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No. Some of the folk parenting methods are correct, but not all of them are correct, and some are still not suitable for today's children.
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I think some of the parenting methods that are circulated among the people are correct and some are not very appropriate. For example, the parenting method of "filial piety under the stick", I think it is not appropriate, hitting the child is not the right way to teach the child, it is necessary to reason with the child and communicate effectively with the child, so that the child can really be educated well.
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Certainly not all of them are correct, some parenting methods in the past are relatively not particularly scientific, or not particularly reliable, you can't blindly believe, you still have to believe in scientific methods.
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Not all. There are both right and wrong parenting methods that are circulated among the people, and it is necessary to make reasonable judgments and not blindly try.
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The issue of children's education is very troublesome, and everyone needs to be responsible for their children's education from the moment they become pregnant. As a first-time parent, the education of their children has become the top priority, and most parents do not know how to educate their children correctly.
Many parents will use verbal education when their children do something wrong, or when they want to educate their children. But if parents can do it once, the child will understand it himself, for example, let the child do the housework. Then parents may say it many times, and the child doesn't know how to do it, and when the parent does it in front of the child, the child learns, so the parent says a hundred times, it is better to do it again.
There are some parents who have their own dreams, but when they are young, they do not fulfill this dream. And when the child is born, they will impose their own ideas on the child and ask the child to help them do it, but these parents forget whether the child likes this kind of life or not. If parents forcibly impose these things on their children, it will only make the children's rebellious psychology stronger and stronger.
Therefore, it is recommended that parents must do what they do not want, do not do to others, when we can't do it ourselves, when we don't do it ourselves, don't impose it on the child, it will only make the relationship between parents and children more and more distant.
In fact, children are very fragile when they are young, and parents use violence to educate their children, which will only make children hate parents more and more, and will only make children's rebellious psychology stronger and stronger. And parents should not educate their children in crowded places, and children's self-esteem is also very strong when they are young. Some parents will also beat their children in public, maybe parents think that this is good for their children, hoping that their children will grow a memory, but the children feel that parents do not pay attention to themselves at all.
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The right way to raise children is to give the child a relaxed and happy environment and to feel the love of the mother.
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I personally think that the correct way of parenting should be carried out in stages, for example, before the age of three, the baby does not have too many ideas of their own, parents should not be too harsh on them, should give more care, more security, after the age of three when the rules are established, parents should also treat children with an equal attitude, so that they are confident and brave.
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Be sure to communicate more with your child, understand your child's true thoughts, don't force your child, care more about your child, and understand your child's emotions.
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First of all, it is necessary to choose the education method according to the child's personality, but also according to the child's age, the child's personality should be protected, and the child must learn to encourage and praise the child.
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1) Throw the missing tooth on the roof or under the bed.
When we were children, we must have experienced a period of tooth replacement, where teeth fell out automatically in order to grow new teeth. The elders in the family will ask if it is the upper or lower teeth. If it is in the upper row, the child will be taken to the side of the bed and thrown under the bed; If it's a lower row, the brother will throw the lost teeth on the roof!
It is said that if you do this, your teeth will grow out neatly. The elders will say this with the intention of envy and comfort, hoping that the child will not be sad because of this. In fact, after the tooth is lost, remember to check for other unusual conditions first
For example, bleeding does not stop, there is a foreign body in the tooth, and so on. Secondly, brush your teeth in the morning and evening when rolling dates, and make sure that there is no food residue between your teeth. In this way, the teeth will definitely remain in a "beautiful" state!
2) Nibble on the fish bones and draw a fish pattern in the cup.
When I was a child, I would be extra careful if I ate fish. If a fish bone is accidentally bitten, the elder will pick up the cup and fill it with water, then hold the bottom of the cup with three fingers, draw a fish pattern in the filled cup with chopsticks, and then slowly let the child drink the whole cup of water. Strangely, if the situation is not very serious, you will gradually stop feeling the presence of fish bones in your mouth.
When I grew up, I found that these are actually psychological effects. It is recommended that if you bite the fish bones, do not blindly believe in the soil method, if the situation is too serious or has not improved for a long time, do not hesitate to consult a professional doctor immediately!
3) Do not eat eggs before the test.
I believe most people have heard it when they were young: "Before the exam, you can't eat eggs, otherwise you will get zero eggs in the exam!" The elders would say this because both eggs and zero eggs have a relationship with the word "egg".
In fact, they also wish the children a smooth exam! Eggs can not only provide the protein that the body needs, but also refresh the mind and enhance memory. The most important thing is not to eat greasy food before the exam, and try to eat as light as possible to avoid stomach pain affecting the exam.
When you take the exam, relax and prepare for your homework, so you won't be afraid of doing too badly!
4) After eating, do not leave the rice grains on the plate.
When many people are young, if the elders of the family see that the child has finished eating, but there are some uneaten grains left on the plate, they will start to say: "When you grow up, your wife and husband will have such a grain on their faces!" It means that when the child grows up, the other half of the child will have something similar to pimples on his face.
In fact, the elders will say this, and the biggest intention is to hope that the children will not waste food. As the saying goes: "Who knows that Chinese food on the plate, every grain is fortunate."
From an early age, we must know how to cherish food and cultivate the virtue of not wasting food.
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