is to choose a person comprehensively based on the other party's family conditions.

The 21st century is a very material era, which no one can deny, and the same is true for love, everyone feels that love seems to be becoming more and more material.

Because there are always men and women who have not succeeded in getting married because of the bride price, or men and women who cannot get married because of the garage, but in fact, it is not so material in this era, in fact, it was also very material before.

A few decades ago, your family was able to marry a good daughter-in-law if you had land, and you could exchange a good daughter-in-law for a cow, such things abounded, in fact, it was more material before, because in the past it was an arranged marriage, there was no choice for the children themselves, and the marriage was all up to the parents, which would be much more material than now.

But in comparison, there is no regression now, but a different form of matter.

And the right and wrong of the present are criticized by the future, and the arranged marriages that we have been criticizing now have criticized for not being free in the past, but we have never criticized the past about exchanging cows for daughters-in-law, because it is the same now, and there is no essential difference between marriage and the past except for the fact that free love is in love.

Why is this happening? Because everyone is poor, do you see that rich families can't get married because of this little thing, they may pay more attention to each other's spiritual and cultural level, and of course, they are also right in terms of wealth.

So a few decades later, people in the future may also criticize our current concept of love, maybe no one will lack food and clothing in the future, they will pay more attention to spiritual wealth, and they will feel that people in the past 21st century are too materialistic.

And don't you notice that most of those material marriages are in the affairs of poor families?

The concept of love is not progressive, and it is not clear.

But society has certainly progressed.

You don't see, countless men and women are hit by love.

And to work hard, work hard.

It can be seen that this effect is obvious.

People change in their environment, society is constantly becoming corrupt, they are very different, in the 60s and 70s, when it was very conservative, now it is an open society!

Because of the change of material, it has also changed some people, and there is less training.

Age gap.

Three years old a generation gap.

The generation gap determines the mind.

Different ideas have caused different views of love in different eras.

Just like everyone has their own pursuits, and everyone has their own differences.

The TV series of Parents' Love is very good-looking, but it is about losing a soldier, in this life, I think it is right. Young people's concept of love is very helpful, maybe young people nowadays will think this is a bit old-fashioned, but he does show a very realistic way to say that two people are together. There will be friction, but we must know how to resolve it, how to tolerate it?

In this way, the two of them can go to the end together. I think this TV series is very educational. Yes, young people will be very inspired.

I can still clearly feel the peaceful feeling when I was with my wife for 14 years ** "Parents' Love", this is a warm, warm, warm and good TV.

I don't want to use too gorgeous language to describe him, just like the love story between the hero and heroine played by Guo Tao and Mei Ting in the film, it doesn't need to be too gorgeous, it doesn't need to be too magnificent, ordinary is the true meaning. For today's materialistic world, I think this kind of love, which is really hard to find, is an extremely extravagant desire, if young people can understand this truth in advance through the TV series "Parents Love" decades in advance, how happy it would be.

The love story in "Parents' Love" is a very ordinary but not simple love story, ordinary because the hero and heroine are just like us, they are ordinary people, extraordinary because in that era, reform and opening up, feudal thinking has not yet been completely **, the union of husband and wife can really be because of love, it seems so unreal and false.

The concept of love in "Parents' Love" is understood by many people as a simple Jiang Defu who has endured and pampered An Jie all his life, but I think it is inaccurate. When she was young, An Jie really fantasized that her husband was: a tall, handsome and emotional prince charming, and Jiang Defu in reality was indeed a boring soldier, this kind of combination that seemed to be a little unequal from the beginning was theoretically prone to problems, so Jiang Defu chose to dote on An Jie.

But if we really watch the TV series seriously, we will find that if An Jie doesn't also love Jiang Defu, with her independent personality, how can she enjoy Jiang Defu's favor willingly? Jiang Defu, who is also a soldier, if he didn't love it from the bottom of his heart, how could he let go of the iron backbone of a soldier and pamper An Jie simply because of low self-esteem?

Therefore, the love from the bottom of my heart and the accommodation given to each other are the most real concept of love in "Parents' Love". And this concept of love is what young people really need to learn, there is no room for sand in love, but we must learn to accommodate each other.

"In the past, the days became slow, the carriages, horses, and mail were slow, and I only loved one person in my life. The lyrics in this sentence "Once Upon a Time Slow" are the realism in "Parents' Love", this drama actually tells the love story of the officer Jiang Defu and the rich lady An Jie, and the male protagonist Jiang Defu was originally just a grassroots and illiterate one, but An Jie is a rich lady and a proper literary young woman. It is conceivable that the two have experienced a lot of run-in from acquaintance to acquaintance and then to love, and the two have not only crossed the cultural barrier, but also crossed the class barrier.

So what is it about the male protagonist that attracts the female protagonist? And by what means did he climb from the bottom of society to the position of a naval officer step by step? That's right, it's ambition and courage.

You must know that in that special era, it was very difficult and even hopeless for the male protagonist from a peasant to get ahead. It is conceivable that the male protagonist Jiang Fu must have extraordinary ambition and courage.

I believe that many people will be a little puzzled when they see the later stage, won't a pair of lovers start to get tired after a long time of getting along and living? But in the love and marriage of the male protagonist Jiang Dehua and the female protagonist Anjede, boredom does not exist at all, in their decades of marriage, there are laughter and quarrels, but this will not wear down their enthusiasm and patience for love, they always treat their marriage like love.

In marriage, we need to tolerate and forbear each other, some people may say that marriage is to transform love into family affection, therefore, for their partners they have lost their initial enthusiasm, but love and family affection are separate, they are two independent existences, and only enthusiasm can sustain the two of them for a long time when they get along with their partners, the male protagonist Jiang Fu and the female protagonist An Jie are like this, I remember that there is a scene in the play where the male protagonist Jiang Fu and the female protagonist An Jie walked on the beach, although they had been married for many years at that time, But the male protagonist still wants the female protagonist to hold his hand like a little couple, even if there is no so-called sweet words, but they can also feel their full love for each other in the simple dialogue between the male protagonist and the female protagonist.

All in all, "Parents' Love" is really a good period drama, which can guide young people to treat love correctly, and it is worth vigorously promoting.

Whether judging from the script or the actors' interpretation, "Parents Love" is an excellent TV series. The whole drama is plain but very prominent in life, telling the story of our father's generation meeting, acquaintance, falling in love, getting married and spending their lives in old age.

This TV series has the following excellent points:

First, the background of the TV series is the changes from the construction of new socialism to the reform and opening up to the new century. The changes of the times are highlighted through the life of Jiang Defu's family, which is obvious and distinct. The plot responds to the times, and the changes of the times bring out contradictions, and the way of life has changed, indicating that the social changes of reform and opening up have brought people a better life.

Second, the love story of Jiang Defu and An Jie is plain and real, and it is the love of our parents and grandparents, although this kind of love is not vigorous and there is no vow, but it is real and full of life, not only the older audience likes it, but the young people also like it very much.

Third, this drama is simple and plain, without the impetuousness of urban modern dramas, he shows the beautiful side of his parents' love, what he gives to his parents is a kind of memory, and what he gives to his children is a kind of teaching. Tolerance and understanding are very important, and only with tolerance and understanding can we go in the long run, which is what "Parental Love" conveys to us. What this drama conveys to the audience is a correct and beautiful view of marriage.

Fourth, the actor plays the role in three points, the male and female protagonists are played by Guo Tao and Mei Ting from young to old, and the changes in the character's personality and behavior are perfectly interpreted by the actors, except for the protagonist, all the supporting roles are very good, and the actors themselves are experienced and precipitated very well.

In general, this is a romantic drama without too much romantic embellishment, coarse tea and light rice in this life, and a long-term marriage in feelings.