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Those who use color to do things with love, love with decay, and love with love are gracious. From "Mrs. Li Doesn't Want to See the Emperor". A woman who serves people by her posture will relax and decrease the favor of others once her posture ages. When the pampering is relaxed, the affection between each other is severed.

Mrs. Li doesn't want to see the emperor", selected from Han Bangu's "Hanshu Biography of Mrs. Li", which tells the story of Mrs. Li's illness after slipping and getting worse, the emperor came to visit her, but she covered the quilt and didn't let the emperor see it.

Those who do things with color will love and relax when their color declines", which means that those who serve people with their posture will disappear when their posture declines.

Meaning: A woman who probably serves people by her posture will relax and decrease the favor of others once her posture ages. When the pampering is relaxed, the affection between each other is severed.

From the historical record "The Biography of Lü Buweilie".

Excerpt from the original text: Bu Wei Yin made his sister say Mrs. said: "I heard it, and those who bring Dan books to do things with sex are weak and love relaxation."

Today's lady is the prince, who loves him very much and has no children, and does not take the flea at this time to marry himself among the sons of the virtuous and filial piety, and he is raised to think that it is appropriate for the son.

The husband is respected, and after the husband is 100 years old, the son is the king, and he will not lose his power.

Translation: Lü Buwei took the opportunity to ask Mrs. Huayang's sister to persuade Mrs. Huayang: "I heard that those who use beauty to serve others will be less favored once their lust declines.

Now, madam, you serve the prince, and are very favored, but you have no son, and do not make friends with a talented and filial man among the prince's sons at this time, and make him his heir, and treat him as if he were your own son, then if your husband is respected while he is alive, and when his husband dies, your son will succeed to the throne and will not lose his power in the end.

The meaning of this sentence is that people who serve others by virtue of their beauty and appearance will slowly become ugly when they get older, and after they become ugly, their love will not be so deep, and their love will not be so deep.

From: "The Biography of Lü Buweilie" in Sima Qian's "Historical Records", the original text is:

Bu Wei made his sister say Mrs. said: I have heard it, and those who use sex to do things will love relaxation. Today's wife is a prince, and she loves her very much but has no children.

Translation: Lü Buwei asked his sister to say to his wife, I heard that most people who serve others by virtue of their beauty and appearance slowly become ugly when they get older, and after they become ugly, their love is not so deep, and their love is not so deep, and the two of them slowly break off their righteousness. Now the lady serves the crown prince and loves each other very much, but has no children.

The upstairs explanation is flawed and should be:

Presumably, the woman who serves the person by her posture will be old, and the favor will be relaxed (the meaning of reduction). When the pampering is relaxed, the affection between each other is severed.

Fan: Probably, roughly.

Love, here should not be interpreted as love, since it is "Israel things", how can love come from?

The encounter of the singer in Bai Juyi's "Pipa Line and Prelude" is the best example of "those who do things with lust, love relaxation when lust declines, and love relaxation is gracious".

Serve people with color, love and relaxation, love relaxation and grace.

Choosing your other half can never just be based on looks. Because no matter how beautiful the skin is, it will age, and even the most beautiful face will have wrinkles. Moreover, people will have aesthetic fatigue.

No matter how beautiful things are, I feel normal when I see too much. No matter how delicious the dishes are, you will feel bored when you eat too many wheels.

The two people who accompany each other must have a sense of freshness, so that they will be romantic and long-lasting. Gone are the old days when you can learn a craft and learn knowledge for a few years to use it. Times are changing, so we must also constantly update the new knowledge structure and learn new skills.

The same goes for two people who accompany each other, even if they match at the beginning, they must be temporary, and they will eventually get bored. So both of them have to move forward. It's hard to imagine a person working hard outside and constantly updating his knowledge structure to learn new skills, only to listen to his other half talk about trivial matters of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar when he gets home.

I'm not talking about the trivial things of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, but I am saying that life can't just be trivial things about oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. Sometimes you can also be romantic. Let's discuss poetry and songs, and let's talk about life philosophy together.

People who only look at hue are too shallow. If the heart is not with you, and people run away, what can you leave behind?

People who only have hue are too sad. If your face is aging, how should you deal with yourself?

We often see reports on the corporate culture of Internet companies.

Employees are allowed to wear slippers, bring pets, watch **, and nibble on snacks to work. We are envious of that. Why would a company owner do this?

Make employees happy, stimulate their creativity, and bring competitive advantage and ultimate motivation to the enterprise. The genes of a company based on creativity and thinking are completely different from that of ordinary companies.

Historical. In the Biography of Lü Buwei, there is a cruel but very philosophical sentence: "Those who do things with lust will love relaxation when they are lustful."

It means "a person who pleases others with his beauty, and once his face ages, the love he receives will fade." In fact, in business and life, the same principle applies: a business that relies solely on pleasing customers to maintain is often not a good business.

I very much agree that if it is only to please the customer and does not bring the core value to the customer, such a service threshold is very low and will be replaced soon.

The book gives an example of an asset manager's encounter, and the customer demand is that the asset manager should be able to make money or even make a lot of money every year, and there should be no fluctuations. At this point, trying to control your portfolio volatility and cater to your clients is an almost impossible task. However, there are still many asset managers who try to control the volatility of their portfolios, and they almost all fail.

Successful asset management managers are not trying to control the portfolio, but educating clients to realize that short-term volatility is inevitable if they want to achieve higher long-term returns. If you can't adapt to high volatility in the short term, then you shouldn't be looking for high returns in the long term.

This passage is very educational.