My boyfriend wants to break up with me, and I can t bear it

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you're angry, it's you looking for him, it's not him looking for you, it's not right, it's all men looking for women, it's right for him to coax you, you can see that you love him more than he loves you.

    He can't find a job What does it mean Even if it's coolie It's better than being idle Spend your money He said that he would be good to you or ashamed Don't want your money or anything Finally return to his hometown This kind of unambitious man I don't know how to say it If you are older, you will definitely say that he is not productive Really, he is 2 years younger than you I don't know if he is ignorant or selfish As for marriage, he should come to beg you If you are sure that you are willing to take care of him for the rest of your life Worry about him for the rest of your life Love him for the rest of your life Then you can take your good time and wait for him Otherwise break up Because it's not because you broke up with him because he didn't have bread, it's because he didn't love you a little more because he didn't have bread, and he didn't even promise to give you bread!

    So it is advisable to break up 1

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After so many years, it may not be able to change, if you feel that you accept it, then let's do it together. But people should be good, and you may be more coaxed in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you can stand his indifference, you don't want to break up, but I don't think it's as good as an early breakup.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Career is the foundation of life, you should know this, right?

    He has a good temper, but why doesn't he comfort you when he's angry, but asks you to take the initiative?

    You still have to make choices, these things are really hard to decide.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I were you, I would choose to separate.

    Only when you give away can you gain.

    There are definitely feelings, but the future will be long, and these are not enough.

    What's more, the situation is out of your control.

    If short-term pain can be exchanged for long-term happiness, why not?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Talk to him seriously and tell him what you think! As for the result, it doesn't matter! Or you'll always stay in his shadows

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's better to be separated from this kind of person early.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is inevitable that there will be unpleasantness with a boyfriend, which is one of the most common phenomena in couples, and we generally call it excess freshness.

    When we first fell in love, there was a little bit of freshness, some couples' freshness will slowly fade or even disappear over time, and in the end even went to the road of having to break up, and some couples have always had a sense of freshness, until they got married, they were still very happy together, and there were occasional fights in the middle, but there was no excess, and there was a situation that as the time of love increased, men and women often quarreled, and the feelings and freshness slowly began to fade. I want to break up but I can't bear it, which is a headache.

    The relationship between men and women is like a glass of water, often noisy couples, I think their lives should be very colorful, noisy and playful freshness will not disappear. If both of them behave very lightly, politely, like strangers, and have never been noisy, like boiled water, then I think such people must be very fragile in terms of feelings, because in this way, the freshness is too easy to disappear, there is neither noise nor playfulness, some are just polite, and the emotional aspect is definitely unsatisfactory, and the freshness will naturally not last long.

    Why does this happen, in a simple sentence, the freshness between your lovers still exists, you have been together for a long time, there must be love, often want to break up and reluctant couples to the final result is to get married, two people are also reluctant to go, the middle will enter a cold war, after the end of the cold war, usually two people will be reconciled as before.

    There are two scenarios in this.

    One: Two people and the first rough are as good as ever.

    Since you want to break up and are reluctant, then you won't break up, usually in this case, your boyfriend will definitely find you in advance to admit your mistakes, and then you can find a step down to forgive him, boyfriend and girlfriend are nothing more than that, two people tolerate each other, and life can live a long time to live happily.

    Two: If it really makes a fuss, the woman should choose carefully.

    It is normal for both men and women to have a little temper, and it is not without quarrels with their parents at home, and they will not be reconciled after a period of time, we do not advocate breaking up here, because breaking up hurts feelings and hurts harmony, and it is not easy to find now, maybe the next boyfriend is not as good as this, and we have to be forgiving and forgiving, and we must cherish it, but in the case of unbearable circumstances, we might as well put these three words and rethink to see what to do next.

    Of course, in the end, I still have to summarize: since I am reluctant and want to break up, then the best of both worlds is to find a boyfriend to talk to him on the basis of reluctance, and see what he thinks in his heart, or maybe my boyfriend is also reluctant, after all, the gap between men and women is so big now, for men, they must cherish you very much, so please also ask the woman to consider carefully and focus on family.

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